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Buttboy4older Desperately Seeking Grampa
Niceroundass replied to SonovPriapos's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Very nice Chapter, another step in the bonding of the three of them!! Can't wait to hear bout the Toxic Trolls and oversexed Dads and Grampas!!! -
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Bottoms: Being bred on important/significant days
YourNoLimitsBottom replied to HWhittaker's topic in General Discussion
I (a bottom) was thinking about this just now from a top's point of view. What special occasions would a top like to have a bottom around for? What got me thinking was it being football season. Servicing a top during his favorite Sunday game would be a great way to spend a day. Stripping and spending the time nude at his beck and call. Getting him drinks and snacks when he commands. Sucking him during commercial breaks and being on all fours getting plowed during the plays. His excitement getting him going wild on you, unleashing that sports aggression on your body. Any tops reading this have any special occasions they would like to share where it would be even better having a handy bottom around? -
Please help enlighten me. I have searched everything on the site and there are very few if any results. Granted this is a site for breeders, so it's not necessarily welcome here per se, but I have nothing but empathy for these poor sexually confused persons who likely want to belong and fit in so badly that they suffer not knowing it's okay to be asexual. I guess I am curious about this spectrum of sexual desire. I "don't get it" because I was never confused. It was always very clear to me my purpose. I need to be with horny men and I need to know how it feels when their manhood is throbbing and ejaculating their horny seed inside me. It's all I want frankly. So, I don't understand how others end up with any form of confusion unless there is heaps of pressure to conform to a sexually driven society...? Where does the confusion originate? Is it internal? Forgive my ignorance. What follows is the result of my chat GPT query and I found it helpful. I hope some of you do as well. βAsexuals are invisibleβ β what does that actually mean? It means: Asexuality is rarely shown, named, or modeled in society. People grow up surrounded by: β’ movies about sexual attraction β’ peers talking about sex β’ social scripts assuming desire β’ jokes, ads, music, memes centered on sexual interest β¦but almost never see someone portrayed as: β’ happy without sexual desire, β’ in a committed relationship with minimal or no sex, β’ experiencing intimacy without sexual drive, β’ not broken because they arenβt sexually motivated. So most asexual people grow up with zero mirrors. Invisibility creates internal confusion, not self-recognition. If you never see a role model, you donβt have language to describe yourself. Asexual people often think: β’ βEveryone else feels something I donβt.β β’ βIβm weird.β β’ βMaybe somethingβs wrong with me.β β’ βI just havenβt met the right person yet.β β’ βMy hormones are low, or Iβm stressed.β They explain it away rather than identify it. βΈ» β 2. Why this invisibility makes self-recognition difficult Asexuality is one of the only orientations where the absence of something is the defining experience. Thatβs hard to interpret. Hereβs how an asexual person may unintentionally hinder their own recognition: βΈ» A) They assume everyone else is lying or exaggerating about sex Because theyβve never felt sexual desire: β’ they think sexual attraction is a myth, β’ or that people only pretend to feel it, β’ or that others only want sex for closeness, not drive. So they donβt realize theyβre the exception β they think their internal experience is the norm. βΈ» B) They misinterpret lack of desire as a flaw or failing If no one explains asexuality to you, you assume: β’ βIβm broken.β β’ βIβm defective.β β’ βIβm not enough for my partner.β β’ βIβm doing something wrong.β When the mind interprets something as a defect, it pushes the truth away. You canβt accept an identity while simultaneously believing it means youβre dysfunctional. So the person hides the truth β even from themselves. βΈ» C) They get stuck in the βmaybe laterβ cycle Common thoughts: β’ βMaybe my libido will come back.β β’ βMaybe when Iβm less stressed.β β’ βMaybe when the relationship is stronger.β β’ βMaybe after this life phase calms down.β This delays self-recognition because the person expects change that never comes. βΈ» D) They mirror cultural scripts instead of internal experience Because all relationships are shown as sexual, an ace person might: β’ say βI want to be sexualβ β’ promise intimacy they donβt actually desire β’ go along with sex to feel βnormalβ β’ pretend to have a libido to keep a partner Theyβre copying what a partner expects from them, not what they genuinely feel. This is often not intentional deception β itβs internalized pressure. βΈ» E) They confuse emotional closeness with sexual attraction Asexual people feel deep affection and romantic longing, but not sexual desire. Because society conflates the two, they assume: βWhen I feel emotionally close, that must be sexual attraction.β But nothing sexual happens internally. So they mislabel their feelings β even to themselves. βΈ» F) They donβt realize thereβs a name for what they are Many asexual adults say they spent their entire life thinking: β’ βI just donβt get sex.β β’ βIβm not into that stuff.β β’ βIβm picky.β β’ βIβm slow to warm up.β β’ βI donβt need it as much.β They didnβt know βasexualityβ was an option until age 25, 35, 45, or even 60+. When you donβt have a name, you canβt claim the identity. βΈ» G) They assume their partner will leave if they say the truth This fear is extremely common. They may think: β’ βIf I tell them Iβm asexual, theyβll leave me.β β’ βIf I never initiate sex, theyβll think I donβt love them.β β’ βIf I admit I donβt feel attraction, theyβll feel abandoned.β So they perform βwantingβ β even if they never intend to initiate. This protects the relationship in their mindβ¦ β¦but harms it in reality. βΈ» β 3. Why denial is common β and not malicious Denial isnβt deception. Most asexual people who are βin denialβ are: β’ trying to fit in β’ trying not to disappoint anyone β’ hoping to feel desire someday β’ afraid of being judged β’ copying the only relational script theyβve ever seen The psychological mechanism here is avoidance of shame, not dishonesty. βΈ» β 4. How this invisibility affects YOU (the partner) You end up: β’ hearing βI want youβ without experiencing initiation β’ feeling confused because the words and behaviors mismatch β’ waiting for sexual closeness that doesnβt come β’ carrying the emotional labor of creating intimacy β’ questioning your own attractiveness β’ feeling frustration and resentment build β’ wondering if theyβre closeted, rejecting, or asexual Understanding the invisibility piece helps you see: π‘ Your partner may not be intentionally misleading you β they may simply not have the clarity or acceptance yet. βΈ» β 5. How you can work with this invisibility to promote self-acceptance Here are the best approaches: (1) Offer language without forcing labels You can say: βSome people experience emotional attraction without sexual attraction. You donβt have to decide anything today, but I want you to know thatβs a real, valid orientation β not a flaw.β This creates safety. βΈ» (2) Encourage private reflection Because shame often blocks self-realization. Offer: βYou donβt have to tell me right away. Just think about what resonates with your inner experience.β βΈ» (3) Affirm that telling the truth wonβt cause abandonment Many aces deny themselves because they fear losing their partner. You can say: βHonesty wonβt push me away. What hurts me is not knowing your truth.β βΈ» (4) Separate identity from relationship decisions People fear that identifying as asexual means the relationship must end. But you can say: βWe can figure out what works for both of us. Your identity doesnβt automatically decide our future.β This reduces panic and defensiveness. βΈ» (5) Help them feel normal Reducing shame reduces denial. βYouβre not broken. There are many people like you. This is just one way of being.β
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James and Emma, a couple from the UK, had always been curious about trying new forms of intimacy together. One evening, after a playful conversation about BDSM, they decided to explore pet crawler bondage for the first time π. Emma had done some research and carefully explained to James how the crawler worked, emphasizing safety, consent, and comfort. Before starting, they laid out all the equipment on a soft rug, ensuring there were safety scissors nearby βοΈ, and discussed boundaries. Emma playfully teased James about being the βgood little crawlerβ as he got into position πΎ, their laughter mixing with excitement. James learned the proper way to secure the crawler straps and adjust tensionβenough to feel restricted but never painful. Once set, Emma guided James through the play, showing how to move, crawl, and respond safely. Their dynamic was playful and flirty πβEmma rewarded small movements with soft touches, gentle praise, and whispered encouragements. The experience quickly turned fun and intimate rather than intimidating. As the session progressed, James and Emma experimented with gentle sensory play, including feather touches and soft restraints, always checking in on comfort and safety π«Ά. They even incorporated roleplay dialogue, laughing when James βmisbehavedβ as a playful crawler π. During a break, Emma unwrapped James from the crawler and they cuddled, enjoying the trust and closeness that came from trying something new together. They reflected on how much fun it was to explore safely and creatively, and how consent and communication made it enjoyable for both. Later that week, they browsed The Green Tanners website together for sustainable leather accessories π, joking about how their βcrawler adventuresβ could inspire some playful outfit ideas for future sessions. By the end of the evening, both felt exhilarated π«. They realized that pet crawler bondage wasnβt just about physical playβit was about trust, communication, and shared fun ππΎ. Curious? π Have you ever tried roleplay or bondage like this? Or maybe youβre thinking of starting? Drop your thoughts, tips, or questions below πβJames and Emma would love to hear how others explore safely and playfully ππ₯!
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Buttboy4older Desperately Seeking Grampa
seattlebbbtm replied to SonovPriapos's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
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kitpig replied to SonovPriapos's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
What a great new chapterβ¦ and that has now left me hoping that Grampa Zeke is the one to take Mikeyβs virginity and break him open, filling him with poz cum!! -
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That's just the way I love a Top to seed my hole. What his sperm all over inside me.
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