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Sounds to me like there was a dynamic between the 2 that you weren't aware of. My last 3 way was wih a couple in my neighborhood. I was the bottom they were using. They both fucked me, DP'ed me, blew there loads in me. Everyone had a good time and we met up again for a second hot session. The third session was as hot as first two but not sure what happened at the ending. One of the guys sprung up from the bed and announced he was taking the dog for a walk. I haven't been asked back. All I can conclude is there was a dynamic between the 2 that I was unaware of and one thought a line had been crossed. I'll stick to the organic bathhouse group sex. Less drama.

Hey guys - Fuck with the health department but understand the risk. Google the laws for your locale to know that risk. If you don't want to deal best bet is to avoid contact all together. Personally, I avoided phone contact, they ran me down at my home, took a dislike to me, questioned if I in fact notified partners, didn't like that I invoked the right of privacy of my partners (didn't refuse to give names and contact info, said I wouldn't without express permission from the partner), questioned my HIV notification policy, and went nuclear on me. They used an arcane HIV prevention law to put a restrictive order on me which was a joke - can't donate tissue or blood, no sharing needles, no unprotected sex without the permission of the partner(s). Oh and ordered me to 10 session of HIV risk reduction counselling (first session I brought in the partner study, the CDC's risk table, various statements/positions on UND and transmission risk and said counsel me, tell me where I have it wrong but do me the courtesy of providing the supporting research, position papers. He had nothing other than party line, tried to expand to risk in general - I wouldn't let him I was there against my will under court order specifically for HIV risk reduction counselling, not why I take risks in general- and it was a huge waste of time). The only positive from the experience is that through discovery for the court hearing they had to turnover their database information they had on me. The level of distain was huge and out and out expressed. Accusation of lying, drug user, words were put in my mouth, information lifted directly from my medical records (yes - I had the discussion with the doctor's office, ironically both the doctor and the nurse chose to 'retire' while following up with General Counsel on HIPPA, DOU between them and the Department, and internal documentation and patient notification for the release of info). Also saw the information they extracted from partners - 2 of them. Do I feel I was victimized by the department, the AG's office, the courts (district and appeals), my lawyer, the legislature, the system - yes, I do. But I also know I did things that didn't help my cause. I was confrontational, snippy, stand offish with each of the agents. I openly advocated the supremcy of privacy over their mission of preventing the spread of disease and protecting the health of the public. When they started the legal march I didn't take them as seriously as I should have and sought out legal counsel right away. When I did, I chose the wrong lawyer who ultimately was over her head in the hearing. Against everything in my gut, I took her advice and did not attend the hearing (civil hearing, not criminal, they could have compelled me to take the stand and give testimony against myself) and then literally cried when I read the transcripts filled with speculation, implications, innuendos, medical and epidemilogical testimony from a non expert, snide comments hand waved as extreme professionals under pressure. She allowed them to put up the dirty faggot spreading AIDS smoke screen. None of it challenged. Also not challenged the fundamental question - why were they there - it was an escalating statue - as behavior continues to show a threat, the actions they can take progress as well. THERE WERE NO ADDITIONAL ACTIONS YET THEY PROCEEDED THROUGH THE LAW. THAT WAS THE POINT OF ATTACK. She didn't and I wasn't there. The long and short - know the law for your locale and know that the laws on the books have not caught up to the science.

google 'undetectable=untransmittible' read the articles, watch the videos, read the conference precedings, see what people in charge of HIV treatment and prevention strategy are saying.

Took a spa after a total crap week at work. Lots of stress to work out and it was very therapeutic. Arrived around 5 and place was a bit quiet with the turnover between the nooner crowd and evening crowd which is fine, gives me a chance to clean up properly, tub, steam, relax, nap... Nap in the room, face down, ass up, door open was interrupted. First load, totally anonymous - no idea what the guy looked like but a nice first fuck and load. Napped a bit and took a lap - did the eye contract thing with an ultra tall twink black guy and waited back in the room for him to appear. He did not disappoint. He was ultra hung, ultra thick and ultra long lasting. Been awhile since I have been straight up pounded like that. Have had multiple recent sessions of long lasting eat, pound, shoot, repeat, but this was brutal, classic big black cook pounding white jock ass into submission. Finally blasted deep and in. It will be Thursday before I see that load again. Needed another quick nap after that one and then back up for a lap. Lounged on a bench downstairs to be cruised. Didn't take long, one of the cruisers kept displaying what looked like enormous meat under his white towel. I gave him a smile and nod and he stop. The bulge was not a towel mirage and up to the room we went. This guy was an eater. Ate my ass for a good 20 minutes which felt amazing before fucking. Nice thick white meat. He would fuck for a bit, then eat for a bit, more fucking, more eating. I was in a popper induced ecstasy haze and wasn't really caring what he did to me as long as he didn't stop. Felt him tense up on top of me and his fat mushroom get mushroomier and felt a good 4 rope pulses. He said he loved my ass and he proved it. Another quick composure nap and time for another lap. Nothing of interest really so was lounging on the downstairs bed when what strolls by but red hair, ivory skin, built, lean, 5-9... the cruisee became the cruiser. Followed him upstairs and found him in the sauna, towel open playing with his cock. He gives it a couple of tugs in my direction when I walked in so I was immediately between his legs taking over playing, sucking, feeling that tight hot body. I was sucking on his balls when he gave me the leg spread pelvis rotation 'my ass is available to you' thing. What a sweet hole. I was eating and tonguing it for all I was worth which got my popper napping penis going. The sauna started filling with 'assistants' - I flunked kindergarten and NO I didn't want to share, so a change of venue to the room for more eating and him begging me to fuck him. First on his hands and knees, what a site wide built back to a narrow waist and a plump bubble of an ass. Fast, slow, short strokes, long strokes – just enjoying jock ass. Flipped him over and was fucking him missionary – pecs, arms, abs – just beautiful. After a relatively short few minutes of fucking his cock went totally rigid and he painted his pecs and abs. How I didn’t cum, don’t know. He left to shower and I took another lap open to whatever now – top, bottom, flip it is all good. Standing at the doors of one of the video booths fascinated by the sounding video that was playing – how do those guys do that, I start getting felt up from the behind by a guy that reeked of rich kid – perfectly coifed hair, perfect tan, perfect white teeth, manicure, and just enough tone to indicate a passing interest in sport but not a slave to the gym. He pushes me into the booth and freak behind closed doors molestation was on. Deep make out, pit licking, cock sucking, ass eating and then he stood and into my ass went his cock. He got a few strokes in but with it being one of the smaller booths I suggested change of venue and up to the room we went. And this is where things took another step. He had me pull out my phone and he brought up a ‘Popperbators’ video. If you haven’t seen one, try it – it was interesting. The video plays images with a background of music and chanting and queues you to take hits of poppers at certain points. All that really mattered was that he was really into and got super hard. After a bit of this video/popper fun he had to have my ass again. Guess the video/poppers did a number on him because it wasn’t long before he was asking me where I wanted it – buried of course. Thanked him and he was off. Back to the circuit and lounging on the bench to be cruised. This time asian muscle. This was the dedicated lift for symmetry eats to the clock, cabinet full of supplements built hard muscle. Follow him into a cube and start making out with him immediately as his hands go directly to my cock... more hot muscle that wants to get fucked, score. I totally ignore his cock and direct my attention to his ass. Fingers, tongue, moaning muscle boy, he wanted to get fucked. Back to the room and that ass felt so tight, so velvety when I slid into it. Fucked him face to face so that I could make out with him – so hot and then pulled him on top of me to ride me for a bit and then sat up and did the leg wrapped around thing I love to do with smaller muscle guys. I must have been hitting the spot because wasn’t long before his ass clenched and his goo was all over our abs. Again don’t know how I didn’t shoot – I blame the popperbator session, but 0-2 on breeding muscle ass – SAD. Another lap and more bench cruisee – hot latin, woohoo United Nations night. Time to X the last box on my boy bingo card. He cruised by and stopped across from the door of the big booth. Up off the bench and into the booth we went. Hot latin twink – hung – hands directly to my ass. Make out, sucking, eventually spun me around and in his dick went for a good ol bent over in a booth pump and dump session. Thanked him and another lap and back to the cruisee bench spot. You know what they say about going to the well one too many times. ‘How’s it going’ guy plopped down next to me – you know the guy – overly inappropriately chatty, does the play by play on public sex... that guy, and on a previous visit I made the mistake of giving him the time of day because... well... he has an enormous 10 inch dick. That time was in a public area and he came at me with a condom – condoms suck bad enough, but REALLY suck on big dick - I did the hyper ass pinch and didn’t let his rubberized cock in – he was disappointed I was too tight and tense when faced with his huge cock. Not wanting to be a total asswipe I chatted with him for a few minutes and had a strong need for a drink of water and a pee and escaped the time suck (so I thought). Stayed on the move and saw ‘How’s it going’ engaged with a couple of guys so felt the dodged the bullet safe thing. Took the opportunity to steam for a bit again and then hit the room for an open door, ass up, nap again. Door closes and oh no, I hear the voice of ‘how’s it going guy’ but this time started off right and different, he started by eating my ass and then slid up to just put the tip in thing to which I bucked back immediately taking him to the root raw, gave him a couple of squeezes and began rocking on that monster. I think he was surprised and tried to back out but I kept my ass in hot pursuit. He grabbed the condom he brought in and started whining he couldn’t get it open (dick still in me). I grabbed it out of his hand like I was going to help him and tossed it on the ground and aggressively rocked on his cock. He was shooting in a couple of minutes proving he was a bareback novice. He was looking for cuddle bonding get to know you time. I did the exhausted post sex need nap thing. After spending more time hugging on my back than he spent fucking he declared a need for a shower and a tub and a promise to be back for round 2. I spent a few in the room, the hole was feeling great – except the first one it was a night of large meat, but I still hadn’t cum and my time was running short. Open the door just as a triple B (bald, black, buff) was strutting by headed for the downstairs. I had no choice but to make a play for that one. Head downstairs and set up for a face to face passing in the back hallway, I round the corner and he wasn’t there – did he double back, or cut off into a booth? No idea, just missed my opportunity. I continued my course thinking I would head back to my room and be out the door before running out of time AGAIN for once. BUT when I get to the bed, there he is face down, ass up. I stop thinking this seriously cannot be happening, time is short, I need to cum, and my archtype favorite man is laying there. No double loop, I jumped immediately on that ass and began eating it, he looked back to see who it was, smiled, spread his legs a bit more, hips up and I was IN tongue deep, liberal spit teasing that hole open abit slide up and slowly worked the head in, he bucked me off meaning more eating spit needed, before try number 2... this time in to the root and held for a couple beats, felt the hole relax around the hole and then started fucking, slowly first then picking up the pace to a steady pound to the delight of the now formed studio audience. I would not be denied this time, I felt the brew in the balls, the swell of the head, three more pumps and I set them free. Whispered a thanks in his ear, did a graceful dismount, and hit the showers. Back to the room and taped to the door -OT notice AGAIN.

1) the man who inserts himself in my sex WITHOUT being invited. 'no thanks' or 'I got this' means 'no thanks' or 'I got this'. Please move on. 2) the play by play man. 'oh, he's fucking him now... he's really hammering that hole... oh it's getting really hot..' thanks man, but please move on. 3) helen fucking keller. everything must be touched and deaf to the 'no thanks' and blind to the head shake 'no' 4) the used car sales man - 'you have a smoking hot body, I give the most amazing massage to only jocks and will only be here for a short while' 5) 'how's it going' man - on every lap. dare to answer, and might as well have signed adoption papers. There will be no shaking him and no peace in any common space. 6) followed by 'do you work out?, I want to start working out' man - yeah I know you are trying to establish raport with something we have in common, but seriously we are both in white towels there is nothing left to the imagination. 7) bait and switch boy - lure me in with your 'I'll do nasty things to you' smirk while stroking on that ever hardening python, make out with me, rub me up and down, eat my hole, tease my hole, and then announce 'I only bottom, tragic I know, but it is what is it is, gonna fuck me?' 8) viagra and the 102 year old man. congratuations on the renewed hard dick you are displaying, but come on man, you can barely move and please watch out for those slippery floors and that set of stairs.

It was hot as fuck on Tuesday. Went Swimming to cool off and catch some late afternoon rays. After the sun dropped went in and chilled in the cave face down ass up. A guy asked if he could eat my ass. He ate my ass open and tongued me deep but kept trying to fish my dick out. I wasn't having any of it. He ate me ope and tongued me DEEP. He was a bottom, didn't fuck me but served the purpose got my ass wet and prepped and put me into play. The boys who had filtered in to watch the action had filtered out so I went for a steam In the steam room a guy started playing with my ass and slipped his cock using the spit from the other guy as lube. We took it to a room and he pounded me doggie, dropping a nice load into me. Made out with a cute latino guy couldn't figure out if he was just into muscle worship or what but didn't progress to fucking. Returned to cave, face down ass up. Soon enough a feel a hand on my ass and feeling my wet hole. He knew what was up and plunged his hard cock in my ass. 20 good strokes and the trob all us bottoms love to feel. Looking around, the line had formed. The train was on. The forth guy to shoot was an agressive fucker with a big cock. And there was no doubt in the entire place when he came he was so fucking loud. On his way out said 'That was worth the 15 bucks.' Guess who was there, the cute latino ready to fuck. Guess well used muscle ass is what he was looking for. Added his to the mix. Hung daddy guy there hanging in the wings. You know how those guys are. Get off watching the action and like to taste the mix and give the last load. Read him wrong, he didn't want to fuck but dropped his load down my throat. To the porn room, 2 more guys, 2 more loads. And then the place died off so I packed it in. Not bad for a Tuesday.

GRINDR Hookups never work out, right? Especially when post is hot bodied 21 year old right around the corner? And the details are 'bi curious looking for new experiences, can't host'? 3 messages later a hot boy is stand in my door way? Never works out. Except when it does, it really does. It was the butt crack early part of the morning and I thought what the hell, I'll suck his cock, he'll blow his load, do the str8 guy freek out thing and sprint out the door. 3 messages and 5 minutes later I have a hot scruffy boy standing in front of me. we immediately start making out - totally unexpected. His mouth and tongue is all over my body. He is sucking me, I'm sucking him. Eventually work into 69 for some mutual sucking pleasure. And then he tongue moves from cock to balls to taint..... to my hole. He grabs a cheek in each hand and dives in tongue deep. 'Curious'? Really? 'Dude, I've got to fuck this ass.' He scrambles into fuck position and with a quick thurst is balls deep. The 'curious' boy I was hoping to get a taste of cum off of is now pounding my ass for all he is worth. 'Dude, I'm cumming!' A deep thurst and 4 pulses and my ass is thoroughly bred. 'Curious'? Right.

In a bath, 90% of the time - shower shoes = condoms either top or bottom.

I turned 40 and became a magnet for younger guys which kind of shocked me. Going through my 20's and 30's I seemed to attract same age or a bit older. Now in my 40's the full spectrum has become accessible but especially the young, hung, and full of cum set.

I get the 'amazing ass', 'hot body', 'great chest and nipples' comments all the time and I appreciate them. But probably the best compliment I got was on a crowd night at the bath. I was in a publc area with a hot, young, hispanic guy. I was holding him down with his wrist above his head and was grinding him and making out with him. I was totaly working this guy over. Guys tried repeatedly to insert themselves into our sex but I had lazer focus on him and maintained his focus on me. It was the 2 of us in the zone in a sea of men. Later in the shower I overheard 2 guys talking about the 'hot show in the cave'. One guy said to the other 'that was most erotic thing he had ever seen'. I was 'gee thanks' <blush>. I had given a guy a 'most, ever'.

Just my take here on the open door not for everyone policy at the bath. Many hot 'shy' guys prefer to dart into an open door when they see something they deem worth their time. They don't want to play or be touched in public or even be seen entering a room. They see a hot back and hot ass and there is no confusion on what role who is going to play. Door closes and it is on. Door open = open invite? More: door open = open to the possibilities. More times than not I'll hear the door close and turn to see the 'attitude' boy standing there with a raging hard on ready to do some damage. Come into my room with nothing to offer - small soft dick, abused flabby body, bad hair cut and teeth, staggering drunk or stoned and I'll shoo you out of my room.