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Considering I have sex almost 3-4 times most days and 10+ more on the weekends, I think I'm safely over 1000 now. Truly a shame I never kept record though. -
I'll be staying at La Brea Inn on Friday and will be ass up being a cumdump the whole afternoon/night. I was browsing and saw a lot of guys on Sniffies in LA but that is probably because LA has a lot more people than Toronto, kinda wondering if I should set up a group there? My city is pretty bad when it comes to Sniffies, kinda wondering if I should even bother for LA.
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Nobody is going to admit that they're not into a certain race but reality is everyone is, even the ones who say they are 'equal opportunity' or whatever that means. Most of us are into all races but we're more into certain race more than others, most of the time that race being white or anyone white passing (fair skin Latinos/Middle Eastern). When I first started out as a cumdump, I remember making ads on CL and the first thing people always asked me was "are you white?".
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Unfortunately, there's a lot of truths to your comment. I straddle the line of race for being mixed (with 0% white in me) but I do notice Asians and Latinos have hugely internalized white supremacy. POC is simply an identity adopted when necessary/advantageous and as you said, they'll shy away from it when they get what they want. But when speaking about sex, I can only speak to my lived experience though; non-white tops engage in exclusion of their fellow non-white bottoms. Not necessarily complete exclusion but if given the choice, they will choose white bottoms over their own kind. Sure, many non-white bottoms do this too, in fact, it's literally a trope now and even exist in bb community in the form of raceplay. It's definitely problematic, I will not argue that. But the core of my post is to highlight the former (which isn't talked about as much) which also feeds into the non existent 'bottoms of color' despite there being lots of us in the community, whether that be a Black, Asian, Latino, any POC bottoms. Judging from the responses here, it also seems that people are quick to chime in about how they don't care about the dick or the person --> which is all fine, good for you to not see colors but look at the post again, this is about BOTTOMS of color. I think I've already established in my post that TOPS of color are well celebrated, either via fetishization or other manners. On the other hand, BOTTOMS of color are almost unheard of, it feels like the bottom role is primarily reserved for white men.
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I'm interested in hearing fellow non white (Black, Asian, Latino etc) bottoms on your experience with the community. I feel like this community is heavily focused for men of color being the 'thugs' and tops - with the unhealthy obsessions of bottoms (mainly white) reducing them to BBC and all the other racial stereotypes coded in a language that shows 'inclusion'. On the flip side, however, non white bottoms are almost never heard of, it's always the white bottoms with pinky white pussy that you see in porn and social media. There are stereotypes/niches that Asian bottoms particularly may play but they are by far still secondary to white bottoms in terms of interest and attention from tops - both white and non white tops. This discussion isn't just about hearing the experience though, anyone should feel free to discuss anything related. This also isn't a call out to white people (maybe white bottoms) since I've noticed non white tops also engage in the exclusion non white bottoms anyway so there's no point singling white people out here.
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