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6 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

I get that but did someone raise them in a barn?

All you have to say is "thanks, I'm looking for that thing. Cheers."

It would take 3 seconds. And the way Telegram works if they delete the chat it disappears. Too bad, guy had (at least he was showing) a really nice fat uncut cock.

I've done similar and tried to move on.

But some guys, if its Grindr, will try and report your profile to Grindr for a community guideline violation in an attempt to get your account banned. It has happened to me numerous times with certain communities.

I say swipe left, delete and/or block is preferable.

7 hours ago, SFCumdog said:

I find that gays can get easily offended when they think they are being judged. And to many, saying "I'm not into that" regardless of how you yourself meant it, feels like being judged, especially the further away from vanilla that kink they divulged to you tends to be. Additionally many still feel a certain amount of shame about themselves and about their sexual tastes that can stem from a very young age. The "I'm not into that" statement triggers those old feelings of shame and rejection. And they block you so that they don't ever start that same conversation over with you again and have the same thing happen. 

100% true

Happens to me ALOT. I guess since I'm top, many bottoms send me pics with female attire (which I'm not into)

I try to give a nice compliment then politely say 'that's no my scene'

But most gays can't handle rejection so I just ghost and block.

On 9/12/2023 at 6:04 PM, fucknfeedme said:

Sounds like the Chelsea Savoy Hotel or Hilton Garden Inn NY/Manhattan- Chelsea are good places for me to stay.  Also, is the East Side Club the only bath house open?  Was hoping to catch on the the gay interracial sex parties but the Milk Chocolate event is not that weekend.  Piggy bottom here and looking to have some fun so any info you guys can provide would be great.

 

Let us know what you got planned and how things turned out. 😀

I have a major foot fetish.

Ugly bad 'fucked-up' feet are a HUGE turn-off. So yeah, I tend to judge bottoms attractiveness based on their feet rather than their ass.

I might enjoy a foot-job at some point.

13 hours ago, Bugnutty452 said:

I love cockZ but I have ground that many black men smell pretty strong and for me that’s a turn off, plus a lot of the black men I have been with tend to not trim or take personal hygiene seriously enough…not for oral.

 

however, they can all fuck and fill my holes..no care there. 

This is true but has more to do with socio-economics and just not being properly taught on personal hygiene practices. The latter is true for any and all races of gay men.

Admit defeat - seriously. And try to please your man other than orally.

• Washington DC - Half and O Street
• LA - bathhouses (mostly closed now)
• Chicago - Man's Country,  Man's World and the Bijou

Reposting from another thread...

Yes, East Side Club (ESC) is the only bathhouse left in NYC. Frankly, its not worth it. NYC is all about private sex parties now. Find one or two you like and get on the contact list for details.

Google: Gay Sex in New York City - WordPress.com

Also milkchocolatenyc.com

rainbowplaygroundclub.com

Twitter: @MilkChocolateNYC

On 9/12/2023 at 5:50 PM, fucknfeedme said:

So is East Side Club the only bathhouse in the City?  Headed up next weekend and was excited to see what sex the city offered.

Yes, East Side Club (ESC) is the only bathhouse left in NYC. Frankly, its not worth it. NYC is all about private sex parties now. Find one or two you like and get on the contact list for details.

Google: Gay Sex in New York City - WordPress.com

I don't think there are any gay bars left in NYC frequented by mostly black guys, I could be wrong. However there might be bar 'nights' at spots in Harlem or deep into Brooklyn.

On 8/14/2023 at 7:39 AM, SouthAsianGuy said:

Looking through the posts on this site and some of the shit you fags do makes me wonder why most women aren't the same (or more sluttier)..... they're literally designed to take d 🤔

here we go with the offensive language... (yeah, I know some of you enjoy it)

2 minutes ago, ErosWired said:

Or, because they require discretion. Or they’re sick to death of pic collectors. Or they have come to the conclusion that so many people use pics that aren’t of themselves that no one’s going to believe his pics are a real representation anyway. Or they’ve decided it’s not worth the risk of someone sextorting them with their images. There are many reasons why a guy may not choose to associate his image with his sexual habits online.

Or their scanner broke... 🤔🤣

On 8/8/2023 at 9:45 PM, FelchingPisser said:

Asspig.com is the Fisting site you need.

Is the site asspig.com still active? I regrettably deleted my account but came to realize its the only site to meet local experienced bottoms with the type of hole I like. (i/e LOOSE) 🤣

On 9/2/2023 at 10:25 PM, btmdad said:

I read posts and listings for  tops looking to fuck  and in many of them they require pics and stats.  I am wondering why a top would care?  If the bottom wants a dick up his ass,  the top is not going to see his face, or his 6 pack abs. Probably won't even be able to tell the age. So what gives?

The title and content of your post conflict each other.

But to answer the content of your post, its because generally guys that don't share pics are hiding something they feel may be less desirable.

On 9/3/2023 at 1:16 AM, ErosWired said:

 

There’s also that percentage of Tops who prefer missionary position - those Tops may want a preview because they’re going to have to look at that face while they’re fucking the body, and they want it to be at least tolerable.

Personally, I don’t know why they would want to see what I look like; I send them an ass pic, and thus they see me at my best.

I like ALL positions including missionary, therefore I need to see what a bottom looks like before agreeing to meet.  I have a type(s).

Bottoms no longer care how a top may look or present themselves?

14 minutes ago, muscmtl said:

738 posts with either "black cock" "black dick" or "BBC" in titles

23 posts with either "white cock" "white dick" in title

0 posts with either asian cock/ or dick" in titles

Sooooo..... Yeaaahhhh..

 

Must be dumb, run by me again why being a gay bbc guy is so terrible?

 

 

Its a HORRIBLE existence. I now identify as a gay white bubble-butt power bottom. ☑️

On 8/31/2023 at 8:42 PM, negboyslut said:

I'm in Mexico City, luckily most of the black immigrants from whom I have been able to get a job and a place to live, maybe with some money someone will let me suck their BBC

I was in Mexico City earlier this year and I did notice the influx of black migrants. However I didn't see any cruising the gay areas so meeting some might be a challenge.

4 hours ago, negboyslut said:

I have never tried black, but I really want it, in my city there are Haitian and African immigrants, thin with marked muscles, I want too much to be their whore

Are you in Tijuana or Juarez Mexico by chance?  Maybe you could start by providing some kind of assistance to some of the migrants.

No need to eat frozen when I provide FreshDirect right here. ☑️

3 hours ago, Bimarried001 said:

I get that. But are you saying that a 10 inch white cock wont make a mess but a 10 inch black cock would? He shouldn’t be prepping for race, he should be prepping for size. I’ve had some monster white cock in me. They did the same as any monster black cock. 

10 inch white dicks are a RARITY.  👉See how funny that sounds, however I'm sure they do exist. 👍 In fact, I've never met a white guy with a dick longer than mine. 

THICKER, yes!

But not longer in length.

15 hours ago, ScorpioJones said:

I usually don't have any problems when white guys top me. Lately I've been hooking up with black guys and have had some embarrassing messes.

Any advice for cleaning? I have started really getting into black tops and I want to make sure I am ready for them.

Also don't eat corn, popcorn or any kind of seed a few days before. Top will thank you.

12 hours ago, Bimarried001 said:

First you’ll have to explain to me the difference between black and white. I don’t get why the race would make a difference. I clean out the same for for any race. 

He's trying to prep to accommodate larger sized (black) dicks. Myself, I'm turned off by messes which is why I prefer bottoms who play with larger sized dildos.

12 hours ago, ScorpioJones said:

I usually don't have any problems when white guys top me. Lately I've been hooking up with black guys and have had some embarrassing messes.

Any advice for cleaning? I have started really getting into black tops and I want to make sure I am ready for them.

I'd recommend fucking under the shower to start in case you are not sure how deep-cleaned you are. I don't mind doing that with guys who are new to BBC and uncertain around douching.

21 hours ago, meetme said:

Unintentional or not, it was a big surprise to see some money had been spent.  Like they replaced mirrors. Floor tile and even wall tile plumbing issues will require a changeout, but there are new mirrors and the main floor bathrooms are being worked on too. Yes could still be plumbing, but if they must spend more will they develop an interest in pleasing the customer? Seems like a big stretch for them

I doubt they're doing a total renovation of the facility. This is the first work they've done since they removed the stadium seating in the TV room and closed off the downstairs hallway of rooms in the back next to the bathroom. I LOVED those rooms. They were super cruisy with that old-school dark seedy bathhouse feel.

There are TONS of dead space where they could create dark rooms, glory hole sections and add slings, etc. (The area of walk-in rooms with the Greek Adonis statue) But as I understand they cannot since they remain open under a 'grandfathered' exception to a NYS law that does not permit new bathhouses in the state. I'm not certain, but that may include any new construction or additions.

So by NYS law, I don't think they can attain permits to add any additional facilities to develop the place other than routine maintenance.

18 hours ago, JimInWisc said:

For openers, it is interesting RNC decided to hold the first debate in a distinctly Democratic city.

I recorded it so I could scroll through all the BS parts from the incompetent Fox News as well as all the RNC crap.  I just wanted to listen to the candidates words from their mouths.

WRT votiing, I am non partisan but tend to vote more for Democratic candidates than R.  In the upcoming primary, as Democrats do not seem warm to having options beyond Biden, it makes no sense for me to waste my one and only ballot option on a D, ballot.  Especially when I might influence the R outcome.  Right now Christie is, for me, the frontrunner I am likely to vote for.  But bear in mind, this is just ONE debate.  Lots of stuff to occur before this coming April.  So while these are my leanings, too soon to make a decision.  

I don't think they had a choice for venue as there are no Republican cities.

43 minutes ago, Close2MyBro said:

I've had good luck with both adam4adam and sniffies, those are my two go-to's right now.

I like adam4adam as the only site still around to meet older ethnic guys. I deleted my profile then came right back for that reason.

Sniffies is mostly young twink/thug types and I feel I'm on the older side for that site. I've never seen any guys over 25 y/o in my area.

14 minutes ago, viking8x6 said:

I'm not actually moving (nor selecting my destination) for political reasons, y'know. I imagine few people do that, though more LGBTQ+ people than others, I guess.

The plan is to move to a rather red region in a blue state (rural PA, not too far from where I am now). The actual reasons have to do with relationship and taxes. Though truly, my current apartment has some serious drawbacks too.

True. Many LGBT people do. The inverse reminds me of Atlanta - a blue city in a rural red state - where many black gay men flocked to in the late 90s from all over the US.