Whether I'm on bottom or top, I really get off on being called nigger and race play in general. I've been with a couple guys who like it as well. As long as there is mutual consent everything should be ok. I am upfront with whomever I am with. Discuss what's ok and what's not ok and know when to stop. And make sure they know that that talk stays in the bedroom. For some, it's a deal breaker, that goes beyond their limits, but I am noticing more and more people are developing interest in this subject. White guys especially are getting off on it and have become more comfortable approaching me with their desire to yell racial slurs at me.