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mblad99

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  1. I am a MWM exclusive top. There are a lot of married guys that like to get fucked. Most will take it bare. Interestingly I am seeing an uptick of younger married guys, in their 30s. Generally, its the same story, wife has lost interest in sex, and they havent. I think it also to do with a desire to be wanted and touched in an intimate way. Since I am a married bb top, I cant comment on the married bottom perspective, but would love to hear their thoughts.
  2. clean is my preference, but some hair is ok
  3. Married to woman and I only top. Never caught anything. Most of my playmates are other married men (75-100 different guys). 90% of those guys bareback
  4. Looking around in the locjer room in hs was the first clue. But was totally straight in college. Didnt try anything with a guy until about 25. Something told me to go to a video store to rent a video, I got picked up by another customer and the journey began. We went to his place and started watching porn, and the next thing you know his cock was in my mouth. Still enjoy sex with a woman, but guys are great because there is less drama.
  5. He is probably on grinder or sniffies too. One way or another, I would definitely let him know your ass is available for his use when he needs it. I can tell you as a married top, I wish I had a guy close to me that I can trust. The big obstacle you will need to overcome is keeping things discrete and on the down and low. But once you gain his trust, his cock will be yours.
  6. Fuck him good and go deep when you cum. He will get a warm feeling deep inside when you cum. An experience that is unique and he will be your hole
  7. Ok, so I thought it was just me. About 3 years ago I told myself I am getting older so I should go out on a grande finale. At 54, I have had more action in the last 18 months than all fours of college ( even if you doubled the college action). I am also surprised how many younger guys are willing to meet with an older guy. I asked one 35 year old on Grindr why he wanted my older cock, he said older guys dont get much action so they are easy.to hook up with and appreciate that you hook up with them. I thought, you realize a good number of those faces next to yours on Grindr are all thinking the same thing. But, yea, there's plenty of good action for older guys.
  8. Sorry for the confusion..but the question was "Do you ask if I can cum in you" or something similar. I guess if you ask before you even enter him, then the answer is yes. The situation in which you start fucking and the bottom says "Hey, dont cum in me" wouldnt count for this poll. But those are great comments and discussion.
  9. If you enjoy winter activity, check out Minneapolis or Milwaukee. Easy cities to find action. Awesome summers. Not too hot.
  10. try doublelist as a replacement
  11. Late start I was 28. Cruising area, he just bent over and I went for it. Got tested right after thinking I was going to catch something.
  12. To be honest, I usually feel like I am done this guy and time to move on.
  13. Just be careful. Had a guy murdered by a homophob a few years ago in a cruising spot outside of Chicago. It was really hot in its day, guys literally were naked in the deep woods. Its come back alittle, but still not what it was. Have the fun of cruising is just figuring ooutwhos cruising and what they are doing.
  14. I have fucked a lot of married guys bareback. I guess the experience is worth it for them. I am married too though.
  15. I have a feeling you will be fucking him soon. Sounds hot.
  16. From a married guy's perspective, he just needed to get off. If you are looking for a LTR, keep going. But if you don't mind taking care of him when he is horny, you got a bud. I would continue exploring his limits. He might end up bottoming.
  17. I am 58 and have fucked more guys in 2021 than any previous years. Sometimes with the help of a pill and sometimes not. My favorite hole is a 60 year old Asian dude.
  18. A lot of married guys use that. Its a clue that they married.
  19. I am a pure top. Started barebacking about 12 years ago and fucked about 100 guys in my life bareback. So far I am lucky, no STDs at all. Generally try to lower my risks by only fucking well lubed married guys as I am married. No blood or rips. Married guys are generally not as active also. Took some chances this last summer in a cruising spot with some gay guys who bent over for me, but still nothing. If I go to a bathouse, I use a condom, or just stay with oral. Its risk management, but no guarantees. Finally found another married guy who wants an exclusive. He is a good fuck too, so we will see where that is headed. Might be wise to stay with him.
  20. Because a good fag is thinking about one thing only...getting the other guy off. Where else can anyone get that?
  21. I agree, once you start fucking someone on a regular basis, there is going to be a connection. Its human. I have found the that the fuck bud relationships that morph into friendships have made a contribution to my life and I am glad I have had them.
  22. Dont label yourself. At some point psychologists tried to categorize sexual relations and failed at it. At lot of guys like watching another guy cum, and yes, they want to be holding, sucking, or do something with a cock thats shooting sperm. But they also like women. Even porn figured that out with the "money shot." If you think you might like getting off with another guy, just do it. If you need a few beers to do it, have a couple. Some guys can only suck cock when they have been drinking. Other guys just like anal sex, but dont want a relationship with another guy in any form. Personally, I have found over the years I like a friendship with my fuck buddies, but I dont like holding his hands as we walk along a beach. Its more like talk about life, fuck, have a beer, talk about life, etc. Others might feel different. As you can tell from the response here, there's a lot of guys in the same boat as you. You just need to find your zone.
  23. Started chatting with a guy on sniffies. He was married, mid-fifties and looking to get fucked. I was staying in a hotel and told him I can host there. We chatted for a bit about we like and disliked. Then he asked if I would fuck him bare. I said sure, its my speciality. He said he had been fucked twice with a condom, but now wanted to get bred. He had never barebacked and wanted to please a guy with his ass. I gave him my room number and he came over after he cleaned up. After some 69, it was time for the main event. I had him lay on his stomach and lubed him up and also greased my tool. His ass felt great, told him I was going to cum and started filling his hole. After I finished, he shot his load all over the bed. Said he like the warm feeling he got inside when I seeded him.
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