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Nope, never. I got a call once from someone who had me go to a hotel but it was a set-up and no one was there. So I guess joke's on me.

I understand dudes think prison/ripped dom black bodies are synonymous with each other but the predominance of black men who have been broken and have lost their lives enslaved in the prison system would make me anxious to fantasize about black men if I were a white man with any privilege. Just saying. That said, what's scary for me is I feel like I am almost over finding consensual sex hot. That means over time I want more extreme forced sex stories and scenarios. I definitely spend a lot of time fantasizing about rape in prison because it seems like the best kind of sex that exists--men using a hole to get off. Agreed that a lot of guys fuck as an excuse to commit violence but that's hardly the only kind of intercourse that goes on in prisons. Much of it is consensual and/or nuanced. It also doesn't only exist in prison: I've encountered terrible sexual violence in everyday life. So we want to be careful about how we make assumptions about prisoners and their lives. But when I want to be really turned on, I like to think about what it must be like for a straight guy to be entered by a bigger man who needs to get off and to secure a way of getting off for the foreseeable future, a guy who gives it up not because he wants to but because he knows he is out of options, a guy who has to deal with the psychological aftereffects of being cummed in and used as a breeding hole when he's never even considered being in that position, and eventually the guy coming to terms with and accepting his role as simply a hole to please men with. The single sex environment of jail seems like one of the only places that facilitates making a sex slave out of someone as a matter of course. For those of us who want to be in that position but can't find a way to access it, jail seems preferable to living in a society with much more variability about the options you have to sift through to eventually (hopefully) get what you want out of a sexual relationship.

In Bellingham, WA and perpetually horny seeing all the straight guys that I know are interested in fucking another dude and street guys who look like they like to have some fun. Any suggestions about how to get sex in the area or other guys who have similar interests want to chat?

Also tops who pull out to cum in order to protect themselves from infection are getting the facts just so...wrong. Which especially makes me feel angry about the wasted load. Personally, I wonder if it's a holdover from the straight world's pulling out to avoid pregnancy?

revemupman, you are a real man and a true patriot. We need more like you.

Generally prefer a top who doesn't care about my orgasm at all--he's just chasing his own. I can vouch for Rotz's experience, too though. Being fucked by a top who can make me cum means he can fuck me as long as he wants to in bed. It might hurt and I might regret it at the time, but it's worth it for the opportunity to take a dick in the way that pleases the top the most. Never had a man demand to fuck me after I had cum in order to be in it entirely for me but now considering it...

I can't think of a time I turned someone away or down unless they wanted to wear a condom. If it's about raw dick, I try to do everything I can to take it. It's so rare that I don't want to miss out on even one chance of getting it.

Thanks for posting this question, OP, and thanks for providing answers, everyone. Are there any tips for bathrooms specifically?

Yeah, like a lot of you, I prefer keeping the man's cum deep in me. Sometimes after being bred I will get into positions so the cum can run deeper in. Though there is definite pleasure in walking away from a fuck, say, and having no more hole muscle control, so not being able to keep in the seed and feeling it run down my legs and feeling like a slut; but I like to know a man's whole load is inside of me because it's like carrying a piece of the fuck I just had--the best part, even. My favorite way to have to carry a load is to be spunked multiple times by a top who prefers it that way. Being fucked and used by the dick that is slick with its own cum while it's pistoning in and out about to pour out more is rare, but the best. The best I usually hope for, though, is when I hold a load in me and am lucky enough to get fucked by another guy after. I like to know he's creaming me where the other man shot his wad and will be adding his DNA to the mix. More than two is even better; for some reason, I like when the men don't know (or don't directly ask or assume) I have other loads in me but hopefully they feel/appreciate it.

Gets really spaced out. I might hear from some guys (usually the less desirable ones) 3 to 4 times a week. Usually guys range from a few times a month to a few times a year and some guys are even every few years--so in other words, not enough sex with fuckbuds.

100% bottom as well. My ideal situation would to be with a guy (ideally about three guys) who were all insatiable tops with strong breeding instinct. Would love to be in a stable sexual circumstance where constant use and habit ruled out even the thought of my topping.

For me the great part of breeding sex is that the kind of dick that breeds doesn't matter. If it gets hard and delivers its load of sperm into the hole it's pumping, relieving the top of his strong horniness, then it's a cock worth taking. Some of the best times I've had fucking were with top guys who were pretty small. But a lot of times the guys with small pricks pumped more cum out than the average guy, or could go multiple rounds. I was once with a guy who was deaf and had the hottest moans of helplessness as he was seeding me. I pride myself on not discriminating at all about body size, age, race, ability, looks, dick size...for me the fun is getting fucked by all kinds and finding out all the ways there are to please men. Would never turn down a man with a small dick.

The majority of my energy spent online trying to hook up goes to flakes: whether it's guys beating off talking about what they never intend on doing, guys who really want to do something but are nervous, or guys who get a better look at me and for some reason decide it's not worth it most of the time I spend trying to hook up turns out to be a waste. My question is, can any of you relate? How many of you guys flake on hookups? If you do, what are the reasons? Help me understand; no judgments here. Have any of you found successful ways of weeding out flakes from the get-go? Successful ways of dealing with flakes? Or is crossing paths with flakes and liars just something we have to accept within the barebacking community?

Such a male/alpha move to just shove it in regardless of what the bottom says. Good of you to give him what he needed.

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