Most of the time I am on the receiving end of watersports and loving it (especially drinking golden showers). Did it with guys as well with my wife.
When in the shower trying to pee in my mouth I already found out that this was a bit difficult. When excited and thinking of peeing, well, I just cannot seem to make it happen. And you can say, then don't think about it. But when you want your piss, lying on your back, you DO think about it! Normally, pissing under the shower is no problem at all.
I am a little bit pee-shy. Don't like urinals, but keep on using the stalls when possible. But at home, with my wife there's not a problem at all, even with the door open and we having a chat during peeing etc.
Anyway, next problem. It seems that I cannot pee anywhere else than a toilet or bathroom. Well... almost. My wife gets off on desperation and wetting. Did that for two times now. Both of which involved a lot of beers (getting my bladder full, and inhibations down) and a lot of patience. She tries everything, pressing the bladder, getting some water running, hand in the stream, etc etc. And although I WANT to pee, it just won't happen until, after a couple of hours, I finally can't stand it anymore and set the floodgates open. Resulting in a very excited, masturbating to an orgasm watching wife.
We want to try other things as well. Giving her a golden shower, or the so called 'flooding the cave'. Filling her cunt with piss after I came inside her. But, experiencing my threshold, even though I do not want it, I don't think I can manage. If wetting my pants even though I want is a problem, how about giving her a golden shower. I can be in a dominant role with her and really want to do this. But we both have to be in the mood, so I want to take the opportunitity when she gives it.
So any advice? Any help?