I increasingly won’t talk chasing/gifting things to guys listed as “poz on meds” for multiple reasons. The main one being out of consideration for their decision to go on meds. For whatever reason, guys on meds are out of the gifting/chasing fantasy world and I think that it is only fair that they do not wish to indulge that, then that is respected. In a slightly wider context, I’m also mindful that some guys did not want to end up poz and have found their diagnosis traumatic whether they are listed as “on meds” or not. I do not want to add to that trauma.
I’m pretty sceptical of what I read here. I think even away from the back room there is a lot of fantasy posted. Having guys pestering you (or anyone else) to poz them when you have made the decision to stay u/d is pretty unreasonable in my view. Don’t even get me started on the “will you go off meds to poz me?” crew.