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About KptNLine

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  • Birthday 08/21/1986

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    Bottom
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    Enjoying married life with my wonderful husband of 10 years. We both enjoy the benefits of our long-term Dominant/submissive relationship, with an emphasis on chastity and orgasm denial. I have been locked long-term since 2012, and have given over complete control of my sexuality to my husband. Over the years, our relationship has grown and evolved into one between a Man and his faggot. We have both come to not only accept but embrace the fact that his cock provides the center for our sexual relationship. It is his cock that brings both of us pleasure and satisfaction. Enjoying the journey so far and excited to see where the future leads.
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  1. KptNLine

    Cumdumps - Do you need to ejaculate anymore?

    I think that's a great explanation and way of looking at it. Not averse to cumming, but it is also not the goal. The goal is always the Top's orgasm and satisfaction. A bottom's orgasm is simply a superfluous bonus if it happens, but it is unnecessary for the sex act. Great comment ImpotentBottom!
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    Cumdumps - Do you need to ejaculate anymore?

    The truth is - anal is simply more enjoyable when you don’t cum. Your prostate is more sensitive and you get hornier and hornier for more. Yes, not cumming and not touching myself lets me focus completely on servicing the Top - but if I’m being completely honest, anal is more fun for me when I don’t cum. It makes logical sense, sex is best when the Top ejaculates and the bottom doesn’t - for both the Top and the bottom.
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    Cumdumps - Do you need to ejaculate anymore?

    Yes, Eros, that is a great explanation. You can tell (as the bottom) generally when a Man is getting close - he starts fucking a little faster and deeper and more rhythmically, his breathing picks up, he may start quietly vocalizing as he struggles to hold back as his orgasm builds. When I’m with a Man and I know he’s nearing an orgasm, I get “excited” in the same way. There’s no “orgasm” in the traditional sense, but as I feel the warmth of his cum as he breeds me, there’s this intense sense of satisfaction I feel. I relax and breathe heavily with him, almost as if I’d cum, but the orgasm is more psychological, if that makes sense. I think the satisfaction comes from knowing that you’ve given the Man who just fucked you this incredible physical release and accepted part of him inside of you. Sex, in my opinion, is largely in your head in terms of the sensation, satisfaction and connection to your partner you feel. There’s no closer you can get to a Man than to accept his DNA inside your body. That psychological high is powerful and mimics the after effects of relaxation and bliss that a traditional physical orgasm creates.
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    Cumdumps - Do you need to ejaculate anymore?

    Let me be clear - my desire or want to cum is as strong as it ever was. That’s the key word there - “want.” When a Top cums, he inseminates the bottom. A Top’s orgasm is necessary for the sex act to occur. In contrast, the bottom’s orgasm (my orgasm) serves no practical purpose. It gets me less horny, less submissive and makes being fucked less enjoyable. This has made me realize that whereas a Top needs to cum, a bottom simply wants to cum, and there’s a difference between the two. The other piece to my puzzle is that my Husband (the Dom in the relationship) prefers me to cum solely from his cock when I’m being fucked. To answer the question, when I realized and accepted that I was a total bottom and cumdump, I found myself wanting to cum less, because being horny and pent up made anal more enjoyable for me. And then my desire to be the best submissive possible for my husband also minimized my desire to cum even more. I think everyone is unique, but it does seem like many bottom cumdumps focus more on the Top’s orgasm then their own.
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    What the act of bottoming represents

    This is an awesome question, thanks for starting this discussion anonverse! First, let me say that I have bottomed both when I've been with Men casually and with my husband. Being fucked feels physically good, it's true, yet the sensations of pleasure (at least for me) are so much more intense when I'm with my husband then when I've been with someone else. For me at least, there is a component of that emotional connection that enhances the pleasure of being fucked. Fucking a guy or allowing a guy to fuck you is the most intimate experience you can have with another male (in my opinion). For a Top, the intimacy is self explanatory - putting your cock in someone else is pretty damn intimate. For a bottom, the intimacy goes beyond the sex act itself, and there are layers of intimacy within the act of bottoming. Let me explain: In that moment, you are allowing a Man inside of you and giving the most personal part of yourself to another Man. Now think back to a time when you used condoms (many of us have at one point or another), and then think of the first time a Man penetrated you raw. Now think of the first time (for many of us, the same time as when we first went raw) when a Man inseminated you. All of these different actions enhance the intimacy of the act - there is literally no way to get closer to a Man then to receive his cum inside you. One thing I do want to address is the idea of being a "submissive bitch" that "only cares about pleasing the Top." I think there are probably very diverse viewpoints on this, and no one view is the right one. So I am just sharing what I think and what my experiences have been. I do agree in feeling that the act of bottoming is an inherently submissive act. For me, being penetrated by a Man or even thinking about being penetrated enhances my desire to submit to a Man's desires. In that sense, I do want to please the Top by allowing him to penetrate me. But I have to be honest, almost every time I get fucked, I feel amazing. The feeling of a Man's cock sliding in and out of me, hitting my prostate with each thrust - words can't describe the pleasure I feel. I don't particularly identify with the idea that a bottom is solely there to provide pleasure for the Top because the truth is that bottoming feels good, whether or not we choose to acknowledge it. What I mean by that is that there are times that my husband wants to make love and have slow, romantic sex. There are other times when he just needs to get off and I become his "cumdump" or his "faggot." My pleasure might be acknowledged or he might actively try to fuck me to an orgasm in the first scenario, in the second, my pleasure becomes inconsequential. And yet, regardless, being fucked feels good. Not just physically good, but also psychologically; submitting to another Man's need is a powerful high for me, whether that need is to make love to me or simply get off. To me, that's what makes me feel submissive - it's that I'm giving anything up by being the bottom or that I'm simply trying to endure a painful fuck for the sake of a Man's pleasure. It's the fact that how I experience sex isn't up to me - a Man decides whether I'm going to be his lover or his faggot. That's what bottoming represents for me - a loss of power and control over the experience of the sex act itself.
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    Bottoms with little dicks

    So many of us have quoted Desert on here, but I just had to agree. This post speaks to me, and I couldn't agree with more with DesertChaos!
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    Bottoms getting hard

    Hi there, The short answer to your question is - yes, I feel exactly the same way! When I first started having sex, I noticed that if I was down on my knees sucking cock, I'd often be hard as a rock, but the minute a guy's cock penetrated me, I'd usually go limp. Depending on how much I played with myself determined whether or not I was hard - if I didn't touch my cock at all, I'd stay limp the entire fuck. Without going into my entire life story, I have spent many years playing with chastity, and now don't get hard at all, even when I'm unlocked. On a very rare occasion, I'll get a very short-lived, weak, semi-erection, but not a full one. But when I was being fucked, I was always soft, even as a young guy. I think everybody is different - some bottoms can be rock hard as they're being fucked, others will be limp. I don't think whether or not the bottom has an erection is an accurate indicator of how much he is enjoying it. Don't get me wrong - I love to cum just as much as the next guy, and when my husband allows it (I'm a sub), it's awesome. But every time we have sex and I get his load, it is so immensely satisfying to me. The sensation of a Man shooting his cum into me is more satsifying and fulfilling to me then my own orgasm could ever be. My advice - don't bother jerking off and enjoy the ride. Chances are you'll get so horned up that you'll cum hands free, which Tops love. You don't need to be hard, so don't sweat it. 🙂
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    What Do Your Tops Say That Turns You On?

    Love being called a "fag" or a "faggot" - that always gets me off. "Take my cock, you fucking faggot!" I also love being denied orgasm and I love when the Top makes that clear. "Don't even think about cumming." When he reminds me how much I love what he's doing to me. "You fucking need that cock inside you, don't you?" "You like being fucked?"
  9. My husband (the Top) likes me on my side or on my stomach when he's ready to shoot - my hole is generally tighter and less relaxed in those two positions, so it feels better for him. I'm good with giving him what he likes. 🙂 However, I have to admit, my favorite position to get bred is flat on my back, legs up in the air. Looking up into a Man's eyes, watching his face as his pleasure builds and he finally cums. Looking at his face and feeling the warmth of his load being shot into my hole, there is literally nothing more erotic.
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    Size difference with couples

    I have the same arrangement with my husband. We have been together for almost 10 years now and I have been kept in chastity for a few years now. I do get unlocked at times, but like you, I do not cum without permission and I never touch myself. Most of the time, when I cum, it is this full body sensation that happens when I’m being fucked just right. There’s often no ejaculation, or if there is, it just dribbles out. To answer your original question, I used to be only about an inch smaller than my husband. That wasn’t the reason I became a total bottom, but being kept long term in chastity has created some “shrinkage” so now I am at least a few inches shorter than him and I don’t get hard when I’m unlocked. I’ve been told this is reversible if you stay unlocked for a long period of time, but I find the size difference between us deeply erotic. When I’m unlocked, especially, his throbbing erection and my limp, little cock creates such a contrast between us that I find super hot.
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    Ass Rimming

    Like most everyone here, I am meticulous with cleaning, and the only time I would expect a Man to want to rim me would be when I’ve just got out of the shower. If I’m freshly showered, my husband will rim me from time to time. For me, I compare having my ass eaten to what a Top Man feels getting his cock sucked. My hole is my sex organ and getting it licked and eaten feels so amazing for me, and it makes my hole open up so much more easily when I get fucked after. What I would like to know from other bottoms - do you ever rim your Top? How is the experience for you and the Top? It’s rare, but I occasionally lick my husband’s ass, again, when he’s freshly showered and clean only. I find it so hot making a Top moan by licking his hole, knowing full well that nothing is going inside his hole. So, short answer, I love being rimmed and also enjoy rimming, but cleanliness is paramount for this.
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    Should a bottom cum dump be in chasity?

    Agreed - I love the contrast between the bottom's soft cock and the Top's hard one. I almost always stay soft when my husband fucks the cum out of me.
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    A question for bottoms on chastity

    It depends on the type of cage and the fit. For the CB series and the HT, with only a small hole for piss at the end of the tube, pissing can be messy if you don’t line yourself up just right first. QTips are a must to keep things clean. You can piss at a urinal, but I personally find it easier to sit. With an open design like a Jailbird, pissing is much easier as is clean up, but standing up tends to cause dribbling. I almost always sit to piss now - it keeps things cleaner and is just easier.
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    Should a bottom cum dump be in chasity?

    I am of the opinion that a bottom acting as a true cum dump doesn't necessarily need to be locked in chastity; that said, the bottom should not stroke his own cock while getting fucked by a Top, for a couple of reasons. Number one: after a bottom cums, he typically loses his drive and desire to continue getting fucked. A well-disciplined bottom can keep going, but bottoming is much less pleasurable after cumming then before. Number two - making a bottom cum hands free from being fucked tends to turn most Tops on immensely. It makes a Top feel good about himself, knowing that he's literally made a guy cum with his cock. Number three - when you're getting fucked and not stroking yourself off, you tend to be much more focused on the sensations you're experiencing from the anal sex. It gives you a deeper connection with the guy who's fucking you. If you're stroking yourself, then bottoming is in the background and the pleasure you're experiencing is concentrated in your cock. Whereas if you forego stimulating your cock, the sensations in your ass and particularly involving your prostate will be much more intense. This heightened connection enhances the sex for both the Top and the bottom. I am a bottom locked in chastity by my husband, but that has more to do with the D/s aspects of our relationship then anything else. I am personally of the opinion that the bottom should cum if the Top brings him to that point, whether by stroking him off or by fucking him just right, but that is just my opinion. But it has been my personal experience that focusing only on the Top's cock during sex makes the sex more enjoyable for both partners.
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    Anal Play and Not Touching Cock

    Yes, it is hard at first, to answer the OP's original question. I think many of us here now that do ignore our own cocks when we're getting fucked found it difficult to get to that point. One thing you might find helpful in the beginning is wearing a jock when you have sex. This keeps your cock out of the way and serves as a reminder what your goal is when you go to reach for it. Ultimately, though, not touching your own cock during sex (at least in the beginning) does take some self-discipline. You will reach for it out of habit, and something like a jockstrap will remind you not to touch. The great part is that after just a short while, you become so much more in tune with the pleasure of anal sex. I don't mean the pleasure you give yourself when you jerk off during sex, I mean the sensations you're feeling from having a Man's cock inside you. The stimulation of your prostate becomes more intense, mostly because you've allowed yourself to focus more on those sensations. When you're jerking your cock, that stimulation can easily override the more subtle and pleasurable sensations associated with anal. I hope this helps somewhat - good luck!

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