Wow, reading this thread reminds how lucky this slut pig really is!!! i've been in a 20 year relationship with my very vanilla bf, yet it was he who said "you're kinky, you're frustrated, we need to open up the relationship!" i still have small issues with jealousy, etc - even though i play with others WAY more than he does - & he doesn't "like" my kink or slut piggishness. We've agreed i only get fucked w/condoms, butt other than that i am free to be as kinky as i'd like. Maybe part of our success is that we got together before either of us knew how kinky i was & we tried out all of our kinks together to see what we each liked & didn't like. Because we had 5 - 7 years of relationship under our belt when we opened things (my holes!) up we already had our trust & communication skills well established. We've always been polar opposites in almost every sense, so our relationship has never been typical, butt damn do we make it work well, if i must say so myself! All i can say guys is don't lose hope, keep looking, demand & BE honest & up front, exercise integrity always & you never know where life will take you so relax & enjoy the ride, riding &/or being ridden! ;-P