shyguyuk
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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
shyguyuk replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
What do you put if you've never managed to get a single hookup through a dating app / website? Because that's me. -
I'd really like a 'palang to go with the PA but doubt I could go 6 months without a wank
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Do Any Of Your Friends Know You Bareback?
shyguyuk replied to Scottyrim's topic in General Discussion
I have no friends lol -
No, I literally only seem to have a sex drive when I'm depressed. When I'm happy otherwise, I actively can't be arsed to even try and get laid. IDGI either
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And it is this: I only care about sex when I'm depressed. I'm definitely not asexual, but I have little understanding of how the whole mating dance is supposed to work, which is why at 38 you can count the total number of times I've got laid without using your toes. But so long as my brain is otherwise operating within a first approximation of "normal", this... doesn't bother me. If it happens it happens, and if it never happens again - it'll be a shame, but not the end of the world. It's only when things aren't firing on all cylinders that I'm motivated to boot up grindr/bbrt or whatever (nearly always unsuccessfully, because I'm fucking depressed). It's like something else in my brain has to stop working before my libido can start. Is this odd? IDK.
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I have realized i only care about sex when i'm depressed... do i even belong here? idk...
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Yes, you belong here. Think about us as your online chat buddies. There is much more to this site than just pics and stories about horny escapades. I also find it very informative. Plus you can ask any question here, sex related or not, and read about other issues or questions others are struggling with which may be eye openers. Different POVs. Different ages. Poz guys, neg guys, guys who want to get pozzed, guys who want to stay neg but just like BB, like me. There's always (or almost anyway) someone to respond.
There are guys here who have sex every day of the week and some who hardly have any sex (like you in the middle of nowhere or for some other reason) and everything in between. You're not the only one out there!
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I just really don't feel I have anything to contribute. Other than moaning, which i'm sure you're all sick of.
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There are more than 50k guys on this site. Not everyone is an active member. Contribute when you feel like you can.
