I have a wonderful sex experience with my bf. He is an actor, a dancer with a perfect body and a very nice huge dick and 99.99% of the times he had sex before we met (he has had a lot of it) it was him topping with a condom. I also thought I was vers-top when we met.
It took few weeks for me to be able to get used to his big dick, and then i realized i wanted to explore the "bottoming" part of my sexuality. I was fucked by few guys while on business trips, and understood I don't want to bottom with condoms. Upon my return I asked my bf if we could do it raw, and we never fucked wrapped since.
I fucked him a dozen times and few times I could cum in his ass. But most of the times he fucks me from being gentle to very hard. I love his cum inside me. But the problem is – I stopped getting hard thinking about myself fucking anyone unless I have a big raw dick in my ass... That is not great since my bf wants to be fucked too and I'm only waiting for his dick and his cum..
I think only now i understood: I have kind of a stereotype behaviour – I feel a dick in my ass - then i get hard - then i start to jerk off - then i cum. And this sequence is completely wrong i guess..
Not that long ago I started to bottom for my bf without touching my dick. That is amazing! No more jerking off while fucking. And that means I, (A) - enjoy every second of being fucked and bred, ( - I want to top him again.
By posting this I just want to know how you deal with versatility thing.