Treehugger

Lots to think about. Do you have a healthcare provider with whom you are comfortable with total honesty? That’s a big hurdle if you are nervous about sti’s whether it’s HIV or something less serious. 
     If you are going to play raw you need to be okay with regular screenings and candid talks with healthcare professionals. If you are squeamish about it I recommend sticking with condoms and this is coming from a bareback cumdump. 

     Doctors are going ask you about your sex life, what you do and how many partners you have. It’s not fun. I am not trying to scare you away from a bareback lifestyle I just want you to understand the downside. 
     On the upside the sex is amazing and the connections you make both mentally and physically are satisfying in a way safe sex never did for me. 

I have a question for all of you going through this. Is there a difference between mind and body for you?
     For me the mind is much more willing than the body. While mentally I want to take anonymous loads at a gloryhole or spend an evening on a bathhouse fuckbench my body has other plans. I can be mentally horny but not physically. It’s weird and not a happy place to be. 
     Sex has always been my ‘go to’ for making myself feel better but now that is not always an option. Sometimes it’s about not getting hard enough and others I know getting fucked is not an option.

      But still I crave dick and cum and the feel of stubble on my taint. 

It’s like looking for the golden ticket. I really hope there is some good stuff out there and somebody shares it on this site. The best bathhouse vids disappeared with X-tube. 

Love being able to look into a tops eyes while he breeds me. It’s hard to misread that expression. 
     The best kinds of tops make sure to let you know when they have inseminated your hole. 

Generally I don’t care if a top cums quickly. I’d rather be sure of a breeding than take a long fuck without the payload except when I have made a great deal of effort to bottom for specific top.

     It sucks to spend all that time douching and driving to hook up and get   a 90 second fuck out of it. 
     But if I am near a bathhouse or bookstore then I am glad to take my loaded hole and offer it up to other tops in need of release. 

I work on a farm surrounded by woods. I often step out into the trees to beat off or I sit in the work van and do it. I get filthy with farm work so I just shoot my load all over my work clothes. Who can tell what’s what with all that dirt, sweat, grease and mud staining my clothes. 
     The first thing I do in the morning is wank. Even if the boss is around to fuck a load out of and into me a half hour later I am at it again. The last thing I do at night is jerk off. If I wake up in the middle of the night and can’t sleep you know very well what I will be doing.
     Everyone’s sexual norm is different. If I didn’t jerk off at least three times a day and more likely 5 or 6 times that would be abnormal. 

I can’t imagine coming across  an ass I find sexy and is obviously available for fucking and then turning it down because the bottoms cock is caged. If that ass is hairy and/or pre-loaded I am going to eat it first and then fuck it. Plus I am going to feel up your caged meat cuz I’ve never encountered that before. 

If it’s not obvious or they don’t say anything I try to tune into their body language; the way their thrusts can turn spastic or a whole body shudder. Certain kinds of moans or groans can mean only one thing, you just got bred. 
     I almost always have to ask my boss when he fucks me if he unloaded but if it’s been a few days since he shot his wad it I can tell when he cums. 
 

I could write a book on this subject even though I am very sexually experienced but I will throw out one thing that immediately came to mind. 
     Giving multiple blow jobs at Mitch McConnell’s funeral. 

57 minutes ago, ErosWired said:

I have never felt anything that equals that sensation. Having someone else’s mouth on my cock isn’t the same - the combination of the scent, the taste, the touch of the lips, and the moist contact of my own tongue on my slit created a kind of sensory feedback loop that nothing else duplicates. Then, feeling the combined rush of my orgasm and the taste of my own semen coating my tongue was so heady that I naturally swallowed.

I have to agree with EW. He describes it exactly. The best and most thrilling blow jobs are the ones you give yourself. 
      I remember climbing Mt Storm King during a full moon. I climbed above the cloud cover and was treated to a spectacular view of the Olympic Mountains, they were islands in a sea of glowing fog. It was one of the most beautiful scenes I had ever witnessed so naturally I got naked and started to beat off. 
     I got excited enough to get half my cock in my mouth and it felt amazing. People were drumming down on the lake and the sound reverberated up the mountain. I sucked myself to the faint thrumming of the drum beats and blasted rope after rope of my seed down my throat. 
    I still dream of doing that again, the self suck I mean. 

I thought of a pick up line a friend told me he used to bag two guys at once. Someone asked him a question, I forget that part, he answered by pointing to another man and saying, “I want you to fuck me using his cum for lube”. Nailed it and they nailed him. I was so turned on when he told me about it I fucked him as well. 

3 hours ago, coastalbender said:

Most of the time, there's no talking. 

How about a particularly good pick up line? Or maybe something you said to a possible hook up. 

On 10/17/2022 at 4:52 AM, UKFFBBBtm said:

Regarding the cumming, I agree, but I read somewhere that most porn stars use caverject or similar penis injectable viagra alternative and this apparently causes most guys to be unable to cum by fucking and need the pulling out and finishing off themselves to do it

If that’s the case then they need to fake it. This is showbiz after all. They are ‘actors’ of a sort. That reminds me of another peeve, probably already mentioned, but guys who look bored or vaguely in pain while getting fucked is a turn off. Again the porn star is being paid to act in a video, then act like you want to be there and that dick in your hole is the best thing in your life since you binged the third season of Buffy. 

I used to love going to the Phoenix in New Orleans back when the upper bar was fun. It had a small dark room, partitions with gloryholes and a sling in one corner. It was great. One Saturday night I got up the nerve to get in the sling. 
     At first nothing happened then a black guy approached me and unzipped. His friends were like 'what are you doing?' He shrugged them off and started to fuck me. The atmosphere in the room changed immediately as guys got 'friendlier' with each other.
    Someone turned my head to the side so he could feed me his cock. He let me blow him for a few minutes before bending over and whispering in my ear with a low growl, "We are all going to fuck you".
     When let me tell you that sent me to the moon. My cock was so hard if felt like it would snap off if anybody touched it. Not sure how many men fucked me that night, it's all a bit of a blur now but I will never forget those words and how exciting it was. That guy gave me a thrill that still makes my heart thump when I relive the moment. Anybody have an experience like mine?

I want to be face down on a fuck bench with my ass available for any rampant cock that strolls by while I suck a load out of the guy in front of me. Also makes it easier for him to face fuck me if that’s his preference. 

Gotta put my 2 cents in for Palm Springs, California. If you can’t get laid in PS you are unfuckable. 
     Between the bars, bookstores, resorts, cruisy areas, parties and apps there is non-stop dick and ass to be had. I find leather Pride to be especially great for getting it on. 
     Also try to make friends on line, in person or through apps who can get you invited to some play parties. They are really fun. I always have a great time in Palm Springs. 

When I think best gay campground I have three requirements:

1. clothing optional

2. male only

3. actively promote a sexual                                                     environment 

I can recommend the following three campgrounds based on the above criteria.
    As mentioned Sawmill has a fun cruisy area and is a big campground so more chances for action. 
     Oz in Georgia is a fun friendly place with a building just for sex called the sugar shack. It smells musty but has a sling, gloryholes, cubicles and porn. Had a great time there this spring. 
     Grizzly Pines in east Texas is fun as well. Not a huge campground but has plenty of amenities and an outdoor play area with gloryholes and a sling. 

     I look forward to exploring some of the other campgrounds mentioned. 
 

On 10/8/2022 at 1:31 PM, Caged said:

I recently moved to Northern Michigan and I’m really disappointed that there are no ABS here with arcades.  Had some good times there back in NC working the glory holes.  

Northern Michigan is NSA sex desert. So sad. 

The first time I blew my first boyfriend he shot a huge load that spilled out of my mouth leaving a milky trail that dried there. We were going to a movie and he suggested I wash it off but I wanted to leave it there. I loved him so much it turned me on to have his ‘mark’ on me in public. 
     When I would do my walk of shame from the bathhouse back to my apartment in the wee hours of a New Orleans morning I could always smell the men whose asses I ate and cocks I sucked in my beard. It was heavenly. I would sniff hard all the way home and would have to jack off again before I started my day. 

On 4/28/2022 at 5:39 PM, Mascwild said:

I want to see real guys fucking, not models, perfect bods, dicks, and faces. 

That’s my biggest beef with porn. I get tired of the men being so incredibly hot. With porn I want to be able to fantasize myself in that situation. I am never going to be in an orgy with a room full of stunningly gorgeous men. Throw in some beer guts, wrinkles, a triple bi-pass scar and a guy in the corner just watching as he mauls his limp dick and I can see myself in that scenario backing up on the closest hard cock.

      Pulling out to cum. Sigh. I’ll repeat what a lot of you have said. I want to see a breeding more than a money shot. 

I can only think of one time this happened to me but he was way too late with his request, my dick had already let go. He insisted I get tested and he would do the same. I sent him my results which were neg but I never heard from him again. Asshole. He didn’t deserve my load. 

Sorry to hear the party was such a dud and even more sorry I wasn’t there to help kick things up a notch, hopefully next time. 
     I have spent a lot of lonely hours in bathhouses and bookstores waiting for action. I can be very patient so if I paid my money I am usually in it for the long haul. I’ve been known to spend a couple days at a time back when they had 12 hour rentals and no limit on renewing. 

1 hour ago, wow456 said:

Colby Keller fucked me, he's good friends with my second cousin.

He’s hot as hell! What’s he like in person? Does it bother you he is a supporter of our former orange president?

I fucked Randy Barnes in a four way but what I really wanted was him to fuck me. I admired his cock ring and he gave it to me. Nice guy and sooo sexy still. 

6 hours ago, Barebacksletje said:

It is easier to find a fuck through the internet

I guess this might be true in a number of circumstances but I find apps to be a huge waste of time and a lot of screen time to get a hook up. It surprises me they would replace bars and saunas. 
     As a bottom if I am going to take the time to clean out and take a drive or bus to get some dick I want more than one. I am willing to pay for a locker or room or feed the video machine for a chance to play around and not risk all the effort for a hook up that might be a flop. 
     When I lived a mile from a bathhouse (Club Z in Seattle) it was great. I took full advantage of that place never left without a load or ten🤪.