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So then there is a difference between a “DILF” and a “Daddy” with a DILF being an actual father (at least 40?) and at least 10 to 20 years older that the younger guy? and a Daddy can be a gay or bi man who does not need to have sired any children So a DILF could also be a Daddy, but not every Daddy can be a DILF …. Kind of like squares and rectangles?

Ha!!!! I love “the HoRs” …. I have never seen that before… it is brilliant!!!! and ( unfortunately) ever so accurate

Great start…. Certainly looking forward to parts 3 and ….,

Well this is not really “politics” but not sure where else to post this as it is not really “back room” material.. as my local NPR station did a story on it, and even AP ran a story this is the 150 anniversary of the invention of the jock strap it was invented in Boston to help the bicycle messengers protect themselves as they navigated the bumpy cobblestone streets of Boston. it was invented by (designed by?) CF Bennett who worked for Bike Athletic so - nice to know that Boston, known normally for being prudish, Did something fun. so gentleman… you can celebrate as you choose… if you choose to tell us how you celebrate this important anniversary (and depending on how you celebrate- and with how much detail you share 😉) perhaps one of the moderators will be kind enough to move this to a back room.

I love the sleazy uninhibited fiction on the Breeding zone - but it’s important to remember that that is fiction…. And in real life one needs to take precautions- glad that you have a safe non judgmental place to go for your screening - thanks for posting this - an important reminder of the difference between fiction and reality

Amazing writing…. Totally takes me back to the days when there was a theater here … tge watching- the chess like moves guys would make around the theater- or from the “straight” theater to the gay one next door. miss those days… thanks for bringing them back

As a top … I like the idea of locking a sub in chastity… But, conversely to what the bottoms on this thread seem to be looking for.. I would unlock my bottom during sex-not that he would be allowed to touch himself- but I like seeing a bottom rock hard when he is getting fucked … bonus points if he cums hands free while getting fucked … but whether he does or doesn’t- he gets locked up again after the fuck - so I know he can’t play with himself hopefully keeping him horny so that he is begging to get fucked again

I started off way back when I was a kid just starting to JO using Vaseline… and then used it as lube when I started fucking around with guys …. Used it until the mid 80s when of course it was a huge no no as it melts condoms but then went back to using it to JO with as it doesn’t evaporate like the water based lubes do … (and is a lot cheaper) and it made my hands nice and soft 😉… which I remember an old bf commenting on how nice and soft my hands were…. He enjoyed learning the reason…. the problem of course not being water based is they are messy to clean up … or you get greasy spots on your sheets…. have been using abaline … but during the winter I should go back to the classics …. At least my hands won’t get dried out …..

Totally understand why there is not a glossary of the forbidden words ….but do hope that understanding will be given to those of us who are dyslexic and my unintentionally misspell a word… (not because we are intentionally misspelling to get around the auto word replacer - which by the way is really cool- didn’t know that was set up) and lol I had to google Polynesian word for forbidden.. didn’t know that word of Polynesian…. One of the things I love about this site is how educational it is (about a VERY broad range of topics 😉)

Well as expected you got a lot of advice I agree that it totally depends on where you are hooking up … and what turns you on … as a bottom who is turned on is a lot more fun to fuck for me … I like to know the bottom is enjoying it as much as I am … so I like to see a bottom who gets and stays hard while I am fucking him (bonus points for cuming just before or just after I cum) What turns me on about chastity is being the key holder… and the control I then have In when you can and can not cum… so for me chastity is more a relationship sort of thing rather than a casual hook up but again… it’s what you want… what will make you the kind of cum slut pig YOU want to be

Yes - no pressure- want you take your time to write- but just wanted you to know you have another fan looking forward to the next chapter(s).

Great story… loved tge beginning… alas my dr no longer does a “take everything off and put on this Johnny” But I remember when they made the change from cloth to paper Johnny” - felt even more naked… not to mention worried about what any liquid (like precum) might do to the paper… (I was always worried that the dr would come in to find that my dick would have leaked enough so that my dick head would be poking through the Johnny) damn it would be hot to see what piss would do to the paper that image alone was worth it …. (Would love to see that type of scene done in a porno) And then the story keeps getting better can’t wait to see where you go with this

Also you forget that not everyone has a medical provider they can be honest with about their sexual activities (and so get the preventative care that is available) And - not all sexual activity is planned or consensual And as was mentioned- do we stop paying for cancer treatment for previous smokers? do we not pay for blood pressure medication for people who are overweight? If we want HIV ( or any future plague) covered- we can’t start down the path of saying “oh well this is preventable so you are out of luck”

I am definitely a night owl- but I love morning sex…. I always wake up horny…😈

Can’t wait to see where this goes…. looking forward to the next chapters

Great story! … very hot….. looking forward to the next chapter(s)…

I had some hot fun with guys I met on Craigs List ,,, sigh

@ellentonboy - or/and everyone else I would be interested in what apps you find as good as bbrt for finding guys into bb sex as an older guy in Boston I would love to get your feedback I have found Recon not to be a quick “hookup” site Daddyhunt - it seems that Boston has a LOT more Daddies then boys (as yes I am agest … I don’t want to hook up with guys my age😉) … and as a non paying client I can’t sort by guys who are not condom users and does anyone use Manhunt anymore? —- I feel a certain loyalty as they started n Boston… and one of the owners used to host these great spanking parties at his house (“mansion”) so … especially guys my age … thoughts on what sites work for hookups?… as being an older guy I am not looking to have a date or two before we fuck … I am of the generation where you met at a bar (or movie theater or …) went home and fucked and then decided if you wanted to see (fuck) each other again

Well this evening it is back up in Boston (as of 7:30 pm) my take as a former marketing guy - and as a very non techy guy (bordering on Luddite) buying into preconceived notions on geeky guys as having no social skills… the message from them strikes me as being written by a geeky guy with no marketing skills having gotten a few too many emails asking “hey what’s going on??” not to say that a “Hey guys we are REALLY sorry but …….” Would not have been VERY helpful in building good will with their customers

It depends on who I am fucking if it is a trick/ hook up … even a trick that is a Dom/sub scene… if the bottom asks you to stop - for any reason… (because he came or any other reason) than you stop (and if you are lucky maybe it is not so much a “stop” as “pause” and with a little break you can get him back in the mood) if, however, it is with a sub that you know very well (bf of fwb) where you have a real relationship/ understanding, then it would depend on what is happening …. And how the sub says it … there is the “STOP” because the pain is no longer erotic … and there is the “stop” because they “kind of” want to stop, or it is part of the scene - for the “STOP” you stop…. For the “stop” … not always This is the reason when in a rough scene I don’t really like bondage… partly as I like knowing that they are willingly submitting….(and they know they are submitting… they can’t blame the bondage) and that way I know the if the sub really wants it to stop he can get up and stop it

Also - was this test on a normal testing schedule for you? Or was it at a different time of year for you? back in the early 2000’s when I was getting tested quarterly and tge did both the viral load and CD4 each time … … my CZd4 would slowly climb during the year and then in my January test (right after the holidays with my family) it drop - frequently by almost 50%… so it could be a bad test it could be just a weird drop based on stress (or as EuRawBull mentioned) an unrecognized case of Covid) tge main thing is it sounds like you have a great dr … so what ever the case it sounds like you have the medical team to find out what happened and what tge fix is (and remember if unfit is a breakthrough… there are now lots of options to deal with HIV now good luck!!

I have to admit that I like the sound of piss hitting tge water in a toilet (I love it at work when another guy comes in … and wanting privacy- goes into the stall to piss … and true, I can’t “see” him … but I can hear him… and that brings lovely images to my mind so at home I normally piss in the toilet… but sometimes I am feeling raunchy so will piss in the sink … or just walk into the shower and piss in there and of course in the morning while taking my shower if I need to - I enjoy taking a piss hands free in the shower….(unless I feel like pissing on myself)

Unless that whole news show was also fake- I would be asking … are you sure the video was produced by tithe Onion???

Your profile doesn’t mention where you live… are you in a country where being gay is ok? Is there much of a poz community? I guess I was “lucky” enough to receive this news about 25 years ago - so at least it was after the discovery of “the cocktail” - but testing still took time - so there was a two week waiting period between finding out I was HIV positive and then finding out my T cells were low enough that I actually had AIDS… so I had a bit of time to absorb things I have also been lucky enough to be treated at a gay health center- so no matter the ailment I presented with, it was always in a stigma free, caring and supportive environment so my advice is first- - I hope your patient is old enough to be able to receive the news alone try and be as non judgmental as possible - be as warm and supportive as you can Make sure that after you tell him that he is HiV positive- the very next thing you tell him is that while at the moment this is not “curable” it is VERY treatable- either with just one pill a day - or now one shot every (what 3?) months That yes, while this will “change” his life it will not “end” it - that if he takes care of himself he should be able to live a normal life Talk about Undetectable = un transmissible he can still have kids if he wants to Be kind, and constantly reassuring will you be able to be his primary care provider going forward? - if so let him know you are here for him… that you will be a team and you will get him through this - or try and have an appointment already made for a dr that will be able to treat him are there any HIV/AIDS organizations in your area? I was more or less required to go to a group therapy session for about 5 weeks… I am NOT a group therapy kind of guy … but I found it really helpful to know I was not going through this alone… that I was not the only one stupid enough to get aids in the late 90s and just let him know there is a huge community of guys who have been living with this for a long time … and he will get through it as for the mother… is there a way can separate them - do he gets tge news on his own … and someone else can give her the news …. Again with the main message that this is no longer a deadly - but only chronic condition good luck and thank you for being such a caring and concerned healthcare provider… we could use more of your kind

Wow - very well written and very HOT … looking forward to the next chapters …..