hungandmean

Used to enjoy finding anonymous cumdumps on craigslist - but thats over and done with now. Theres always Grindr and other apps but they're pretty tame and you have to play by their rules. Any idea where dudes are moving to for some kinky raw fun?

Send me a private message with the province, and general (or specific) area you're considering moving to and I can help you out. There are lots of types of medications that are always provided free of charge in Canada, as it's in the best interests of the public that people get treated - and HIV is on that list. Access to a competent infectious disease doctor depends really on the province and area you're moving to. If your HIV is well managed then your ID doctor may only want to see you once or twice a year and they are able to mail your medication discreetly to any pharmacy. Hit me up if you have any questions dude.

You can have no symptoms and still pass on the virus. This can happen before the outbreak appears, or if people begin sexual activity after the outbreak appears to have healed but hasn't. Valtrex is a very common medication for men on PReP or ARV/HAART to be on. It reduces the frequency of outbreaks, the severity of them, and the chance of transmission when you may not realize you are contagious. Herpes isn't life threatening for gay men, as the major risks of the virus involve giving birth while having an outbreak - but it is a nuisance and some people do suffer severe neurological pain in rare cases. Herpatic nerve pain can last for months after an outbreak... just ask anyone who's had shingles.

One of the things I always respected about TIM was the way they had black men in their films without fetishizing them or trying to portray them as "thugs," and shit. They were years ahead of most studios - some still are trash about it - when it came to how they portrayed stuff. I also agree that it was awesome that alot of the dudes in their films werent models. It felt more real. Now I usually go to Xtube or Tumblr for porn because the stuff being put out there isnt raw enough for me.

Hives are a pretty common skin issue for HIV+ people, especially if you aren't on meds. It's also a very common thing if you're stressed out. Hives on their own aren't a big deal as long as they aren't obstructing your airway. Take a benedryl. If the hives are on the soles or your feet or your palms, as others stated, it might be syph so definitely get tested. Otherwise, it could just be new soap or laundry detergent you're using or an especially stressful week.

No one ever goes on a date and says, "Oh by the way I get cold sores sometimes," over dinner. The fact is herpes, for most people in good health, happen very rarely - makes it something that I don't think needs discussion unless you know you're getting frequent outbreaks. Since you're on Valtrex that's very unlikely.. and you're obviously not hooking up while having outbreaks. The only time I could see it being an issue is if you had a long term partner and needed to explain why you were out of commission for a bit. Otherwise just be responsible with taking your meds, and act appropriately during an outbreak, and there's really nothing to feel bad about otherwise. Also - A huge fuuuuuuck off at the dudes here trying to slut shame you.... on a website full of dudes who are poz and take anonymous bareback loads and all kinds of other shit... for having a STI. I expected more from people here. Y'all judgey bitches should be ashamed of yourselves find somewhere else to hang out.

Yeah! Pulling out and cumming on someones hole and pushing it back in with your cock can be hot - but no top is really going to do that 1 on 1... We just wanna bust our nut and it's going inside a bottom. No one really pulls out. In a gangbang sure because it's just lube for the next dude. In a 1-1 situation i've never pulled out and never would.

I often see bottoms on BBRTS posting that they have a top over and are looking for a third. To me, it sounds like the top obviously isn't satisfying the bottom. If you're doing a great job of wrecking a dudes holes he wouldn't be out there asking for more dick? It seems different to me than a top wanting to see a bottom get used - as opposed to a bottom out there advertising for another top. The few times i've shown up it basically was more of a two bottoms situation as opposed to a lets spitroast this bitch situation.... Curious about your thoughts on threesomes when all of the dudes are random (As opposed to an obvious bareback cumdump party where its pretty clear whats going on)

TIM films often where I live so I know some of the dudes involved in the filming of Sick Fucks - and that movie is fucking tame in comparison to the stuff those guys are into.

It's so true. The stuff on Tumblr is leaps and bounds ahead of the industry really. I hope the age of Sean Cody and stuff is over because that kind of porn puts me to sleep

Obviously my interests, and i'd assume most dudes here would be the same, are on the more extreme side... But i've just found that TIM hasn't made a great movie since Sick Fucks. Their recent, "Bone Ready," was okay but didn't really capture the magic of what the studio had going. They had Kenny's Raw Fucks which was basically only hot because of Kenny's commentary and otherwise was shrug worthy. I remember when TIM used to be a boundary pusher, and the most extreme porn site. Now i'm not even sure what id recommend. And in contrast I looked up a female pornstar that got my dick hard and immediately found a bunch of tumblrs of her being closed fist punched in the face while taking it up the ass. Why is straight porn always more extreme? My personal opinion is that because gay porn has wayyyy too much emphasis on the whole gay for pay thing so most gay porn stars hate what they do for a living

If you're uncut and there are secondary infections going on (syph, gono, herpes, etc) where there are lesions etc - then it is possible to get HIV as a top. The same risk applies for rough anal sex, where the bottom may become internally torn and bleed. The risk of transmission for cut men is very low, and that is why there is a push in many nations for circumcision. (India, West Africa, etc) It also depends on your immune system as a top, and the immune system of the bottom. Do you have a weakened immune system? Are you fucking a HIV+ bottom with a CD4 above 200 and a low viral load... (Low chance of transmission) or are you fucking a person with a CD4 of 50 and a 200,000 viral load?

@Happynleather - It's best to not set unreachable goals. Practical goals you can think are possible to achieve will only help encourage you. You'll have to keep us updated on your progress. @bbbearlover1 - Similiar goal here.

I had a guy offer me a lot of money just to beat the shit out of him. I don't mean like slaps across the face or some hair pulling.. but like kicking him while he was down while I called him names. Never had to have any sexual contact with him. I know he jerked off after I left though. Always found it weird because for what he was paying he could have easily just got an escort to actually fuck him. Other than that - I knew a guy with a huge diaper fetish and that freaked me out. He'd wear one 24/7 and sleep in a cage and wanted to be treated like a baby. It was... definitely a boner killer.

My advice? Be direct. Send an ass shot, say you want it bareback, and you can only play at that moment. Ask if hes serious to send you a cell number for an address to your place. If hes looking to blow he'll gladly pass it over and most likely show up.