I definitely prefer lighter guys. The contrast turns me on and I think a pink cock and hole are super hot. But if I like a guy, I like a guy, and won't deny him just bc he's not lighter.
As far as guys preferring me for my race, well my opinion on that changes depending on whether he's just stereotyping me and fetishizing me or not. If we're just fucking I don't care either way bc we're both just looking for fun and the fetishizing can actually add to the pleasure. However, if we're dating he ofc has to realize that I'm more than just a fat dicked, big assed Blk bull.