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At times I’ve had good experiences with BBRTS to be followed by nothing at all for long stretches. I’ve probably not hooked up with it for more than six months but keep it as one of my two or three main hook up apps for home and travel as it seems to reach some guys more effectively than, say, Grindr. Some of my most memorable fucks have been through BBRTS but the quantity is much much less than Grindr. There are a huge number of guys that use it in my home city (not all online at any one time) yet nearby cities have virtually none. It can be hit and miss.

Success this time at the local saunas monthly orgy night that attracts a huge crowd of guys. On this night the doors to the fuck rooms are all locked open and guys only given a tiny towel.. in effect no privacy either wandering around or fucking. It’s a total non-stop bareback fuck fest for some guys although not always for me. The place is so packed that in some places you are tight against naked guys and can’t move till someone starts exiting. started in the steam room. On orgy night there’s always a crowd of guys standing and playing rather than the usual sitting around the edges. As a warm up I like to suck some cocks, and I got some very good mouthfuls. One guy kept coming back and indicated he wanted to get fucked. I tried to oblige but didn’t get far in without lube, as the steam room tends to wash away any water based lube applied in advance. I saw someone sit on a guys cock and ride it so I took my chance when he left. The guys cock was pretty fat and hard to take although I had earlier taken the precaution of greasing my hole with oil based lube, elbow grease. So I’d taken my first cock of the night. I headed up to the main cruising area which was packed with guys. Inching my way into the rooms I settled down by a couple fucking with the notion I’d slip in and carry on when the top tired. But they went on and on . So I bent down alongside with my ass in the air hoping to hook a passing cock and sure enough I was soon being fucked though not as long as I’d have liked. Meanwhile a young Asian guy had sprawled across the bed seeking some attention. I caressed his butt and he reached over and felt my hard cock, obviously liking what he felt he slithered right across the bed and positioned himself and I slid my cock into his tight asshole. I pounded away for a few minutes, let someone else have a turn, then restarted this time with him on his side to get deeper. Moving into another dark room I felt another Asian guy taking an interest in my cock. We took turns to suck but his fingers moved to my hole so I positioned myself to take him up my ass standing, no mean feat in the crowded room. He fucked me for a while, moving around the room, till he said we should try for a room. We wandered down the corridor but most rooms taken and I had to explain to him that we couldn’t shut the door of any room . Eventually we found a wide unused mattress in a darkened alcove without anyone else present and he started to fuck me doggy style and rear entry. Other guys would come in and fuck alongside, annd go, others would come and watch or touch, but he kept fucking away. Eventually he got me on my back legs in the air, occasionally kissing, and on he went relentlessly pounding away for over 30 minutes. His body was bathed in sweat and when his head was over mine I could feel the sweat dripping on me. His cock was not large, but hard, and it was good eventually take his load. He gave me his number and address afterwards so will be seeking a repeat session before long.

Sunday afternoon at the cruise club. Had struck out previous visit but this was different, almost a record for me. It was a naked cruise session although some subs wear jock, a few wear t shirts. I just wore shoes and socks. Within 5 minutes I had wandered into a dark room and started sucking the cock of the guy already there. His fingers reached around and stroked my hole which was my signal to reposition myself and immediately he was shoving his raw cock into my hole. This first guy had a distinctive rhythm to his thrusts which were designed to slam down as hard as he could. A few guys had gathered around and after a while he let another guy have a turn fucking me then he started his hard thrust# again. The crowd of guys lurking behind me was surprisingly large by now and there was a fairly orderly process of them fucking me one after the other. I was fucked 9 times in an hour without moving out of the dark room. There guys came in my asshole. The first guy to cum, came with a lot of noise and that absolutely worked up the following guys to fuck my hole. The next to deposit a load did so with less fanfare but it was getting sloppy now. After a few more fucks, the last guy to come jerked his cock almost to climax and then pushed in my hole and made the deposit.

It’s nice to get a satisfied top come back for more but it was surprising to be contacted on Grindr out of the blue by a guy who bred me two years ago. He contacted me first thing in the morning asking if I would be available at about 5.30 pm, so I had to wait all day which was ok as I had things to do. When he arrived he was just as I remembered. I didn’t recall the face but … that cock and body. The cock was thick, long, cut with a big head, curved upwards and rock hard. He was tall and beefy. He was Polynesian, muscular with a traditional tattoo on one arm. i set to sucking his tool and after a while bent over my bed for him to fuck me. Then we climbed on the bed for more doggy before I lay on my back with legs in the air. He pumped and pumped before eventually depositing a big load which seemed to go on for 30 seconds. Hopefully I won’t have to wait more than a next year for the next load.

It’s nice to get a satisfied top come back for more but it was surprising to be contacted on Grindr out of the blue by a guy who bred me two years ago. He contacted me first thing in the morning asking if I would be available at about 5.30 pm, so I had to wait all day which was ok as I had things to do. When he arrived he was just as I remembered. I didn’t recall the face but … that cock and body. The cock was thick, long, cut with a big head, curved upwards and rock hard. He was tall and beefy. He was Polynesian, muscular with a traditional tattoo on one arm. i set to sucking his tool and after a while bent over my bed for him to fuck me. Then we climbed on the bed for more doggy before I lay on my back with legs in the air. He pumped and pumped before eventually depositing a big load which seemed to go on for 30 seconds. Hopefully I won’t have to wait more than a next year for the next load.

I didn’t have high expectations at my local bathhouse on Wednesday afternoon, but decided to just take things easy. However, I found that there was no time for relaxation and was almost worn out by two hot sessions. l started in the steam room. A good looking young smooth Asian guy came in and sat across the room from me. He made no move so I walked across, kneeled down and started sucking his soft cock. He let me suck but remained soft for a long time in the steaming heat. Eventually he was as hard as he was going to get with his smallish cock. I persevered but received no encouragement, no hand or body movements, no words. I stood up and returned to sit near a second guy who had been watching and playing with his own cock. He was older than the young guy, hairy and, importantly, his cock, though only a bit bigger than the first, was rock hard. And he responded to my touching and then sucking. He was enjoying it and he reached around casually to touch my butt and finger my hole which was lubed. I positioned my hole over his cock and gently eased the head in. But he was playing hard to get or, either didn’t like to fuck in the steamer or at least with the other guy watching. He silently got up and left. Wordlessly I followed and he walked through the bathhouse, up the stairs and nodded to a room. We entered and he kept the room in darkness. Removing my towel I got a squirt of lube into my hole in anticipation. I soon found that hard cock pushing it’s way into my hole. We moved onto the bed and he founded me relentlessly for 15 minutes before, in the dark I manoeuvred into a different position to feel his hard raw cock get even deeper. Later on my back I was able to run my hand through his hairy chest while he continued to fuck me. I do enjoy an occasional hairy chest even though most guys I go with seem always to have smooth bodies. The upstairs rooms in this bathhouse were close to the tin roof and were very hot. We were both bathed in sweat by the time we took a break. After washing off I headed down to some cubicles to try the gloryholes. Soon I was being sucked hard and before long could tell a mouth was being switched for an asshole. I thrusted away for a while but it wasn’t comfortable so I left the cublicle and knocked on the door of the adjacent cubicle intending to slip inside. However, a tall Asian guy emerged with different ideas and grabbed my hard cock leading me down the corridor and around a corner to some rooms. On the way he had a quick word with an old white guy he’d obviously met earlier, we slipped into the brightly lit room and he asked if I was into threesomes. I said sure and he let the old guy in. I started the ball rolling by fucking the Asian guy standing with him bent over the bed. Then the old guy fucked him before the Asian guy began fucking me. He had a big cock. While he was fucking me I realised the old guy started fucking the Asian guy from behind. After a while the Asian guy slid out and the old guy was fucking me. After this the old guy let himself out of the room and the Asian guy and I continued flipping until we too were both bathed in sweat and had to call it a day.

Down in New Zealand

He was the perfect fuckbuddy for me. Nice body, just my type. He liked sex and was keen for it. No time wasting on the apps. Nice guy. Good fucker, liked to breed me. He could host at his place 10 minutes away. A very sensual guy, he liked to kiss and cuddle as well as pound me in the ass with his big cock. We hooked up 4 times at roughly monthly intervals. We met on Grindr in 2020 after lockdown restrictions were lifted. Unfortunately, my only means of contact was Grindr messaging and that account went silent after another lockdown in my city in 2021. Nowadays I try to get a fallback means of contact such as WhatsApp or Telegram but I didn’t think to do that much to my regret.

I took 62 loads in 2023 which is the most taken since I started keeping tally in 2019. That means I’ve taken more than one load a week even though it doesn’t feel like I’m getting it that frequently! I bottomed 202 times in 2023 so taking a load every 3 or 4 times guys fucked me.

Entirely legal in New Zealand (except for foreigners on work visas who cannot undertake sex work).

They have one at Auckland’s Centurian sauna and I’ve taken a few loads using it.

I’ve sometimes wondered about the mechanics of underwater sex. I recently swam naked with a young guy in a private pool and cuddled, sucked and pressed our hard cocks against our assholes but never fucked. The videos I’d seen usually have the guys sensibly step out to the side of the pool to fuck. Well I got my chance to try last night when we were staying with a young guy in a fancy hotel with a large bath. He wanted sex in the bath and we did a lot of playing around sucking and kissing. He started positioning to fuck me but I reckoned it would be near impossible under water with any natural lubricant, spit or water based lube washed away. We could have stood or knelt with my ass just out of the water but that wasn’t the object. I hit on the idea of using an oil based lubricant and although we’d generally used silicon based lube I also carry small containers of ‘elbow grease’ with me on holiday (I don’t fist but find it lasts well for long sessions). Success it seems to be a good underwater lubricant even in warm water! I’d be interested to hear of other guys tips or experiences with underwater sex.

Had an ‘anonymous’ hookup - actually we knew each other and it was more playing out a fantasy - where I left my hotel room door unlocked and lay naked and blindfolded on bed ass up. I head someone enter some undressing and then a finger then tongue in my asshole. He rimmed me good and then moved around for me still blindfolded to suck his cock fully hard. He then returned and pushed his cock into my ass. It is years since we’d last met and I’d forgotten that he had a very long cock so enjoyed the pain of taking it all in. A good fucking later on my front then back resulted in a big load deep within my hole. I had my mask off by then and was amazed to see him shaking sporadically for almost a minute with an orgasm. I’m pleased I had a camera set up alongside the bed as it was a hot fuck.

Checked into a hotel in another city and had a Grindr hookup in my room within 30 minutes. Although a big hairy bear wasn’t my usual fare the key thing was his cock which was average length and uncut, and, importantly quite thick. It was a squeeze to get it in (although I knew I’d take it, I always do) and it gave that exquisite pain during the first thrusts. Gave me a good load, first of my city mini-break.

It’s years - decades - since I’ve done understall sex or cottaging but it was my gateway into gay sex before graduating to saunas and later Mail-box classified hookups (precursor to the apps). I think I started out innocently reading graffiti on toilet walls, jerking myself and suddenly realising there was someone else jerking in next stall. I’d return and look through the little drilled peepholes- too small to be glory holes - and jerk off watching each other. Eventually on a return trip a hand would have reached under and I expect I probably came almost immediately with his touch on my skin. I soon was reaching under myself and jerking other guys. With no one teaching me this stuff, it took me a while to figure out that with a bit of manoeuvring I could usually get my hard cock under the stall divider. Heaven, I was getting sucked! One might imagined things could finish at that level but, no, there were other ‘levels’ to this activity- always of course haunted by fear of interruption, discovery, exposure or even violence. I graduated to guys entering my stall for blowjobs and meeting in toilets but leaving in a car for blowjobs elsewhere. I was thrilled when someone wrote a note on toilet paper slipped under stall asking to meet outside where he gave me his number and invited me to call sometime. This led to the first time I fucked a guy, no going back after that. I have a vague recollection, but am a little uncertain, about fucking understall, but it didn’t last for me as I had discovered the gay sauna which was more versatile and less dangerous.

While ‘money boys’/prostitution is hardly a new trend, I’ve noticed in last couple years on the apps more young guys explicitly seeking ‘rewards’. While I find this annoying and undermining of the notion of equality in hookups, it seems to be something short of prostitution as the rewards sought are less than the ‘market rate’ for sex workers and - this is my impression anyway without actually using any - seem more like a tip than charging for sex. Perhaps I’m wrong with this impression. An equivalent I find in some Asian countries are guys who seek $5 for petrol or a taxi after sex, though this in not a new trend and again can be contrasted with guys who want to be paid for the sex itself.

Went to a sauna in Bali and was fucked by three guys. They each used spit as I forgot to take lube. The first used a condom which is still reasonably common in Bali (he had to fetch one as I had none, obviously). The second guy had never topped before and eventually lost his hard on - lack of lube may have worked against me here but I was honoured to introduce him to barebacking. The third guy was really hot. He was tall, fit with broad shoulders and smooth chest. As the only white guy amongst an all Asian crowd I attracted some attention and he approached me in a line of 6 or 7 guys in a dark corridor pushing his finger into my asshole through the towel- I stroked his cock through his towel and was pleased with what I felt. We slipped into a room with a mattress on the floor. He had a beautiful big hard Asian cock which he pushed into my hole moistened by his saliva and loosened by two earlier much smaller cocks. He was a good fucker and it was good to feel the pain and pleasure of a thick long cock after a week of taking mainly the smaller variety. I got a good large load as the prize.

Interesting topic, I’ve seen only some of those trends in my travels, not been approached by any women with strap-ons yet and thankfully avoided guys pissing in me. One trend I have noticed, welcomed and embraced is guys videoing encounters. This has arisen only since cameras were added to phones so I suppose in last 10 years but in my experience more particularly in last 5 years. I’ve noticed it mainly in hookups in homes or hotels. I still find a lot of reluctance but much less so than 2 years ago, Outside North America you generally can’t take phones into bathhouses but in USA you can rent exclusive use of a room so I have come across videoing random encounters there, which I find hot. I’ve been to a few sex parties where the host takes a few carefully controlled photos shared amongst the guests but not yet attended a group sex event with a free for all videoing but understand that trend is emerging too.

Just been to Eleganz sauna in Seminyak Bali. Opens 4pm every day I arrived after 6pm got busier after 7pm. Highly recommend. Pretty busy, nearly all the guys are locals. I got fucked by 3 guys only one used condoms. Third guy was really hot, flooded my ass with his cum. I forgot to bring lube so all three guys just used spit which was great.

Great question and a reminder that there may be hidden depths in Logan’s Run warranting a rewatch. I’m versatile and seem to top and bottom in near-equal measures. This seems in my case to relate to the question. I go on the apps and seek someone out to top or bottom but the online status often triggers an approach from someone else. In either case it’s a bit random as to whether they want to fuck me or for me to fuck them etc. It seems on apps I can be rider and turner at same time - seeking someone else or displaying my goods for them to choose. If there was actually one of these machines, I would probably tend to be a rider and would have to change position on different spins to show cock or ass. I get most satisfaction from someone choosing me and having them come from pleasure with my body. However, I’m too much of a slut to remain indefinitely on the carousel and if waiting too long would hop off and spin for a fuck.

Renting a villa in Bali for a week. Have been chased on Hornet for a few days by a guy whose profile pics were so hot I thought he was catfishing, a super fit money boy or simply a hot guy way out of my league. I established he wasn’t a money boy and took the plunge and invited him over. He was even hotter than his profile pics. Before anything happened he sat me on the sofa and had a chat - it was more like a job interview as it was clear he only fucked with guys he clicked with and wasn’t about to simply get it on without small talk as some of the hookups over previous days had. Ten minutes later I was relieved to have made the grade but I still wasn’t fully aware of what I was in for. We went into my bedroom with the rather romantic four poster bed with almost silken mosquito net in Arabian nights’ fashion. He removed his clothes except his briefs and slipped out for a quick shower. He had a broad dark brown, almost black, smooth hard chest and fully tattooed back. When he returned and lay across the bed I found he had the most enormous cock, which he had coyly concealed beforehand. With the setting complete I started my work of nibbling nipples, kissing and eventually taking that big cock in my mouth caressing and sucking it and ultimately taking as much as a could down my throat. The guy was active with my nipples, mouth and cock before he took over as the principal director of the fuck. He started expertly rimming my hole and then started easing his cock in with no lube. Although I was expecting a load of pain I made no protest but was relieved when he took pity and located my silicone lube bottle and greased up. There was some exquisite hurt associated with his pushing his huge tool fully into my hole but that pain is part of the deal and I welcome and enjoy it. He began his thrusting and didn’t stop for 45 minutes. Always on my back with us able to see each other’s face and sometimes kissing. We would moved the position of my legs but otherwise fairly relentless. Half a dozen times there would be an angle that permitted more depth and combined with powerful thrust would seem to go a bit deeper within me causing an involuntary gasp from me and a smile and ‘very deep, yes?’. When I bottom I try not to come seeing my role, and delight, in bringing my top to ecstasy in my body. However, the guy had tried to make me come by stoking my hard cock while pounding on me which I subtly discouraged. But he asked me to come and confirmed he was close and I obliged seeking to align with what appeared to be his imminent orgasm. At that time his body quivered he gasped, quivered again, and then over a minute four separate spasms which appeared to be the most immense orgasm. However, without lying back or withdrawing he slowly began thrusting again. This was no short endgame he was soon back to maximum thrust. After a while this was repeated and he began again. When the third and final orgasm came a massive load was deposited partly inside and partly on my leg. He later explained that he had come in small quantities the first two times but had not been able fully to come though tiredness from his work or something and started again to come completely. This was something new to me but worth experiencing.

@Stulong

I have no idea about New Orleans but I can confirm Sniffies doesn’t work everywhere. Just visited Taiwan and Hong Kong and it didn’t work in either place (actually the app started flashing in a rather nauseating way I had to close it off). It does work in Australia and New Zealand although there aren’t enough users yet to fulfil its potential although I have had some hookups from it. Its location data seems very precise - love the idea that it enables you to hook up in your car.

After a successful darkroom session couple of days ago, which I posted above, I had the chance to try two further dark rooms last night. I found a few variables that might be relevant. The first is whether you’re in a cruise club or bathhouse. I was in a cruise club from 11pm to 1am and, as it was too quiet, switched to nearby bathhouse from 1-3am. The dynamics differed, particularly in level of nakedness. Second, is how busy the venue is. In my case guys in the cruise club were not in regular street clothes, as would be usual, but for this event seemed to be dressed dirges as construction crew, in leather or underwear. However, the place wasn’t overly busy. The bathhouse was contrast was absolutely packed and nearly all naked in the dark room, only a few kept on their towels. A lot of bare flesh squeezed together. In the cruise club I topped twice and was unable to get anyone to top me. I tried bending over the fuck bench but no takers. Ironic in that the guys I topped were bent over the fuck bench. So no real lessons to learn from that experiment. (As an aside, one of the guys was about 25, really hot, with a big cock and I fucked him for 20 minutes, but I digress.) The dark room at the bathhouse was fairly small, about 10 could crowd in at a time. No fuck bench as such but a padded seat on a couple of walls. I got a lot of action here topping and bottoming. Most was through standing around, grabbing cocks and making clear through body language what you wanted. I did top one guy who had positioned himself ass up on the bench seat (and he did get other action too). Not sure what to conclude other than guys are hornier if naked.