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Yeah, that's hot. I've always liked fucking straight/married guys but it took me a while to start noticing rings. It's hot knowing the guy is married early on — a ring can do that. Like in a bathhouse situation. I just assume all their wives know their husbands get fucked. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.😈🤙
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Has the Meaning of Sex Changed for you lately?
backtails replied to LetsPOZBreed's topic in General Discussion
I feel less like the number of guys I fuck is my score, the only measure of how well I'm doing at the gay. Now I don't want to fuck guys I'm not attracted to. I've done a lot of that. They're into me, they have an ass, I fuck it, I get a point. I guess age is a factor here, but it's also how the pandemic showed me you can't die of horny, at least as long as you fully take care of draining your own balls. That is, you don't need to actually fuck. So the line has shifted when I make a decision on whether I try to hook up, and I only want to fuck hot guys for now. That's harder to achieve than just fucking. -
I have a slightly different take. A bottom is either a cumslut or a cockslut. A cockslut needs to be penetrated; he gets off on having a cock in his ass. A cumslut needs to be bred; he gets off on having cum in his ass. Every bottom is a mix of cumslut and cockslut, and it can change from session to session, but you can get a feel for whether you're fucking a cockslut or a cumslut. They do need to get fucked differently. Cocksluts care more about size; cumsluts care about raw number of loads. Cumsluts need it faster and cocksluts need it longer. My version fits with the more common definition. A cumslut is a man driven by the desire to be inseminated. I'm just balancing that with his desire to be penetrated.
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Unsatisfied by lighting in saunas, plus other issues
backtails replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I like it more with the lights out. It makes the place feel bigger, more mysterious, like I'm exploring a vast unknown territory full of ass. With a tiny flashlight. When it's less busy I think there's a reason to keep the lights on because well-lit areas feel like they're intended for traffic rather than sex. Guys tend to move through without spending a lot of time. That's just a natural thing, you're on your way from room 216 to the darkroom, you've got a purpose, you're paying less attention to who you see on the way. So with fewer men in the venue, you want less dark (more sexualized) space, so guys will tend to congregate and fuck in the spaces they have. When it's busier, you need more room to hold the action. I'm not surprised that a bathhouse in Montreal bought expensive pieces of art. It's just what they do. There's so damn many hot guys there, though, I can kinda see why guys there would want to see who they're having sex with. Still seems like a good idea to have a really dark area available at least some of the time. During slower hours, every bathhouse really should have a no-loads-refused cumdump waiting in a sling in total darkness. When the cumdumps have to line up for sling time, then maybe the lights should go on a little.- 1 reply
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I wrote something *huge* on this topic. Just way too long. I'm a barebacker top, but I'm neg, and it was about how often bottoms are disappointed by that. Which is a lot of the time. And then I wrote a lot about the conflict between that reality and the messaging from the "community". If a poz top says he's verbal, he may be saying he's into exactly what you want. I guess start looking for poz undetectable tops, tell them you like getting verbal, and have them figure it out. Guys that advertise being poz undetectable likely consider their charged but not actually toxic cum to be an asset. They may want to help you get what you need. Gonna say this too. Remember a lot of the attraction here is in your heads. You'll talk about his status before you hook up. Don't go overboard, just let him know you think it's hot. From then on you'll know you're gonna take a poz load from him, so every time you think about his cum, you'll remember it's extra-hot for you. What I mean is don't expect him to fuck you for an hour talking about toxic charged poz cum the whole time. Some guys might like reminding each other more than others, but the thing you need to focus on is that that cum is inside his body and it's going to be inside yours.
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I'm in Canada. It's no different than alcohol or tobacco because it has the same status here. Guys use "420" or "🍁" to say what they're into, same as everywhere else. That wouldn't be considered PnP, partying, or chemsex. It's a different category. That said, you can't expect guys to be into it without saying. It's not like an absolutely normal session. A lot are, but if you're going to show up really high, some guys might not want that. Same thing as if he was drunk and you weren't.
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OK, Explain: Bottom Profiles With Cock Pics
backtails replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
I don't get using it as a main pic, but it has to be available. I mean that as a bottom you should have it there. Personally, I know whether I want to fuck someone even from a clothed pic. Anyone I want to fuck will have a hot ass because all asses are hot. But an ass pic is nowhere near as hot as when it's paired with a cock. My thoughts are that when you see his cock you know it's sexual. Body pics or ass pics that don't show the hole aren't as directly sexual. With a cock, you know you're looking at a man that might want you to fuck him. I'm gonna say that butt shots are the way to solve this. Avatars with a butt shot are always among the sexiest on here, @ErosWired and @jonny4dad. -
Do tops like sloppy well used cum dripping assholes?
backtails replied to Oralguya1's topic in General Discussion
Fuck yes, fuck yes, fuck yes. Now it's a competition. I have to fuck him better than the other top(s). From the moment I realize he's loaded to the moment my swimmers cross the finish line (wherever that is) before all others. My boys always win the race. Or, with the stamina I know they have, there's a moment when all the cum inside you is mine. And then I'm the only one who really bred you. Yeah, I have no idea how competitive my sperm really are, but I like the thought. Cool fact: penises have mushroom heads so they can scrape other men's cum out of wherever it happens to be. That's the purpose. So if the other tops just like the satisfying feeling of entering a sloppy hole — it's good to know you're fucking a slut — I'll just let their seed chill on the bottom's balls and take that sperm race all for myself. -
It's a chemical reminder of what you're meant for when you're meant to fuck and breed, too, not just if you're meant to take it. My cock swells up. The veins pop out. If I'm fucking, I FUCK. Deep long dicking, so fast my balls look blurry, and when I get to the end I try to dig deeper. Usually no closer to finishing at the end, though. I'll take a hit right before entering him, and that one is different. I'll go in slowly and deliberately; I don't fuck the way I will on my next hit. Sometimes I feel it take effect, which really enhances the awesome experience of having a bottom yield to me and take me inside him. If I'm getting sucked, the instinct is to go in all the way and hold his head down until I've had enough, then just fuck his throat. It only takes that first hit to get me started, too, @ErosWired. Just the smell is erotic but doesn't really flip a switch in my head — I need to get that raging boner. Then I get even more aggressive. I take what I want. That attitude stays after the poppers fade. It's the attitude pig bottoms want, and he's getting the attitude I want as he tries not to spill the bottle. Yeah, if you can't tell, thinking about that smell kinda gets me horny. Poppers are absolutely not only for bottoms.
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That's a fucking impressive bottom cock @BREEDmeRAW... and, yeah, you thought he was asking about your pre-fuck prep. Thought so too, here. Because, if you think about it, that's a reasonable question. A man who's about to stick his raw cock into a bottom's ass could very well want to know if it's freshly rinsed. Situations even exist where the answer is "no". (Like if there's an unplanned blowjob and you want to fuck but you're not sure about the timing.) But asking someone whether they have any diseases is pointless. No one will say "no" to "are you clean?". He can lie. He might think he is when he's not. The answer is meaningless, and, if you find it reassuring somehow, you shouldn't. You're taking the same chances as everyone else. I never ask this question and I just answer "yeah". Do guys give answers that might be useful? "I'm on PrEP" or "I'm poz undetectable" would tell you something, and might be more likely to be true than "yes". But I think everyone just says yes.
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Uh, maybe the top is wearing a really wide cockring? I hope the blond dude fucks raw, anyway. I hope he gets fucked when he's doing it. It's a hot pic, and I'm officially placing myself in the blond's ass. And if I don't feel another cock grinding against mine when I go in... I want to. Damn, blond dude's cock against mine in a DP would be hot too. A fucking condom would be hot if I could be a top in a 5-man gangbang right now.
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I like hotels. When I show up to fuck a dude, I'm interested in his body and he's interested in mine. A hotel is sort of a neutral venue where men only bring their body — at a house, you see the rest of his life too. Usually it's not a problem, but I prefer to open the door and step right into a sexual realm. Definitely, if you're looking for numbers, a hotel is a lot easier. Easier to get to, easier to find, easier to park... There's the drawback that some guys don't like going through a public space, but there are hookup-friendly places where you can go in off the street and it's not too open.
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Aw, I like the idea of someone's ass opening up and getting horny when he smells my armpits. Kinda like a bottle of poppers I've always got with me. Goes nicely with natural lube.
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The difference is about depth. You can fuck ass balls deep. It changes a lot about how intense you can get... like, you can slam your body into his buttcheeks. You can put your whole weight on him when you're lying on top. Stuff like that. You can fuck pussy hard, for sure, but an ass is a bottomless tunnel, and a pussy will always be a pocket. Yeah, they both feel fucking good. Ass is better.
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Yeah, it's definitely not just psychological. When you cum from fucking you're thrusting, and you either keep thrusting or you tighten up hard on the muscles you've been thrusting with. So just the fact that you're using those muscles through the orgasm means it's more intense. The difference between cumming in ass in a condom and bb shots feels like it would be psychological (but maybe not). With a condom you feel it fill up, which actually feels kinda good... but a bb load fucking disappears. You don't feel it (much) because it's going inside him. And that's hotter, even though it's missing a sensation you feel when you don't bareback.
