Nclchub
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It's not necessarily shame as such. Some guys are only interested in a purely physical relationship, hence why he's so passionate in the moment but disinterested as soon as sex is over/not on the table. I know back in uni I had a relationship like this with a guy where we had completely different friend groups and only hung out to have sex. Both of us were openly gay, we just didn't have anything in common outside of loving bareback and being swamped with coursework/exams. As for not liking/being annoyed by cuddles, that could be any number of things. While it could be shame, the fact he's openly gay makes this less likely. Some guys just don't like cuddling. Maybe he's aromantic (i.e. Enjoys sex but has no interest/desire for romance). Ultimately I'm not the one dating the guy so without talking to him I can't say what his deal is. Way I see it you have two options: -Accept that this relationship is purely physical and enjoy it for what it is -Have a conversation about why he's not into cuddling/romance and whether you could incorporate that in future. If he tells you he's not interested and just wants to keep using you purely for sex, ask yourself whether you're okay with that. Good luck.
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I'm late to this but will preface by saying I personally would go bareback every time. However, if someone asked for my recommendation I sincerely think that if someone has any doubt they should go for Condoms for their first time. I know I know, but hear me out. The most obvious reason is that if your nervous about disease they lower that risk. Bareback is great but if you're constantly worried about catching something your first time you're not gonna be enjoying yourself. Above all sex should be fun. However, the main reason I wouldn't go bareback is if you plan to use Condoms in the future. In my experience, bareback feels so much better that once you've experienced it it's very hard to go back to Condoms. I know I tried using Condoms again after my first bareback fuck but none of the sex I had with Condoms measured up to even the most mediocre raw fucks I've since had. I just love the feeling of a raw dick inside me too much.
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Newcastle bottom looking for poz loads. Happy to travel via train if a poz load (or several) are on the other end.
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So speaking seriously, it can't be overstated just how lucky you are to have a partner that accepts your sexuality and need to explore it. That said you're at serious risk of ruining your relationship. It looks like you're letting your dick do the thinking and are about to jump into things way too fast. Others have talked about how you're putting her at risk if you go bare so i won't dwell on that. More concerning to me is that you're immediately considering getting fucked by multiple guys. Have you had a serious talk with your wife about how this is gonna work? Do you even have any rules? Things to consider: -Condoms and Prep. You need to figure out together if you're gonna use them before you consider going bare. If she wants you to use protection and you go bare anyway that's a huge betrayal. -Does she want to know any details or does she want things to be strictly don't ask don't tell? -are you going to let her explore fucking other people? Does she even want that? -Just because you're free to fuck other guys doesn't mean you can neglect your wife. Make sure her needs are satisfied too I'm really not trying to be a downer. However it sounds like you and your wife care about each other. Remember, even if she decides you need to use Condoms for now she might ease off on that once she sees you can be trusted. Good luck.
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My tastes haven't changed. Still have a preference for larger/older guys. The only real change is I'm more forward about what I want. Used to be a completely submissive bottom but now I'm comfortable being assertive even if I'm still the one being fucked. Hell some of the most intense sex I've had only happened because I explicitly asked for it (eg. Given directions to a guy on how to "force" me to deep throat him). -
Newcastle here if you're still looking for people.
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Anyone like getting a pierced cock up the ass?
Nclchub replied to Hotrawbutt4u's topic in General Discussion
Had the pleasure of being fucked by a guy with a PA last week. Maybe he was just good but it felt like the piercing hit my prostate with every thrust. Would love to experience it again. -
Not the same thing but I've definitely had experiences where I've rapidly withdrawn consent. Most notable for me was when a guy I hooked up with about 6 years ago. At one point he mentioned that he wanted to fist me but I said no and at first he seemed agreeable. Later that night we start messing around again and all of a sudden he goes from fingering me with 2 fingers to trying to shove all of them up me. I'm guessing he thought since I'd loosened up I would just go with the flow? Instead I was pissed off and yelled at him. Dont think he expected me to get so angry as he meekly withdrew his hand and I left, vowing to never fuck him again. The irony is I do enjoy being fisted, but I need to be in a specific headspace and/or trust the guy I'm with. By trying to rush me he ruined everything for him.
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Please check this out and respond…
Nclchub replied to rawTOP's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Agree with all 10. In the UK here and wish more people in my area took this seriously. -
The “thrill” of Hard to Get - Turn On or No?
Nclchub replied to NorfolkUK's topic in General Discussion
I'm not a fan of the hard to get routine on hookup sites (bbrt, grinder etc) . If I wanted to go through that I'd just go to a bar or use one of the less Hook up focused apps. -
Worth remembering he was/is getting his treatment from the shady clinic where the "doctor" had him bred and fisted by multiple men. I like to think that doctor either gave him prep to make his strain med resistant (as prep alone isn't enough if you're poz) or just gave him a placebo.
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God damn that was satisfying. This entire story was just so good. The way you set it up so that we always knew more than Cody was a particular highlight. Even after he's learned about Bryce he's still ignorant to a lot of what happened. The ending was surprisingly wholesome. I love that even though the story about how Cody became poz is done its clear that Cody will continue to be a slut. Regardless, even if I wouldn't say no to more installments this was a really good conclusion and you should be proud of what you've wrote. Thanks again for sharing.
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I assume Bryce just used Cody to get paid. Once Cody converted Bryce was done with him. It also looked like he was getting close to Jeff so I wouldn't be surprised if Jeff ends up getting pozzed too (though considering Jeff cut all ties with Cody we might never know). This story is so fucking hot. I'm really loving it. Thank you so much for sharing.
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I started with condoms but my first time bare was an eye opener. The top removed the condom mid fuck as he was loosing his hard on and I went along with it. Was incredible just how much better it felt. That said I didn't become a raw only guy until later. Tried sticking to condoms but it just wasn't the same. Nowadays I'm actively chasing so even if bareback didn't feel better I avoid condoms entirely.
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Wow this is a good story. I keep coming back every few hours and am never disappointed. Thanks for sharing!
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Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?
Nclchub replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I'm upfront about my status. If asked I'll honestly tell them I'm neg but take raw loads and let them make a decision from there. That said it's getting more uncommon for guys to even discuss status. -
How unusual is it for a bottom not to use poppers?
Nclchub replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
Eh, it's not that unusual. I enjoy them occasionally but most of my long term hookups couldn't stand them or had no interest in them at all. An issue I've noticed is some guys form a habit of using poppers for every sex act and while poppers themselves aren't addictive people can become dependant on the high. That a guy cancelled a hook up because you don't use them says a lot more about them than you. -
So like a lot of guys on here I like piercings. However with dick piercings while I've sucked a few I've only got experience being fucked by a pierced dick once. I'd like some input from guys who have or have experience with dick piercings. Main questions: - as a top does sex feel different with a piercing? I definitely noticed as a bottom. - has anyone found any discomfort/bleeding as a result of a piercing? I didn't but I've not got much experience. - does the piercing interfere with day to day life? For example if you have a Prince Albert does it catch on clothes often or is it smooth/large enough to avoid that?
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I've tried monogamy in the past and while I can do it it's not something I'd go back to. Closest I can entertain is a relationship that is romantically monogamous but sexually open. My ideal/dream relationship is one where my partner is free to fuck whoever he wants and is open about it. Not a humiliation kink exactly, I just think it's hot to be with a guy who is still a slut.
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As someone who occasionally has retrograde orgasms due to an injury it definitely worried me the first time it happened. When this happens to me I sometimes get a big glob of cum coming out of my dick when I piss but other than that there is no cum from me. Aside from the initial panic it hasn't negatively impacted my sex life. If you're a top the bottom will get plenty of indications you're cumming inside them even if you don't produce semen (increased breathing, the sensation of your cock throbbing inside them as you orgasm etc). Best of luck.
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I've definitely had less luck on the apps recently, though I haven't used them much in the past few months to be fair. Got a huge increase in the number of flakes who suddenly stop responding or won't meet up. Always been a thing but it's definitely more common since the pandemic got started. Since you can still get action at the bathhouse I'd continue going there. As much as everyone there is after a good fuck that doesn't mean people aren't picky so the fact you still get attention is a good sign. Regardless of where you do your cruising rejection is just part of the process. Only way to guarantee you won't be rejected is to pay for it with a pro (and that has its own risks). Good luck
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Another chubby bottom here to confirm plenty of guys like fucking chubby guys. I just wish there were more chubby tops in my area that fucked bareback.
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About a year ago I'd say I never use them. However, my most recent fuck buddies has a stealthing fetish so uses them with me and a good helping of oil based lube for role play. I don't like the feel of condoms but as soon as he breaks it he goes into Overdrive and just pounds me silly. It's wonderful. Anyway, by the definition of this poll I technically use condoms sometimes.
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The main issue is that many guys who want to avoid Covid are avoiding the apps altogether until they are vaccinated. As a result, a larger proportion of the guys online are gonna be flakes or just interested in chatting. Personally I only log on once a week to keep in touch with friends and have made it clear on my profile that I'm not available for the time being. I used to be an active slut before the pandemic. Unfortunately I live in a sparsely populated area in the middle of yet another lockdown so opportunities are limited. That said, even if I had my pick of dick to play with Covid is too dangerous to mess around with. Not too concerned about myself but would never forgive myself if I passed it onto others. Thank fuck I'll be fully vaccinated in June. Am incredibly horny and miss the feeling of cum shooting inside me.
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Have had Gono twice but that's it. The first time i had no symptoms so it was a bit of a shock. Second time was a couple years ago. Knew it was coming as a fuck buddy had tested positive for it and I got symptoms a few days later. I'm surprised that's all I've gotten after over a decade doing bareback.
