Incognito91
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How long for your HIV to progress?
Incognito91 replied to pozsewerpig's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
You misunderstand. There are two people referred to in my post. My ex was a long term non-progressor. He went without taking meds for close to 20 years when I first knew him, his CD4 remained stable but his viral load was not undetectable. I've since lost touch with him around 10 years after I knew him. As at when I lost touch with him, he still had not started on meds, but and I cannot tell you if it has remained that way. It was through him that I got infected. My husband is the one who is an elite controller - i.e. he tests positive for HIV. However, even without medication, his viral load is undetectable - and remained that way for the last 24 years. That said, in the last few of years, his CD4 is slightly lower than average and his dr suggested he start on meds about a year ago, and it seemed to have bump the CD4 up. Trust me, it was a bit of a mind-fuck for me that the first 2 HIV+ people I knew had such an unusual presentation of HIV. So, if you test negative, it just means you have not been infected by HIV, it does not mean you're a long term non-progressor or an elite controller as both will test HIV+. I think I have read about people who are HIV resistant - which is what I think you are referring to (i.e. do not become positive despite repeated exposure to HIV), but honestly, I imagine there would be very very very little data out there should they exist -
Should we care or should we not?
Incognito91 replied to Cutedelicategay's topic in General Discussion
The same argument can be made for infections that occurred in the past. Why didn't they use condoms? Seems unfair if that is argument. I assume this is a question to countries where medical costs for HIV is covered. The main benefit to treat all HIV patients is that then the patient will be undetectable and therefore not infect others. They will continue with their treatment rather than let it fall away because they need the money to be spent on something else. Is that not a good enough societal benefit? -
If no one is harmed and everyone consents (and of legal age to consent), it really isn't any of my business. And I honestly don't really care (though thought of sex with any family member makes me want to vomit but so does the idea of sex with women). In relation to conflating the issue with pedo - it happens with other topics too. I noticed this was also conflated when we were voting for same sex marriage in Australia - like "vote no to pedo parenting" or legalising same sex marriage is 1 step to legalising pedo. Now, whether I would campaign to normalise incest? Unlikely - I feel quite apathetic towards the cause. It seems like a terribly terribly small minority to put much effort into - I say this knowing i'm a hypocrite in minority groups /shrug
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How long for your HIV to progress?
Incognito91 replied to pozsewerpig's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Are you a long term non-progresser/elite controller? I am always curious about others. My ex who was diagnosed HIV+ in the late 80s (whom I lost touch with around 2014) never took meds, but he never progressed to AIDs. He wasn't undetectable, but always retained quite good levels of CD4 the entire time we were in touch. But his then partner in the late 80s, who was diagnosed the same time as him, passed away from AIDs related diseases. My ex's doctor kept telling him to get on meds and that it was unusual for it not to progress - so I believe this is quite uncommon. My husband is HIV+ but remains undetectable without medication since his diagnosis more than 20 years ago. He often gets asked to donate blood for studies cuz of how unusual it is - so I believe this is extremely rare. -
You can't breach your code of ethics if you didn't know. I once had sex with a former school teacher. He didn't teach my class but the class next to mine and I would have seen him everyday. He also was my sister's basketball teacher-in-charge. It didn't click in my head who he was till we were done and were chatting politely, so I wouldn't necessarily say he would have remembered you either. I of course blurt it out to him which made for a very awkward ending. I concluded I wouldn't blurt it out in future if the deed is done.
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What turned you into a bare pig?
Incognito91 replied to germancumbear's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
With my first partner, enhancement made us never go back to condoms as it felt amazing to be joined flesh to flesh even though I knew he was poz. I eventually became poz. After we broke up, I met my husband, who was also poz. Once we learnt that we were poz, we definitely could not pass up the opportunity to play bare. This was at a time before U-U was known. Both our doctors told us that we should still be playing safe with other poz guys as it was risky for poz guys to play bare with each other. However, sex just felt too good bare and we decided it was worth the "risk". It was when we experimented with 3somes that we came to realise it felt so much better and more exciting for it to be bare and watching each other going bare with strangers before going bare with each other (though it started safe). Once we started to go bare in 3somes, we made it clear to hookups that we would only meet on that basis -
When my partner first suggested trying a 3some, I was very hesitant to try and had a lot of reservation (even after blowing lots of clouds). We had similar rules. No kissing and only fucking with a condom. We informed people of our agreement before we met. That was how it went the first time we tried a 3some. The second time we had a 3some, again, we told the guy our agreement. The guy also wanted to play safe and he brought a fresh pack of condoms. At one point, the guy was sucking my dick as my partner was eating his ass. When my partner finished eating his ass, I remember my partner had an evil look to his face as he watched me and got up and pressed his bare knob on the guy's hole. The idea that my partner was going to breach our rules right in front of me without any discussion because he was horny got me extra rock hard. My partner looked down at my cock, and slowly sank his bare cock into the guy. The guy knew my partner hasn't had the chance to open the fresh pack of condoms and made no protest and i watched him back his arse onto my partner's cock. That night, the rules, without any further discussion, went out of the window. We kissed the guy. The guy and I fucked each other bare. Far more memorable than my first 3some.
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Would love to know what happened to Dan Fisk
