tattedBOTTOMdad

NICE! It sounds like we very similar tastes. I modified my set up a bit when I first bought it. I got rid of the chains - or more accurately, I got rid of the loud and annoying noise from the chains. I replaced the with 1/2” nylon coated steel cable that is absolutely silent and a lot lighter to travel with than chains. I added some powder coated springs (where the cables connect to the sling stand) and I have to say it was the best thing I changed. Its way more responsive and easier to “drive” for the tops, and the springs intensify the strength and force of the tops thrusts.

I feel the same way! Which is why I have created a way to suspend my fuck bench from my sling stand as well. Super easy to switch back and forth between that and the traditional leather sling.

I will admit that it’s almost impossible for me not to be verbal when I’m being fucked. I’ve tried, I honestly have, multiple times…and failed multiple times. Now don’t get the wrong impression, it’s not like I’m having a conversation and using proper grammar when expressing my verbal appreciation for what is happening in the moment. I do have a couple fuck buddies who introduced me wearing a ball gag when we play…which I frikin love. So my verbal expressions are limited to the muffled grunts and moans of being impaled by a thick cock

I wanted it. I craved it. I dreamt of it. I had to have it. I had to do it. I had to be brave enough to surrender to it. I had to stop thinking about what might be and start feeling what is…give up my need to control and become something I couldn’t have even imagined. So I didn’t hold back… my first time being a true cumdunp, my hole overflowing with anon loads was at the San Francisco Horsemarket. 22 loads in 3 hours. It was by all definitions possible a dream come true

I fucking love being filmed while being filled hehehe A couple of my buddies would regularly take videos and pictures while I was strapped into the sling and they were taking turns flooding my hungry hole. Great times. Always up to film while being fucked.

That’s like trying to say which ride at Disneyland is your favorite, or which sunset over the Pacific Ocean is the prettiest…favorite hole type: yes. All of them. The whole hole spectrum.

I don’t believe that having an intense desire or insatiable appetite for sex is a bad thing. Honestly, Id argue that it’s the exact opposite, and a healthy option to a lot of other behaviors that are “more acceptable” by society general. And quite frankly they’re missing the boat…and a lot of fucking fun too! Our entire human existence is fueled by the intrinsic and instinctual basic needs (physical mental emotional and spiritual if you will) and the actions we take and the choice we make to satisfy these needs is why I think sex and the gratification and satisfaction it brings to us on all (known and unknown) levels the human body and mind.are capable of achieving. When you boil it down to the most basic human needs/wants/desireS etc. the most important thing to all human beings is to “be happy” aka to seek and experience pleasure in any and all ways ~ however I don’t buy into the centuries old stigma of a hedonistic life and that experiencing pleasure is first and foremost, no matter the cost. That’s just a limited moral and emotional being and often blame others for their lack of pleasure. As well as use others to achieve their goal and only reciprocate when hey feel they can come out on top of the deal. id say - for me personally - it’s more of a purposeful and conscious approach to incorporating mindfulness and awareness to a blend of hedonism and epicurean beliefs / lifestyle. But it’s not achieving these goals or expectations that is what I’m referring to. It’s not the ability to attain a “thing” or even experience a certain event or feeling. It’s the JOURNEY that brings the pleasures we so desperately desire. The pleasure’s that, once we think we’ve reached the pinnacle of pleasure and satisfaction, we realize that we have barely begun to scratch the surface of what joy and contentment truly are and that self actualization / self acceptance / and self love are a process and a journey; not an achievement or something we can touch see hear or feel…it’s more of a corporeal embodiment of our soul and true selves on a larger spiritual universal energy level. Go back to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs: the larger version that culminates with a self actualization that can’t be reached by checking certain things off a list or acquiring large amounts of wealth and possessions. in that light I say that the basic self satisfying need for happiness and to experience pleasure at its highest possible level goes hand in hand with the tenants we should all live by… first do no harm, be a good human…basically don’t be a dick. No more “I wash my back I stab yours” or “what do I get out of it”. It’s key - as you seek to reach the heights of pleasure of which we are currently aware - to understand, accept and embrace hat SEX, sexual satisfaction, pleasure, experimentation and evolution are at the to be shared and experienced by multiple people (otherwise we’d all be content with “life liberty and masterbating” and miss out on so many possibilities. It’s not just important to us individually, it’s our duty to ensure our quest for the ultimate in sexual satisfaction and erotic pleasures that we share what we know with those we encounter along our journey; just as it is theirs to share with you - and is the one and only way to elevate the intensity and level of pleasure across all humanity. so sexual addiction isn’t a bad thing…it’s not even a thing… is a biological and evolutionary unconscious function that we can’t and shouldn’t demean or ridicule just because it is not widely understood or accepted. One can be bound to another (not just by restraints and cuffs), and committed to each other emotionally and spiritually, but should also be encouraging and enabling one another’s quest for sexual satisfaction and self actualization. Didn’t some one once say we need to “love thy fellow man.” Im taking those words to heart; literally and physically…. We all have to do our part. So if you, like me, find intense joy in giving ourselves to others so that they can feel their joy, who am I to deny my small tiny role in bringing pleasure to the world and feeling the energy that our selfless acts of service sends out into the universe. HEHEHEHE

Hey sexy fuckers! I’ll be driving back to San Diego from Sacramento this weekend, and will be in SF for the day on Saturday (6/5). I would love to find a horned up, pervy and talented dom top who would be open to hosting me for some fun

New to the SD area and looking to make new friends who’d like to use me as their personal cumdump to share or just keep to yourself. Booty calls always hot. I just want your load deep inside me.

Good place to take a nap. BORING. They say the best thing about Sacramento is that’s it’s close to everything else. The city. Tahoe. The beach. But another thing about Sacramento is no matter where you are you’re never far from at least three bottoms. And sac buddies is no exception. 10:1 ratio at least.

Truthfully, a 5-10 minute quickie can be just as satisfying as 1-2 hour long pounding. It all depends on free top and how much he’s into it … one off my good fwb’s uses trimix and he’s hard as a rock for hours and shoots a good 2-3 times during our get togethers. At the bathhouses it’s fine if the guys don’t take very long to shoot, it feels great regardless, and I know that my stamina can keep me going and taking cock for hours.

7! 7! 7! 7! 7…

I had doxy prescribed by a dermatologist to help control / prevent my acne rosacea breakouts I used to get quite frequently. It’s been nice not having a splotchy face like a teenager in the midst of puberty…and when I learned about the proven benefits of doxy as a form of STI prep - well, talk about one hell of an unexpected yet absolutely 100% welcome & unanticipated bonus (especially for horny as fuck slutty raw bottoms like me 😉 hehe)

TheBBbottomJedi on BBRT Sacramento California area