TimboSimbo

I'm always changing it up, using different parts of my mouth, lips, tongue, hard and soft palates to keep it unpredictable, which is the best way to edge. I can go for an hour like that easily. When it comes time to round the clubhouse turn and head for the home stretch. I count strokes, head-to-base every time. A speed that knows the climax is coming, but isn't pushy, with pressure that is firm, but not too tight. I make sure to keep my throat open, so it can glide all the way in without hitting the back of my mouth every time. Then, when I'm in the groove, I can really pay attention to every little detail of his body. Muscle twitches, changes in breathing, sounds, even the cock will throb and flex as we get closer and closer. Concentrating on keeping everything I'm doing solid and even; never freaking out and pushing by going to fast, or too tight, just letting it happen. The energy is so intense! i love that moment. And the longer we've taken to get to that moment, the hotter and more exciting it is.

It's fantasy. Feeling obligated and forced turns some people on. I'm with you, I don't find it particularly exciting and it can become off-putting quickly, as you expressed in your comment. The fact is, when I have protested during sex that I do not want to do that, or anything I'm not into, I've never had a problem with the guy getting too hostile or demanding. I say, calmly and clearly, that I'm not going to do that and the vast majority of the time, he immediately acquiesces and moves on to something else. As I have not made a big deal about it, but have stated plainly that it is not going to happen, he realizes quickly that pushing the issue will only ruin the energy we do agree on. Only once has a guy been unwilling to compromise and we were at a bathhouse, so leaving him was as easy as picking up my towel and opening the door. To be honest, I don't think he had even realized exactly what was going on until I was gone. One time, I was playing with a guy who slapped me around a bit while I was kneeling in front of him. It was very hot and really fun, for sure. He bent down and whispered something kinky in my ear, but as he rose and turned his body, he caught my head with his elbow. It wasn't hard and it didn't hurt at all, but he stopped and his whole demeanor changed. He asked, "are you ok?" I quickly and easily assured him that I was, because it was no big deal at all, and he looked me right in the eye for a half moment; we checked in with each other and everything was good. Then he gave me a slap on the face and told me to suck his cock. So hot! When I do ATM, or cocksucking, or kneeling, or grovelling, or begging, it is because I enjoy it. If I didn't, I wouldn't -- and I'd be like the vast majority of the human population! haha That said, dirty talk is fun and exciting, even if it isn't literally true. It's "just a game," as they say, but if you're going to play the game, play the game; you get out of it what you put into it. For many guys on here, talking about superiority and inferiority, duties, dominance and force, in ways that are fairly over the top is a huge turn-on. As that kind of talk is annoying to us, we just disregard it and enjoy the many other interactions and fantasies available. The way I see it, no one who has made comments like the one's we have issues with is in a position to force us to do anything they're talking about, and they never will be. My goal is to cultivate people who like, shall we say, the same coin as I do, but they prefer the opposite side.

For one thing, I don't ever use my hands. It's a blowjob, not a handjob. Also, there are basically four 'zones' of sensitivity on a dick. Knowing how and when to work on each one and when to group them is the difference between decent head and an earth-shattering blowjob.