I don’t understand it either, but I guess it’s all part of the “game” we play in.
I’ve had several basically state “On my way!” to never be heard from again. Some even make it all the way to my hotel to just say they can’t get in, or they went to the wrong room, or some other lame excuse, even though the came all they way. Maybe they chickened out, or maybe they had second thoughts? I’ll never know.
There is one guy that lives close to me...we had set up several times to meet, but our schedules always conflicted. We finally had an opportunity and he gave me his home address. He never answered the door or responded to my messages. After waiting 15 mins, he then proceeded to tell me he got a work call. Fine, but you can text and talk, right? Either way, gave him the benefit of the doubt.
A week later, we’re able to meet and tells me he’s done with work for the day. I head over. As soon as I get there, no response. I get a response the next morning, “sorry, I fell asleep.”
Done. 🙂