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I hate that it took a quarantine to do it but so glad you came back to this story. Best one on here!!

My thoughts on your post. First is the guy you were talking to could be my twin in that it sounds like we both go for the same kind of man. I am most attracted to exactly what he described -bigger, hairier, take control and tell me what to do type of guys. I know with me it goes way back to being the skinny, quiet, nerdy boy growing up and wishing I weren’t. That being said, I still enjoy sex with all kinds of guys but that particular combination is more likely to push my buttons right from the word go and I have used the exact quote he did to describe many a “great top”. Most guys have a type (for lack of a better word) of guy they place above all others which can also be different than the type of fucking they prefer as well. Don’t confuse the two. There could be a twink with the exact same dick doing the exact same thing to me in the exact way as the bigger guy but I’m still going to be more excited by the latter. That’s where my mind comes into it. But that’s all mostly irrelevant anyway because to add to the mix I’m above all a mostly submissive guy that’s all about pleasing the top. So what gets me most excited is what gets you (the top) excited. So if you really get off on connecting/making love/we’re both equals kind of fucking than I am going to get off on it too. The only problem I find with that is the occasional guy that I call the “pleasing top”. The top that for some ungodly reason can’t seem to grasp the concept that for the vast majority of strictly bottoms, we get pleasure from what you are doing to our ass which is why we like to bottom. I sometimes have an orgasm without touching myself just from being fucked which is all well and good but I very rarely like to cum while getting fucked. If the top is concerned with trying to “get me off” then he is probably not someone I’m going to want to get together with very often because that’s just not what I’m into. There are actually a couple of guys that I don’t get together with very often just for that reason. Everything else is fine but they are too focused on pleasing me for me to be able to be able to get pleasure in pleasing them. (There’s a doctoral dissertation waiting to be written on figuring out the logic on that one!) The second thought I had is that you said you were secretly hoping to get with the original guy and that you got an impression from the other guys and are assuming that’s why they haven’t gotten back with you. Having said all I did about pleasing, I can tell you that I, for one, prefer a top to let me know that he wants to fuck me. Too much conversation without that being stated usually leads me to think that he’s not interested in me for that. That’s another difference between the bathhouse etiquette of fucking vs the online routine. At a bathhouse it’s pretty easy to pick up on what someone’s interested or not interested in but online is completely different. If you’re waiting on them to pursue you then you might be missing out because of that.

Say it ain't so Joe!

Any motels/addresses recommended to be near the action?

What city?

I've been purposely avoiding reading about your CLAW adventures because I get jealous of all the fun. Every year I say, "I'm going next year" and then something ends up happening that I don't make it. If I ever make it up there you are on the bucket list!

Perhaps I should take I-75 south the next time.... That is a great idea. Make a pit stop and lighten your load so to speak.

Today. Got 7 loads at the ABS. Three in the theater and 4 with my ass backed up to the gloryhole. Seemed to be a day of really thick cocks and loads. Lucky me!!