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(Understand I'm familiar with this site and I am aware of the risks I take with bb sex) I also did a full set of labs with my doc last Tuesday and the ghon/chlam came back negative. Nothing on syphillis and HIV. (Just haven't gotten results back, no confirmed things yet) I had three sex partners since my last test. One came inside, one didn't...so he said but I was a bit wet. Perv from San Francisco (my worry). For those that have gotten HIV if you did not get the "fuck flu" that we see in a lot of erotic stories here.... Which I have not. This is what I got: - runs for two weeks (irregular diet and lots of energy drinks... Hoping it's just irritation of the gut) -I did have two out of place canker sores in my mouth out of the blue... - two weeks ago and after messing around with SF dude, I had night sweats 1 or two evenings. Everyone at work was getting sick but me so I thought maybe I was just getting some of their symptoms.... I get this doesn't look good and well I'll find out this upcoming week for sure.... It's weird how much I fantasy on these stories here, in real life I'm completely not feeling that fantasy in real life.... Nice or rude comments I guess I'd appreciate any response to this, even more so for your experience if you have gotten HIV and see if anything you experienced is similar to mine. I would have been on PreP too.... Yet my last two doctors didn't know anything about prep. Conservative heterosexual doctors who are completely out of touch with homosexuality. Even after I gave them information on civilian doc's who could walk them through the process of getting a patient on Truvada. They blew it off. >.
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I have tried to keep up with the blogging but I also just try to add stuff when I feel inspired, a new job and new apartment has kept me busy. Enjoy the new post boys... https://serodiscordantcanuck.wordpress.com/2016/06/01/sunny-disposition/
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Hello buddies, four weeks ago my bf got a positive HIV test result. He was taking the initial test for starting the PrEP. I am on PrEP and we wanted him to get it too. The test was a huge shock for both of us because I am sure that he always had safe sex - he was even more precautious then me. As his VL was very low the doctor assumed that either he is a good controller or the infection had occured recently. As mentioned this test was a big shock and somehow I can't really believe it till now. I also took two test (even for RNA) because we had bb sex since I had started the PrEP. But I am negative. I won't tell you how hard the following days were, but I think we found our way through this rough phase. He is going to work again and now we are waiting for the second tests to see how the infection develops. Besides of asking you guys in which way I can support him without clucking him I realized that my sex drive has driven down to nearly zero. So has his. Even though I'm on PrEP he doesn't want to have Sex at the moment, not with me, not with others. (This is heartbreaking because I know how much he loves cocks.) I wanted to take to PrEP to have uninhibited BB sex. But now, everytime some guy asks me for an encounter, I feel blocked. In a crazy way his infection feels like a punishment for me for wanting too much. A huge point is that he wasn't chasing or such thing, I believe him that he always used protection. So he wasn't a tempted barebacking candidate. That's why I think this is so unfair he got it. So how shall I enjoy (BB) sex when he got infected by not even barebacking? I know it sounds crazy but talking a crazy idea out of the mind usually doesn't bring back the boner. Maybe I am moving too fast and when things settle down a little the drive will return, but it's been four weeks now and I wonder how long this will take? I would really appriciate if someone shares his thoughts on this... BTW: We are a couple for nine years now, living together and loving each other.
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so at the end of the year, there was an announcement that some porn stars had contracted HIV onset. then I saw a vague reference that a porn star had come out with hiv this week. but I cna't find out who it was. anyone have good googlefu or know who they were and what studio?
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Interesting interview with the guy who became HIV+ while on PrEP https://www.poz.com/article/meet-man-got-hiv-daily-prep
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I'm 18 and new to the bareback thing. I sucked cocks and swallowed cum and got fucked but Never let anyone cum in me. But now i want it and found a Nice guy on grindr. He Said he only fucks bare and that he is neg but on another Social Media his Profile says he is poz. So i dont know if i should take his Load because i dont want to get poz. But why should he lie about his hiv stats to me? Should i take it?
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hello, i´ve had bb sex for few weeks now and i never want to have sex with condom again i was to a few bathhouses but never took a load there because of the risk so i only took from guys i know but now a guy with an undetactable load wants to fuck me bb and i will do it, i get so horny thinking about it and cant want him to pump in me is this the first step to become a chaser and only take poz loads? because this really turns me on
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Ok, Poptronic, you said let you know when I was ready to quit smoking again. I am. Today is day one. I'm using the patches. I tried last week and failed but I'm determined to be a non-smoker again. Anyone else want to join? Here are some good reasons I found today while reading up on smoking as it relates to those with HIV. Last time I quit I didn't have to think about this, but now it is a real concern. http://aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/staying-healthy-with-hiv-aids/taking-care-of-yourself/smoking-tobacco-use/
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https://serodiscordantcanuck.wordpress.com/2016/01/02/undetectable-almost/
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https://serodiscordantcanuck.wordpress.com/2016/01/02/bathhouse-breeding-in-a-serodiscordnt-relationship/
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This new study further makes the case for PrEP. Some people were concerned that if you seroconvert while on PrEP you'll develop resistant strains while taking PrEP. This seem to have happened during partners PrEP, a straight study of PrEP users. Seems like if you simply stop PrEP after seroconverting the resistant strains will disappear and you'll get regular strains flourishing which are vulnerable to normal drugs. If I understand it correctly, this means you have to be off meds for a bit for this to happen which I'm not sure it's optimal. http://www.aidsmap.com/Drug-resistance-acquired-during-HIV-PrEP-rapidly-disappears-after-medication-is-discontinued/page/3020093/
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Tops: Let's Be Honest About "staying Negative"
donkeyboy posted a topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Hey bros, I made the decision to bareback in 2011 and well, as they say, no way back. Been barebacking ever since and I've noticed how pretty much nobody uses condoms right now. I was fucking a poz bottom dude for a while last year. Got tested recently: negative. Have met a lot of total tops who bareback and none of them are poz, really! I only know vers and bottom guys who are poz. I can be a very aggressive fucker and the sessions gets as raunchy as the bottom is willing to it get. Keep on reading articles about how risky bareback topping is but anecdotes from guys I've met and going through forums, chat, etc. Tells me it really takes a while for a top to go seroconvert. Each time I get tested I'm not all worried about the results. It's just routine. How could I be surprised or unsettled by a positive result if I've been barebacking for so long? Also, all the poz guys I know just take their pill(s) and that is it. They don't even get a cold. Have not met anyone having all those "horrible side effects" people (especially sex counsellors) talk about or post on the internet. So what's your story if your a top barebacker and have remained negative for long? Also, some poz guys I've fucked have not been on pills so their viral load I can guess is not "undetectable." Is it the vaseline? I use vaseline a lot. I was wondering if it becomes a sort of coat protecting your cock's skin. I know I can fuck or jerk off for hours using vaseline and not get irritated at all which is something that doesn't happen with water-based or silicone-based lubricants. I am not immune and this is not about being a top because you remain negative or whatever. I don't care. I'm just wondering and I've become quite suspicious about medical articles claiming bareback topping as high risk. HIV counsellors usually try to alarm saying all kinds of stuff. So I wonder about the gap between clinical literature and the sex experts' discourse on HIV infection risk and what I've been living and the people I've met, and so on. What's your story? What's your opinion? Have to say it again. This is not about feeling good about being a top and remaining HIV negative because of that and of course this should not be taken as any sort of put-down to bottoms or versatile guys who are HIV positive. I've fucked plenty of HIV positive dudes and I don't mind. I don't mind HIV, I just wonder about the top/bottom HIV risk discourse sustained by the healthcare establishment and STD counselling, etc. Also wondering what could be it about remaining negative for long and am curious to hear more stories similar to mine. Thanks!- 18 replies
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I recently received oral from a poz guy who hasn't started his meds yet. While I know that it's really unlikely that you can get HIV from oral sex there is a complicating factor. I ended up getting gonorrhea from the oral, so I'm a bit nervous. I know that contracting gonorrhea could make transmission more likely. Even though I was the one receiving (we didn't do anal at all or anything else) I'm worried that if he actively had an infection in his throat/mouth that he could have possibly passed on both the gonorrhea and hiv to me. Does anybody know the likelihood of contracting HIV from a situation like this? Any input/advice would be great.
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https://serodiscordantcanuck.wordpress.com/2015/11/10/the-sweats/
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Undetectables Stop Telling Me It Is Safe To Fuck You...
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A story that aired on King5 here in Seattle about PrEP http://www.king5.com/story/news/health/2015/10/15/truvada-underutilized/73989052/
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I have been researching and searching for months now on where I fit in. I am negative. Surprisingly enough after fucking 100's if not 1000s of men in 23 years.... I have knowingly and unknowingly been with poz guys before. Sometimes willingly and once not so willingly. NOW my boyfriend of 15years is now POZ.... What does that mean. I do not want HIV yet I wan him..... I have always enjoyed breeding. I have had a breeding fuck buddy for awhile who I trust and respect. My partner and I have had somewhat of an open relationship as he fucks and I watch, either present or by default of behind a curtain or a closet door or by video link...*hot stories to come.... We are unsure how and who infected him....BUT here we are.... I totally get turned on by BB....I could count on both hands how many times in 23years I have used a condom. I enjoyed watching my boyfriend being BB, I enjoy BB other men, I enjoy being BB.... I enjoy BB porn companies.... This site is fun as well.....A little shocking to say the least but it is fun... I am still absorbing a new subculture in this world....Wondering.....Amazed.....Shocked....but mostly understanding of how it all goes down.... So I have decided to blog here....I also added a link to a more g rated blog site that I have been keeping up since BF's diagnosis.....
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Just as the topic states. I put "don't know" in there, and would suggest that guys who haven't been tested in over a year answer "don't know" even if their last test was neg. You could also answer "don't know" for example if you feel like there is a strong chance you were recently infected, but haven't been tested yet. The other answers are self explanatory, but feel free to elaborate in a post if you want.
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I just moved to DFW and would like to share my sexual addiction with others. I am an aggressive bareback bottom who knows how to use a dick. I am 6'4". 226lbs0 34, masculine, in-shape, tattooed, slightly hairy and just plain horny. I would like to find a group of men that want to use my hole for whatever. I like all kinds of men and take all kinds of loads. I would like to find a group, bareback party, whatever. Just need sex.... I have a hectic corporate job and need some relief. I can't host because I have corporate housing but I will travel for the right guy or group. Email billycullins@gmail.com If you email please use subject KINKYBB so I know your real. Thx.
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