Boy1543 Posted December 25, 2013 Report Share Posted December 25, 2013 Hey, I just started dating this guy who is poz and undetectable (I'm neg). We haven't had sex and I want to take his load so bad but I'm afraid of getting sick. What should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GoodExercise Posted December 25, 2013 Report Share Posted December 25, 2013 Talk to your BF. And, grow up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
breedbaltimore Posted December 25, 2013 Report Share Posted December 25, 2013 Discussion is key. If he is indefectible, then there is less risk with him than someone of a unknown status, which I consider anyone not a virgin or been 100% safe. But you need to talk with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VersatileBreeder Posted December 26, 2013 Report Share Posted December 26, 2013 Since he is undetectable your risk is very low, but you may want to consider looking into getting on PrEP. That will put your mind at ease and your chances of getting infected would be virtually 0. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest JizzDumpWI Posted December 26, 2013 Report Share Posted December 26, 2013 Actually the combo of undetectable guy and PrEP guy would be perfect. Both of you actively managing your health. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bttm2go Posted December 26, 2013 Report Share Posted December 26, 2013 Discus your concerns with him. Since he is undetectable, the risk is less. There is still risk of infection though. There is a lot of info on the net you can read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wood Posted January 3, 2014 Report Share Posted January 3, 2014 Since he is undetectable your risk is very low, but you may want to consider looking into getting on PrEP. That will put your mind at ease and your chances of getting infected would be virtually 0. Actually the combo of undetectable guy and PrEP guy would be perfect. Both of you actively managing your health. bingo, Im in this exact situation we are both vers, he's undetectable, on meds, very healthy, I'm neg on PrEP. Even experts in this situation say the chance of infection in this situation is close to zero. Without chance your risk is higher, but not super high, more like 1 in 500, where as with a guy with a high viral load you are looking at 1 in 20 if not more. Go to the PrEP forum and read up, its what you need, especially if you think you are going to be seeing this guy for a long time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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