How in the Hell do you take a big dick?

[bearbandit]

Do what Daddy says: he's come across/in many guys like you and is aware of the damage he could do. Last year I got fucked by a guy with, I swear 11", anyway, far bigger than any dildo I've ever taken. Hell even soft, taking his whole dick in my mouth hit my gag reflex. I laid back and did as I was told. Within ten minutes I could feel his balls against my ass: he'd got through the second sphincter without me barely noticing, just by keeping up his relaxing/dirty talk. His only surprise was that I've not been fucked like that (nor taken a hand) since the nineties so I was tight. But, shit, did my thighs know what I'd been up to the day before

[wood]

take your time

use lots of lube

get in a position comfortable for you

relax and dont tense up!

Tensing up is what will cause a majority of the pain. You need to be relaxed. you ass will stretch and it wont feel that bad unless you tense up, then it will hurt.

[frenchbbtop]

Taking it slow is key, it's tempting to fuck like in porn and have a guy just rush a giant cock in but it hurts a lot and then you don't enjoy it. For me the biggest I ever took was maybe 7.5" and thick and he was really sweet and went bit by bit slowly until it was all in, lots of kissing to helps relax too.

When I top I only have 6" so I'm not worried about hurting anyone

[NWUSHorny]

Generally speaking I find it easier to take a giant cock than a small one, for whatever reason a small one often feels like the initial penetration on every stroke. I've only been fucked by one guy that breached my inner sphincter, I did better sitting on him and finding the right angle and controlling how fast it went in. Once I was open he could fuck me in any position hard. Unfortunately he was mostly bottom and would only top me if I made it a condition of fucking him.

[1slut]

Use poppers and take the challenge of a big cock.

While big cock looks more inviting, I agree with bestcatcher that smaller cocks rocks. I think this is because a smaller cock hits right onto your prostate each time the top slides in, a bigger cock just slides pass your prostate and not hitting that 'g-spot'.

My favourite is a thick average size cock, this stretches me and hits that g-spot..! Long slim cocks does nothing to me.

[wow4761]

Sounds odd but it's more difficult and painful for me to take ANY dick lubed.

Lots of rimming loosens me up and some spit on my hole and the tops dick does the trick for me.

Oh ... and having the top SLOWLY enter, and give a minute to let my ass adjust.

Also if I find the big dicks (9+) are easier to take. They don't get as rock hard, so they tend to be a bit more flexible. I can't take dick less than 8". Hurts too much.

Edited March 29, 2014 by wow4761

[Guest Pwrfkme06]

Bend over and take it that is my job

[evilqueerpig]

Patience, a clean, well lubed hole and a skilled top.

[NYBBGUY58]

The top has be sensitive and willing to work with you and just be intent on ramming it in.  Thorough cleaning up prior to sex will also help.

Thet there's different techniques - one is to get a lube "injector" that will make sure that whatever you're using will help ease the way. Another is to use "sexhalation" as I've heard it called.  You get yourself in position, have the top position his cockhead against your anus; then, tense the sphincters, and release as the top pushes in a little.  When it's gone as far as you can handle, tell him to stop and hold in place for a minute.  Then, squeeze him and release as he pushes in a bit more.  Just repeat that process until he's completely inside you - my experience is that this really works.  It helps to exhale as he pushes in; also once when I was on my back, they guy had me grip his biceps (but he was a bodybuilder) and that helped.  You can also try sitting on him so that you control the penetration, which may help you relax.  Relaxation is key - I've asked for a minute and done deep breathing and yogic relaxation if I need it.  

Hope this helps.

[HotGreek_STL]

Also never start touching or stroking your cock when you're trying to take a big toy or dick in your hole AS YOUR ASS AUTOMATICALLY TIGHTENS!

[Guest ff-whole]

I can take a pool sausage up to 13" but it takes lots of lube and slow and steady practice...
Now with a big dick, I found out that straddling the person and myself lowering myself onto a large dick gives me the control I need. I can move my stomach, belly to rearrange my bowels and after that it is almost like a lovely ride in the park.
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[BREEDmeRAW]

There are many ways to take ANY dick including Extra-Large Cocks and guys with a PA in their dick. Position can depend on each participant, depending on how many involved, body type, size, etc. 

Lube is essential for most and many use poppers or herbs to relax. It is always best to practice alone to see how your own body feels and reacts. The Most important thing is to Relax your ass muscle. 

You may feel pain, but just push past that point. It really is mind over matter and focus on pleasing your partner. NO PAIN, NO GAIN.

Last is a plea or strong request. Do NOT ask/search or agree to meet a Well-hung Top unless you can please him. There are so many bottoms that beg but are unable to satisfy the Top. It leads to frustrated Tops that are less likely to try new bottoms.

I can't speak for all, only myself and I have been taking Bare Cock and Creamy Loads for over 35 years. ????

[Guest btchbyl]

sometimes u just have 2 chew on a bullet and let the huge dick top use ur ass 2 get off in. I usually stand up to take huge dicks and let them 2 fuck me from behind. taking a huge dick is easier when I'm on my feet it gives me better traction 2 brace for a rough hard fuck while I brace my hands on a wall or the door of a toilet stall. some of them really fucking hurt but I let them finish anyway.

[NLbear]

I was lucky that I had a crush on the first guy I met with an oversized dick. Really handsome guy. And he seemed to like me, which flattered me (afterwards I learned he fucked any guy that let him). This was in my student days. I had heard rumors he was "big" but I didn't know he was THAT big. He was very patient and used lots of lube the first time. Maybe because I had a crush on him I didn't back off when it was uncomfortable and he was careful. We ended up going home together regularly when the clubs closed and he hadn't found someone else. I know, I probably liked his dick better than I liked him once I got to know him better.....I learned how to take his oversized dick. We never ended up being boyfriends. I think we were both to slutty to stick to one guy at the time. I still think of him now and then and what could have been. Or wonder what became of him.

Edited December 31, 2017 by NLbear

[Insidemenow]

My favorite way to take a really big cock is ass up head down... And lots of lube and a good whiff of poppers if he's the first guy inside me for the day. The poppers just help me to relax and turn up the lust for cock even more.