Any way to avoid seeing straight posts on Breeding Zone?

[rawTOP]

I have always been turned off by the straight female escort threads. Since this is a gay men's site, why don't we discuss gay bareback escorts?

I don't think escorts are as big of a thing in the gay community as they are the straight community. So many gay men are sluts, few gay men need to pay. I mean the average gay man probably has sex with as many guys in a year as the average straight men has sex with in his entire life. I also had a boyfriend at one point who said his mom was only OK with his dad having sex with other women if he paid for it. Not sure how common that is, but the sexual norms in the straight world are very different.

[pigskintop]

Agree!!!!!

I don't think escorts are as big of a thing in the gay community as they are the straight community. So many gay men are sluts, few gay men need to pay. I mean the average gay man probably has sex with as many guys in a year as the average straight men has sex with in his entire life. I also had a boyfriend at one point who said his mom was only OK with his dad having sex with other women if he paid for it. Not sure how common that is, but the sexual norms in the straight world are very different.

[SFRubberLeather]

Just my 2 cents here on the straight posts popping up on the site, since I don't know the inner workings of the software RawTop is there a way to do something where all the straight post forums are put on a sub section & we are able to 'turn off/on" seeing those sections (like the chem sex areas) we need to click on in order to view them? I like others love my straight brothers & sisters (I'm a protest activist from the 90"s, & loved having them with us on those protest lines as well as supporting their causes + protests as well), so I'm not looking to have them transferred to another site, if you get my drift. Just my 2 cents here.. PS Raw Top, huggs for doing such great & excellent work on the site...I love it....

Edited June 27, 2014 by SFRubberLeather

[Rayne]

As a bisexual user on the site, I'm going to add my input on this. Love it or hate it, as always.

Personally, I think it's great to have a website that combines gay/straight/bisexual users for breeding/barebacking; I love it. I do have some grievances, though. While I have nothing against gay porn, I have something against being bombarded with constant advertisements on this website. Now, to reiterate, I have no problem with it; I only have a problem with it being everywhere on this site. Then again, I consciously chose to come use this website in spite of the advertisements; so I won't complain about that. What does bother me are the people who've been on here for a while and call this a "gay men's site," when it clearly has a portion of the website dedicated to straight and bisexual men (as well as women). This kind of attitude bothers me, as it's either giving off the impression that this website is falsely advertising its straight/bi section, or the users simply feel entitled because they once had a majority that is beginning to dwindle in numbers. It could also be that the originator of this site is gay, and they feel that makes this a "gay site," but I'm not trying to actually call it one or the other; that isn't my place. However, I find this behaviour childish, as this website appeared to be favouring the gay male side, but was completely supportive of all orientations and genders. Honestly, it doesn't look like that's the case any more, based on what various users are saying.

Then we have the original question posed in this thread, "can we avoid seeing straight/bi posts?" While the original post wasn't a malicious one, there was another one that came off as such (though, the wording could have been misinterpreted). Well, since there is no way to avoid the gay posts, I don't see why the gay men should have special treatment. To pose the same question for the straight users: is there a way to avoid seeing gay posts? Hey, I'm only advocating an equal treatment here, as well playing devil's advocate. I'm sure there are plenty of straight users who would like the same thing, regarding the gay stuff, but I don't see them complaining so much. Sure, they came here by choice; but it seems a little pretentious to say such things, don't you think?

Now we have this comment...

The people in the straight section are supporting a primarily gay website and showing their approval for the community in their own forum at the same time. They have on more than one occasion shown to be gay friendly.

If they want to post an endless array of straight posts and are still cool with our gay subject matter, I applaud them. I remember a time when straight people would come and heckle gay websites and get downright nasty. I find this to be a very progressive website and I admire RawTOP for taking the initiative to bring a community together where everyone matters.

I think this says it all. We (the straight/bi users) knowingly came onto a website that does not cater directly to us, and have supported it; yet we get treated like we're unwanted, obnoxious neighbours who don't belong, and have simply dropped in without an invitation. If we didn't belong, nobody should have given us a place to correspond in the first place. We were, effectively, invited to this website because we like the concept of bareback sex. Personally, I stumbled upon this website while looking for a straight forum based around the concept of straight breeding (pregnancy/etc.). Thanks to Google, I came across this website because of one word, "breeding," so you can blame Google for a few of us bothering to fit in on this website (it was actually in the top five results, for me, when searching for "straight breeding forums"). I thought this website had a great mix of all types of fetishes, and might be a great way to mix my gay and straight experiences/desires/fantasies/etc. without bouncing between multiple forums; but, it seems like too many of the gay users feel they are above straight and bi users, like they puke at the mention of vaginas. Come on, don't treat us the way religious nut cases treat you; we're supporting YOUR forum, after all. And, I'm not saying this in reference to only a few posts in this thread... I'm actually referencing a variety of posts I've stumbled across since I first became a member, as well as before I signed up. I've known that the vagina lovers weren't very welcomed here, but I figured if we didn't bother you guys by interrupting your threads with pussy pictures/stories, we'd be fine. I'm starting to think I was wrong.

To rawTOP, I have to give you a mixed-emotion-filled thank you. I think this is one of the best forums I've come across in a long time, as it caters to the majority of my desires sexually, and it also allows me to use only one forum (versus using multiples for each fetish I want to talk about). I don't like bouncing between forums, and I've tried to avoid doing so ever since I began using the internet; it's an enormous hassle to me, just like having six messenger services to chat with the same 50 people once in a blue moon. If you did split the straight section off, and made a new website that used the same login credentials, over the long term, I wouldn't bother using it. I'd ignore it completely, and/or stop using both. While that's only one user, that's my honest take on the situation. I wouldn't have really bothered to join this website if the straight section wasn't included. In fact, I began posting in the straight forums, and eventually let my guard down in the gay sections. Taking away the reason I came here will likely take away my reason to stay a member. Just being honest, and I hope that isn't confused by anyone as a form of threat.

I've had nothing but support for this forum, and I've actually recommended this website to MANY people; most of them are gay, but I've also recommended it to various straight/bi men and women. I did so because I thought it was a good place for everyone to not feel judged, and we were all treated with respect; I guess I might have been a little too quick to make that judgement. Of course, that isn't saying anyone has been crashing the party for one side or the other, but it seems like the new, straight traffic isn't very welcomed on this forum; and that is disheartening to me. What's stranger is the whole dilemma various women have had, too. I've not bothered asking why new female members tend to always get banned, but I assumed it was because most female members on any site are actually fake. Depending on rawTOP's response, I might question that further. This stems into a completely different topic, but it's something I've noticed a fair amount of users have been curious about. It's more of a conspiracy theory, you could say, but it's one that many of the straight users seem to be considering closer to true than fiction.

I know this is a long post, but I'm trying to cover all the major things that are on my mind after reading through this thread. I'm sure some of this might be seen as over the top, but it might also raise some valuable questions by others. Worst case, I annoyed some of you

[FatFuckPigMA]

Just bookmark the specific sections you enjoy in your browser.

Personally, I've enjoyed many of the threads in the gay/bi section. Sexaddictsarah is my hero.

[seaguy]

The gay porn ads keep this site from having to charge membership fees just like in the US over the air network television is free because of ads.

[melvin0095]

The gay porn ads keep this site from having to charge membership fees just like in the US over the air network television is free because of ads.

If there were no porn on the net ... there would be not internet.

[Guest PozGoat]

The past few days, the "Whats New" page has been 3/4ths straight posts. When the straight forums opened, I all but stopped posting here. It kind of felt weird. Suddenly seeing so many straight posts. I didn't recognize this place anymore. It no longer had that 'underground' feeling to it.

I'm beginning the process of paying to delete my account. This will be my last post here.

Goodbye BZ.

[drscorpio]

Sorry people are upset. I have noticed almost no difference since the straight/bi area opened. Probably because I seldom use the "What's New" link. I only check it when I have been reading stories long enough to wonder if there are any new posts.

I have checked out their section since this thread opened. The only bothersome thing I have noticed is a thread talking about how gross the bug chasing stuff in the gay area is. But folks are always going to complain.

[DarkroomTaker]

Not sure what the problem is ? It's 2014 for gods sake. I wondet if the boot was on the other foot and they were complaining. I am sure a lot of GPs would be screaming Discrimination and equality shite.

I personally don't like some of the topics in the gay section and the scat pictures but I skim past them. Like I said I ain't out to piss anyone off.but come on.whats the big deal.

[otebbtop]

I have something against being bombarded with constant advertisements on this website. Now, to reiterate, I have no problem with it; I only have a problem with it being everywhere on this site.

This post is too long for me to digest right now (i'll have to revisit later) but being a part of this site for less than a week, I'd like to say that I was pleasantly surprised that I was not bombarded with advertising the way some of the sites I do (or did) subscribe to (and pay for) ...a4a, bbrt, xtube, mh

I'm still getting my bearings with how the system setup works, but so far I like it. I do think there are enhancements that could be made that would make it more enjoyable for everyone. I found a thread where I'll post my suggestions after i've had a chance to catch up on all of the related posts https://breeding.zone/threads/2575-List-Your-Site-Suggestions-Here

Thank you - rawTOP and all other site moderators - for the work you do:clap: I know it is not easy and can be thankless!

Edited June 29, 2014 by otebbtop

[Rayne]

This post is too long for me to digest right now (i'll have to revisit later) but being a part of this site for less than a week, I'd like to say that I was pleasantly surprised that I was not bombarded with advertising the way some of the sites I do (or did) subscribe to (and pay for) ...a4a, bbrt, xtube, mh

Okay, bombarded isn't the best choice of words lol. I was trying to make a point, instead of being accurate haha.

My point was you can't get rid of the advertisements for gay porn on this site. I have multiple ad blocking extensions I can use, and none of them block all the porn ads. It isn't that I am bothered by them, some look nice to me. I just don't trust ad scripts, and I also never click on them; no need to have it there if I make a conscious effeort to never click on them. It's more an annoyance to me, but I'm sure there are other users who actually are turned off by them.

It's also worth mentioning that the top banner is gay porn, and not an ad. I think the total straight users are putting up with quite a bit, so to speak. I'm sure they have nothing against gay content, otherwise they'd not be on here; but it is not like this website is very straight friendly (for those completely turned off by homosexuality). And, while this site relies on gay ads to keep membership free, I'm willing to bet they're not of much benefit to the straight members, or very effective with them. Just a thought.

To those who will be leaving, given the latest trends in traffic: I'm surprised you would make such a decision. I'm not one to judge you, though.

[otebbtop]

I'm reminded of the signs that they used to have posted at our local adult bookstores (when they were cruizy, sleazy and fun)...."Do not enter this establishment if you are offended by frank expressions of human sexuality."

At least one of the "theatres" (actually an old convenience store and the theatre was a storage room filled with folding chairs) always showed straight porn with bitches moaning and screaming.....never stopped the gays (the majority) of getting it on with each other or any straight/bis that were in there. I recall one female coming in with a wrap-around skirt, opening it up and getting fucked in the front row--I noticed but was otherwise occupied.

I would say that (if possible) an option to allow anyone that doesn't want to see the hetero stuff doesn't have to would be great.

Edited June 29, 2014 by otebbtop

[Scottop]

The straight posts are in a specific section. It is easy enough to choose not to see it.

[Guest thehammerman]

Hi guys – just thought I’d offer a contribution. As someone who (almost exclusively) posts in the straight (and bi) section, I’ve found this site to be both interesting and enjoyable. I never really considered that some folks in the “gay” area are so turned-off (and, in certain instances, angered and frustrated) by seeing straight posts. As a user in the straight area, the gay stuff isn’t really “there” (it’s neither obvious nor readily clickable on) – although the photos that come up on the surrounding edges of the webpages are clearly homosexual in orientation. I just thought users “saw” the sections (and sub-sections) of their preferred sexual orientation. But, apparently not. Especially if one uses the “new posts” link.

Yes, the straight section has become busier in the past few months. I must hold my hand up here, and acknowledge that I’ve probably played a part in this – as I regularly contribute, and have created quite a few new threads, inciting much debate from others. I do recognise – however – that this is principally a gay site. As such, to respect the wishes of those who’ve shown concern, I will “pull back” from my input … I certainly don’t want to annoy anyone. And my sincere apologies if I have. As I say, I didn’t know all the straight stuff popped up in the areas viewed by gay users.

To offer my opinions on some of the comments / queries made … (1) there is a great focus on prostitutes in the straight section. The reason is simple, besides ‘partners’ most straight blokes will only get bareback sex with any regularity with a prostitute. Swinging tends to be ‘protected’ (as do one night stands, for the most part). And, since most straight blokes don’t really want to discuss the bareback sex adventures they’re having with their girlfriend or wife on a forum, what’s left? It’s bareback sex with prostitutes. They’re readily available, and this forum is great for an exchange of information and views. So, this leads to (2) Yes, bareback sex is highly frowned upon (if not downright rejected) on virtually all straight websites. Raising the issue of bareback is enough to get a user banned! As such, straight blokes have found a place to express themselves and be free.

This is a great site. But I – nor my ‘straight brothers’ – do not want to cause any tensions. For that reason, I’m going to refrain from taking part any further (until the separate site is created in the future). I appreciate the space this site has allowed me … Take care.