FillMyArse Posted July 15, 2014 Report Share Posted July 15, 2014 As a 100% gay guy, I would like to say I'm not offended at all by seeing the straight posts on the what's new page when I log on. Yes it's a better experience for me to see the posts more relevant to me, ie the gay posts so all I have to do is click forums and the icons on the forum sections tell me where the new posts are for all the gay sections. I believe several of the straight people commenting have said they find this site a place they can go to talk about their bareback exploits as other straight sites ban them for doing so. For this reason, stay and post as much as you like! I think it's just a minority (of a minority) of guys complaining! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 15, 2014 Report Share Posted July 15, 2014 Hi guys – just thought I’d offer a contribution. As someone who (almost exclusively) posts in the straight (and bi) section, I’ve found this site to be both interesting and enjoyable. I never really considered that some folks in the “gay” area are so turned-off (and, in certain instances, angered and frustrated) by seeing straight posts. As a user in the straight area, the gay stuff isn’t really “there” (it’s neither obvious nor readily clickable on) – although the photos that come up on the surrounding edges of the webpages are clearly homosexual in orientation. I just thought users “saw” the sections (and sub-sections) of their preferred sexual orientation. But, apparently not. Especially if one uses the “new posts” link.Yes, the straight section has become busier in the past few months. I must hold my hand up here, and acknowledge that I’ve probably played a part in this – as I regularly contribute, and have created quite a few new threads, inciting much debate from others. I do recognise – however – that this is principally a gay site. As such, to respect the wishes of those who’ve shown concern, I will “pull back” from my input … I certainly don’t want to annoy anyone. And my sincere apologies if I have. As I say, I didn’t know all the straight stuff popped up in the areas viewed by gay users. To offer my opinions on some of the comments / queries made … (1) there is a great focus on prostitutes in the straight section. The reason is simple, besides ‘partners’ most straight blokes will only get bareback sex with any regularity with a prostitute. Swinging tends to be ‘protected’ (as do one night stands, for the most part). And, since most straight blokes don’t really want to discuss the bareback sex adventures they’re having with their girlfriend or wife on a forum, what’s left? It’s bareback sex with prostitutes. They’re readily available, and this forum is great for an exchange of information and views. So, this leads to (2) Yes, bareback sex is highly frowned upon (if not downright rejected) on virtually all straight websites. Raising the issue of bareback is enough to get a user banned! As such, straight blokes have found a place to express themselves and be free. This is a great site. But I – nor my ‘straight brothers’ – do not want to cause any tensions. For that reason, I’m going to refrain from taking part any further (until the separate site is created in the future). I appreciate the space this site has allowed me … Take care. I don't think you should refrain from using the website at all. I think you should be entitled to use the straight section as you'd like. I personally don't like seeing prolapsed assholes, scat and some of the other stuff that comes up from time to time in here. But it's fairly easy to scroll past it. All this thread has managed to achieve is being alienated by a few vocal negative people. If you weren't welcome here, there wouldn't be a section devoted to you. Stay, post and have fun. The forum is big enough for everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators rawTOP Posted July 15, 2014 Administrators Report Share Posted July 15, 2014 I don't think you should refrain from using the website at all. I think you should be entitled to use the straight section as you'd like. I personally don't like seeing prolapsed assholes, scat and some of the other stuff that comes up from time to time in here. But it's fairly easy to scroll past it. All this thread has managed to achieve is being alienated by a few vocal negative people. If you weren't welcome here, there wouldn't be a section devoted to you. Stay, post and have fun. The forum is big enough for everyone. Yes, please don't stop posting. I don't think that many of the gay guys have a problem with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest thehammerman Posted July 15, 2014 Report Share Posted July 15, 2014 I appreciate that, truly. As I'm sure all the other users of the straight and bi section do. There certainly isn't a site like this, which - I was going to say 'permits', but a better word is - welcomes the straight bareback community. If we (me, or anyone else) pisses you off - just shout us down. As I recognise, it's principally a gay site - and us straight folks (a bunch of weird blokes contributing at the fringes of this forum;)) are your guests. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Layla_ Posted July 15, 2014 Report Share Posted July 15, 2014 My first post was on the gay section by accident ... I got banned immediately : ( Lesson learned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HereInLondon Posted July 16, 2014 Report Share Posted July 16, 2014 It doesn't bother me seeing the straight and bi stuff, but anytime I've scanned thru the threads I am conscious of the lack of female perspective. I know that isn't the fault of the straight/bi guys posting and I imagine those guys would love to have female barebackers discussing how much they enjoy having a vagina full of hot cum (that was my attempt at a sexy heterosexual sentence, how did I do?). One of the things I like most about this site is the variety and balance you get on just about all the topics - someone's chasing HIV, someone's on PrEP; someone's a chemmed up cumdump loving every minute, someone's in recovery hoping for a 1-to-1; and those threads that some young guy starts, saying he's decided to get himself pozzed, always show up a range of opinions and advice. I don't think the straight/bi posts are misogynistic, but I do wonder about the opinion of the female escort, on her third or fourth client of the day, having to negotiate (again) on the issue of barebacking. (Also, with balance in mind, I'd like to hear the RSPCA chime in on the K9 threads.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bberik Posted July 16, 2014 Report Share Posted July 16, 2014 Maybe you could put a symbol on all straight threads, so it would be easier for us to just scroll past those threads? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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