Straight Guy considering sex with a guy!

[peterjones1989]

Hi,

I am 25 year old straight guy who has started to fantasise about what having sex with a guy might be like. I have always had a fascination with my playing with my arse from a young age. I have used numerous buttplugs and toys over the years. I have also had a girl fuck me with a strap on and it was one of the best feelings i have ever had.

I am curious as to what i real cock feels like and what its like to have someone cum inside me. It is clear to me that I would fulfil a bottom role.

I have no interest in having a relationship with a guy or kissing/cuddling. I just want to know what it is like to fuck and suck a cock.

Could you give me some guidance how I could pursue my fantasy.

[totalasspig]

PeterJones1989,

Once you do it you will be hooked. Any married straight guy that I have known once he got a piece of male ass or had a dick up his ass that was mind blowing sex including the cum load is hooked. My sincere hope is that your not married already. I've seen many marriages be broken up because of his.

[Strafe13]

I'd actually recommend that you at least consider hiring a professional escort for your first experience, since you're a total novice at male-male sex. A good pro who specializes in topping will know how to make your first time really pleasurable. Many pros also advertise that they specialize in first-timers, straight/bi-curious, people, etc.

Despite this being a BB fantasy site, unless you're already poz or really have no care about the risk of infection from HIV or other STIs, I would not recommend that you immediately jump into BB sex with a stranger. Bottoming for anal sex is the riskiest sexual practice for HIV transmission, and if you choose to do so bare, that's a pretty huge decision that should be made after a lot of thought and contemplation, as well as education. I wouldn't recommend adding all that baggage onto your first time. You should just enjoy it, and save the huge decisions for later.

If you want some recommendations on pros, you can private message me, but keep in mind that options vary based on location, and your use of the word "arse" makes me think you're in England. London's a pretty good spot with a diverse array of escorts.

Hi,

I am 25 year old straight guy who has started to fantasise about what having sex with a guy might be like. I have always had a fascination with my playing with my arse from a young age. I have used numerous buttplugs and toys over the years. I have also had a girl fuck me with a strap on and it was one of the best feelings i have ever had.

I am curious as to what i real cock feels like and what its like to have someone cum inside me. It is clear to me that I would fulfil a bottom role.

I have no interest in having a relationship with a guy or kissing/cuddling. I just want to know what it is like to fuck and suck a cock.

Could you give me some guidance how I could pursue my fantasy.

[Daddysapig]

Dude, you gotta try it. Then do it again. What you didn't know enough to appreciate the first time, will come around the second.

And something I've always told str8 guys before they "Hop that Fence", It doesn't meen you're gay.

Edited July 5, 2014 by missouripig
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[omver]

Like Strafe13 said, hire a good escort for the best first time (wish I did, ouch). Though if you can't afford to, try it out with a gay friend or two, some may be up for some fun. Also you would know them and trust them more then a random one night stand off apps.

Once you are more comfortable getting fucked, because lets face it, you probably will love it and want more. You should think about starting up a profile or two on apps like Grindr or A4A. Picture is optional, but will help. I'd say keep the face out of it since you are just there for sex and wouldn't want irl friends to see you on there. Say that you are straight in your profiles and want to try bttm and you probably will get a bite or two depending on where you live. I know quite a few gay guys, bttm's and tops, who would die to just fuck and cum inside a straight guy. Just saying.

BTW, watch what you post in profiles on apps, some words are trigger words which will get your profile taken down.

But be careful, if you don't want any STD's you should really just stick with close friends or escorts.

GOOD LUCK MATE!

And tell us how it all goes.

[drscorpio]

I have provided this service for several straight guys I am friends with over the years. If you have a gay buddy who you trust, ask him. He will probably jump at the chance.

But one warning, everyone of those guys swore me to oaths of secrecy never to tell anyone especially their girlfriend. Most of them had confessed to their girl within a week. Then I had to have "the talk" with the girl about "do I think he's really gay?" Don't put your buddy through that. If you can't keep the fact you got fucked from her, lie about who gave it to you and tell her is was a stranger.

[peterjones1989]

Thanks for the advice.

I can't really afford to pay an escort and don't have any gay friends (that I am aware of). I was thinking that I might be of interest to some guys on here, I am in the South-East of England.

I realise this is a BB friendly space and I love the sound of it and have enjoyed masturbating to all the stories on here but I think I would want a condom for my first try (i realise they are unpopular but it would make me more comfortable on my first time)

[otebbtop]

A looooong time ago, I went to my first gay bar - very nervous. I met a couple there (maile/female) - being just very naive, I assumed they were gay since they were in a gay bar.

They gave me their number and asked me to give them a call (I was assuming I would be calling him). They were from a town not too far away from me, and one where a university I was considering was located. So I decided to go and check the university out and could visit them.

I got there and called - got her. They had an apartment I would later discover they kept to meet up in. I was shocked to learn that they were bi and that I was dessert. I had never had sex with a female before and really don't recall much about it (and don't want to think too much on it..)but, she did all the work and then he joined in. The interaction between he and I was really limited to doubling on her. They asked that I call when I got settled into the university.

Fast forward a couple of months...I moved into the dorm and gave them a call with no intentions of a repeat (I, after all was NOT bi). Talked for a little while, went on about business. A day or two later, I got a call from him asking that I meet him at the apartment, which was very near the dorm.

I did and he wanted to spend the night with me. I found him to be very attractive so I jumped at the chance, not at all knowing what to expect.

I don't remember what all we did but I vividly remember that he had resolved that he wanted to blow me - to completion - and swallow. When it was time I asked if he was certain this was his desire and he confirmed.

He promptly rushed to the bath and puked.

He did get over it and I saw him a few more times in the 3 or 4 years I was in town. I also met up with them as a pair one other time - and I was very drunk.

[evilqueerpig]

If you're fantasizing about cock/cum up your arse, you might not be as straight as you think. A professional would likely be your best bet, at least for your first time.

[Toxxic]

I'm not sure the professional is such a great idea. They can be very hit or miss, there are the caring ones but plenty who just want to get you to spunk as quickly as possible so they can get you out ..

Make a mate on here or one of the other sites making it clear what you want (but don't set it in stone, it'll change believe me!) & go for it

Seriously though if you're thinking about it, do it. It ain't going to go away

[peterjones1989]

Would anyone on here be interested in helping me with this?

[Beetham]

Hey where in the SE are you?

[peterjones1989]

London Area.

[peterjones1989]

Well I know this is an old thread but I thought I would give you an update. 

I finally went through with trying gay sex for the first time. I decided to hire an escort a few months  ago as I thought it would be the easiest and most discrete way to experiment. I absolutely loved sucking cock and getting fucked. The feeling of a real cock in my arse was amazing and so much better than toys. It’s so warm and hard but also more forgiving than a toy. My arse was gaping at the end of it because the size of the cock. It really hurt to begin with but after a few minutes I really got into it. I felt so empty when he pulled out having finished. It was with a condom so I have no idea what it really feels like to be bred but I could feel him inside the condom in my arse and it felt great.

I had no interest in kissing or being affectionate but I loved bottoming and getting fucked. It made me realise I am straight but I keep finding myself thinking of cock inside me and how much I want it again. I have a feeling I will probably do it again at some point but I think I will stick with escorts so I can get exactly what I want.

 

 

 

 

 

[bivergent]

Peterjones,

I am glad to hear your first time was enjoyable. I also understand the not wanting to kiss or hug stuff with another guy. I have only bottomed now for two guys and would also like to again but finding a guy who is into the things that turn me on is hard to find.  Since I don't find myself physically attracted to guys just the act doesn't turn me on enough to bottom successfully. I also like you want to take the guys load in me.