When You Let A Guy Bareback You,

[Willsuck4cum]

If it’s bare I  want the load and hope the top breeds me no notice required. I like when a top talks about dumping in me, breeding me, confidently asking me if I want his cum (to which I begin to beg him for it). Tends to be more experienced tops. Then too, I can generally feel the change in rhythm and cock hardness/girth shift as he gets closer and will respond by saying cum in me, please, I want you to cum in me so bad. Or something along those lines and beat him to the punch if he’s quiet type giving reassuring permission that I want it IN me.

Most often str8 identifying tops are quiet and  they will ask, and then ask again and then warn they are about to cum even if I ask them to breed me. Poor guys are so used to being made to pull out they are unsure of just letting go and breeding deep and hard. Sometimes they pull out anyway and I back onto them pushing their cock in as they shoot.  Of course, that’s only the first time. If they use my ass again they are much more raw and primal about using me and breeding deep. Love feeling a mans First experiences breeding natural and deep.

Same thing if a guy has never cum in a mouth (I’ve had a number of these guys). First time is tentative then they are  loosened up and get into feeding a load to someone who craves it. I tend to collect curious first timers. Probably why I have such a hard time trying to get gang breed. All too “discreet”.

Overall, I really prefer a top who just breeds me or TELLS me he is breeding me. Ideally, if he tells me he’s going to breed me and asks if I want it because he’s GOING TO CUM IN ME. It’s not really a question more of a statement of his owning and using my ass as his cumdump

If I’m sucking only I am VERY clear that I swallow and can’t wait to taste your cum. 

Damn, now I need a load 

[Guest AmbertheTG75]

If he slides in bare it's implied I want his load in me. If I didn't want his load I would have asked for a condom. I love it when a guy just says oh fuck I'm cumming in you and blows a load in my hole. 

[leatherpunk16]

When I get close, I generally let the guy know. He has a chance to say no because I don't want him freaking out later when he didn't verbalize that he didn't want that. They are usually okay with it.

In a related story, I got pounded really hard by a Daddy in October 2015. I was cheating on my boyfriend who had a small dick. I had an itch inside me that he couldn't reach, but this Daddy could. So we fucked. It was one of the best fucks of my life. I let him bareback me. I trusted him, and it was amazing. But I had also opened myself to risk. He gave me gono that didn't show up for nearly three months. It ruined my relationship with the boyfriend when I had to tell him so he could be protected. This hurt a lot less when I met the great love of my life two months later. If it hadn't been for the Daddy sticking his gono dick inside me, I wouldn't have met my amazing late husband.

I say know what you want, but be open to possibilities when letting a guy nail you raw. You never know where it can lead!

[Brain&Brawn]

Slightly amusing article that explores this very topic: 
 https://www.gaypopbuzz.com/bareback-etiquette/?utm_source=instinctmagazine.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=pubexchange_article

[Guest Saturn1]

For me, it is rarely ever discussed. If I am bottoming, at some point, I tell the top to cum in me. If I top, I will breed unless the bottom tells me to pull out which like NEVER happens!!! I mean, WHY fuck bare and pull out??? Pulling out NEVER made any sense to me like EVER!!! Lol!

[rawloadstaken]

13 hours ago, Saturn1 said:

WHY fuck bare and pull out??? Pulling out NEVER made any sense to me like EVER!!! Lol!

I'll be honest, I get irate when I see someone pull out and either lose their load on the floor or shoot the whole thing on the lower back.

If you're getting fucked raw, why object to the load? If you're fucking raw, why not proceed to breed?

(And if you're a porn studio, maybe show one squirt -- just one, no more -- to prove that the top is cumming, then have him shove it back in and blow the rest of the load in the bottom?)

[BREEDmeRAW]

On 12/30/2016 at 4:17 PM, bihairy said:

I always cum inside a hole when I'm fucking.  Lucky I can shoot multiple times.  I was at cumunion some time ago and fucking through the glory hole. I got that great tingle feeling just before I shot my load. As I was moaning and groaning the guy pulled away and left the other booth. I shot my load all over the floor. I was so pissed. Why bareback if you won't let me shoot deep inside? I love it when the guy pushes backwards against me and I push forward to make sure the load goes nice and deep..

I Always want his load in my ass.  I understand at a bathhouse that guys dont want to pay $$ to enter and leave in 15 minutes. If you want quick multiple Loads you might be better off at a bookstore with glory holes or a motel Pump-N-Dump.

If I like you, I want your DNA planted DEEP and mixing with unknown Strangers and Anonymous Loads.

[4Bare]

I only get fucked bareback, and  want and need  the top to be satisfied as well as myself by having the top cum deep in me!

[barenekkid]

For me, when I’m getting fucked, I expect my top to cum inside me. More than that, I need him to cum inside me.  Usually, during the fuck I’m likely to say, “cum inside me” or “fill my ass” or “give me that load.” So there’s never any doubt with me. If you’re fucking me, you’re doing it bareback, and when you cum, you’re  cumming in my ass. 

[PupLucca]

Only way to bareback is to take his loads in your hole. otherwise what's the point?

[VersAlwaysLooking]

I expect a load in my ass if I'm getting fucked.   I like it when a guy "asks" in a dirty talk kind of way but we both know he's not pulling out.   I'm slightly turned off by a genuine question.   It feels like the Grindr endless chat has moved to the bedroom.  However, typically after my affirmative response, I very quickly feel the slow down and throbbing that's a clear indicator of a load in my ass , which completely eliminates my aggravation.  I do get very annoyed if a guy fucks me and pulls out to cum but remain polite.   

As a top, I do not pull out.  

[blackbbutt]

The thought of being bareback used to be such a turn on. I would often let guys who wanted to bareback fuck me. But I was one of the cock teases who insisted they put on a condom when it got down to the actual fucking. usually when they were locked and loaded.

Well of course I hooked up with a big guy who wouldn't put up with that, he got my ass open, wet and horny as fuck, loaded me up with poppers and I was the one who would do anything to get some.  He made sure he came loads AND that the cum got fucked deep in. After that it became harder and harder to resist.

Nowadays, I have nothing against condoms, they just aren't a part of my vocabulary.

[mike10566]

It's not always the bottom!  The first time I bottomed raw was with a guy I met online.  We chatted a few weeks and talked about meeting up.  He was upfront about wanting to bareback me.  I had told him I hadn't done that before and was nervous but interested in doing it.  He kept on telling me how it was so much better and that if love it and how he was going to fill me up.  We agreed to meet up and I told him I was good with it all.  I was nervous but excited and turned on thinking about it as well.  I'm sure you know the feeling.  I went to his house and we chatted a few and headed to his bedroom.  He wanted me to start by sucking him.  As I did he was all about dirty talk telling me how he was going to fuck me raw and fill me with his seed.  I was so turned on.  He wanted me on my hands and knees, lived my hole, got behind me, and worked his way in.  I could only think wow, I'm doing it and couldn't stop thinking about him coming in me.  We changed positions a few time and ended up back in doggy.  He told me he was getting close.  I was thinking, yes, this is it!!! He then pulled out and told me/ pushed me on to my back.  I was like WTH.  In thought he was going to get back into me but he came up to my head and put his dick in my mouth.  I started sucking cause that's what he wanted but was like this isn't how this was supposed to go.  Disappointed, but letting him fuck my mouth here says he's going to cum.  As he's moaning, he pulls out and started jacking and shoots down my chest.  I instinctively started wiping the cum and licking it off my fingers as my other hand tried to pull his dick back into my mouth.  He got up and said that was good, when do you want to come back over.  I started getting dressed and said we'll see.  He kept calling me to come over and didn't understand why I didn't want to after all of his talk.  Needless to say it was a disappointing time.

[Guest MightyMouth]

load goes inside.  unless he wants to pull it out and shoot it down my throat.  i'm okay either way as long as his DNA is inside me.

[Anonversecuck]

I don't know how a top could pull out if he was bare. My pull out game is super weak. If I'm in bare, I'm dumping my load in you.