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On 11/17/2017 at 5:23 AM, diaperboy said:

The first time I was barebacked I was so nervous...... I assumed he was clean but had read bugchasing stories and wanted to live on the edge. When he was fucking me from behind he said I’m gonna cum where do you want it. I replied to cum in me. I felt the pulsing knowing he could give me something. He didn’t but from then on I crave the man juices to be planted in my pussy. Hopefully one day soon I will get pregnant with an AIDs baby

Same thing happened to me

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I was told in middle school sex ed that the best way to prevent HIV/STDs was through abstinence; and that condoms were not 100% effective at stopping HIV if I was to engage in sexual activity. She had the unmitigated gall to tell me that the skin of a condom is porous, and the HIV virus can pass through.  Yep, a good old fashioned lie of an abstinence mandated curriculum.

Up until the end of high school, there was a shortage of people to fuck anyways that I had a connection with at school. I waited until the end of my high school days. My first time getting fucked was 100% raw and I never have used a condom since in 15 years.

Nobody I fucked living in my hometown of Cincinnati considered bareback sex as risky, as infection was believed to be more of a problem on the coasts.

It never occurred to me that they in fact were important. Better sex education was too controversial. I knew zero people with HIV.

The flip side is that it’s also unethical to teach lie after lie about sex, I’m hoping that this is no longer the case.

Abstinence only approach is farce; without proper knowledge, people are not going to make educated decisions about what sex is best for them.

Heard on the news an HIV outbreak is hitting hard there. Hate to say I’m not surprised.

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I don't think it was so much of a conscious decision rather than an evolution of behaviour.  The ultimate point is simply that it feels better.  The top always, in my experience, fucks harder and with less restraint when raw.  

For me there is no better sensation than skin on skin.  When condoms are used it's not as nice a feeling it simply feels fake.  

I have tried it all ways but bareback is better.

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Honestly never really used condoms all that much. I can count on my hand the times I've had safe sex. Most of the time it was the heat of the moment and the afterthought was well should have used ones other times just did not want to stop what I was doing and grab one etc. So not so much for me as why did I start barebacking I just really have always pretty much bb'd.

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I’ve only used a condom a couple times when getting fucked. To this day, when I’m nailing a stud’s ass, I’m glad to wear one if he wants.  When I’m getting fucked, no fucking way. More than anything, I like  knowing that there is nothing between my ass and his dick. Watching a stud fuck me with a rubber just isn’t the same. I also love having my ass filled up with a big load of jizz, and I became poz pretty quickly after my first fucking and embracing being the  cumdump slut that I am, so it wasn’t much of an issue.  

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On 06/01/2015 at 12:32 AM, ProudPozPig said:

I never "started" barebacking, because I've never used a rubber as a top or bottom. I've always preferred as nature intended, with no artificial barriers.

Same here never used one and never been topped with one either

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Raw is so much better, not only the physical sensation either as top or bottom, but also the mental connectedness as a result of being physically connected with no barrier. When topping I know that my seed is going to go where it belongs, deep inside the bottom and part of me will become part of him.

Versatile here and when I was still topping with condoms I used to need Viagra  otherwise I would feel my cock losing interest as soon as a I rubbered up. Since chucking the condoms I stay hard as a rock. Totally refuse to use them now. If it ain't raw it ain't real!

The risk is a turn too....

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When I was younger I didnt know about rubbers as they were called then. I only had raw sex and took plenty of cocks long before i was legal but every one of them was bare. The first time a top used a condom with me it rubbed my ass raw. It was a while before I realized it had to be a good fit and that you needed lots of lube with a condom.  When i got bred bare it felt a ton better and never needed lube after the first fuck so I just never got in the habit of insisting they be used. 

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My dad and brother were the first men to breed me, they never wore condoms, so I never questioned it.    Since I thought bareback was normal, I was surprised when a guy said he wanted to use one.   I laughed and said dude I am not going to get pregnant.    He was the first one to tell me about HIV in the mid-80s.  I told him 100s of guys fucked me without a condom over the years so he might as well too.   

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As a general rule, I love taking it raw.  Beyond the feeling better, I get an emotional bang from him wanting me enough to take me that way.  When I was negative, I'd play safe for the most part,  but at the bathhouse I'd submitted to a demands or didn't bother trying otherwise after token resistance.  Once I was POZ, I figured I'd tried (kind of) before and now paid the price.  Might as well enjoy it.  Stupidly enough, I didn't contract HIV while at a bathhouse (timing didn't fit).  It was from a BF when the rubber broke one time.  Fate, I guess.

However, I notice no-one here has mentioned that PrEP does NOT prevent STD's, it just minimized (approaching zero) infection of HIV.  There are still other STD's, some which are still incurable such as Herpes and Genital Warts, which scare me more.  I would tell anyone considering bareback for the first time with a stranger (admittedly very hot) has to seriously consider all STD's, most especially the incurable ones.  Contracting either is a one-way ticket and will impact your life negatively.  Not saying that you shouldn't never go raw, but seriously consider the risks before taking the plunge (or, having them plunge in).  While the drugs today make being Pos a relatively small impact on day-to-day life (and sex), there are still issues with side effects and the drugs don't work as well on everyone.  I get that there are kinks, I've got some wild ones myself, but wanting to contract HIV is one I don't understand.

Don't get me wrong, though - I CRAVE raw cock in me all the time.  Sadly, I live in a small rural town and can't play at all, let alone be the whore I'd love to be, without risking my professional life :(

 

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