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On 6/10/2018 at 8:30 AM, Mrversa1982 said:

I was a yng teen when guys started to use and fuck me..

Because I was tight they fucked me bare, and I always loved it! When I was legal to have sex, I decided to stay a bareboy and began chassing 

Tell us more about your early experiences.

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I started getting fucked long before the AIDS scare in the 80's and never used condoms. Tried a condom fuck once and didn't like it so barebacked from then to now.  Still neg and I've been fucked raw for over 40 years.  (did love to suck the cum out of condoms in the dirty bookstore I used to go to..that's the only logical reason for a condom)

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Other than my first girlfriend, all but a (very) few of my encounters in college were bareback. To be honest, other than seeing them in the stores when I purchased lube, I never really thought about either purchasing or using condoms. That stayed the same while I was in a monogamous relationship, and then I alternated between condoms and bareback depending on my mood and the top.

I returned to condom use in the mid-'80s when I started losing friends to what was colloquially termed the AIDS scare/crisis/panic, but even through my own fears and despair, I kept leaning toward barebacking purely from the standpoint of physical comfort. I have a mild latex allergy, and polyurethane condoms weren't terribly common at the time, but I had the feeling -- I can't say "belief," as it wasn't that strong -- that I would at least attempt to make being a receptive partner for anal sex safer.

Ironically enough, I had more damage done to my hole during that time by condom use than I ever have by enormous cocks or vigorous, multi-topped sessions.

Absent a far more involved discussion of my personal journey than anyone is likely to enjoy yawning through, suffice it to say that science's greater understanding of HIV transmission rates and associated infection vector(s) combined with my access to PrEP has almost completely turned me off of condoms of any type. I will -- if my partner adamantly insists on it -- accept condom use in the beginning, or if it's going to be a one-off encounter, but I also make clear that I find bare not only more enjoyable, but more psychologically fulfilling, and condoms kill both sensation and the mood.

I guess you could say I started out barebacking, worked through what I personally felt was a devastating time by resorting to condom use, and then was given the opportunity to return to bareback.

And I don't think I'll ever look back.

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My first bb experience was in 2003. I was hooking up with a married black guy who had a massive dong and high sex drive. He plowed me in his basement while his wife was upstairs shoveling snow. It was amazing. I tried to get him to go bb with me after that, but he wouldn't do it. Years later, I hooked up with a couple, and on our first playdate, I fucked 'em both raw. I had never done that before, but the opportunity was there, and since they didn't push the condom thing, I just went with it. And for the next three years, we'd always play raw. It was great fun. When they become unavailable to me after that time, I would alternate between condoms and raw, depending on my mood and the guy I was with. If he was poz, I'd rubber up. 'Undetectable' was not a known word at the time. If a guy wanted my raw load, I gave it to him. When I was doing porn, I requested condoms, and they were given to me, but I didn't have nearly as much fun, but the guy usually put them on wrong anyway, thus negating the point of having them.

Now the only kind of sex I have is unprotected. Raw is Law! Since my husband died, I've been barebacking my way through hookups.

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I’ve always been one to follow the lead of any top I’ve been with. It started when I was 17/18 and if the top never said condom, it always ended up going in bare. I don’t think I’ve ever made a top use a condom either, if one did, it was at his insistence. Many tops have pulled out and cum but after the first few times I had taken a load, I enjoyed it too much to not want it raw and loaded deep inside me.

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I started when I was 14. It just didn't occur to me to use one. I dabbled every once in a while with them but went bb only when I was 17 and chased hard till I got it at 21. I derive all my sexual pleasure from being as absolutely slutty and wreckless I can. Knowing that a guy's raw dick has been in so many others and then unloads in me just does it for me.  I haven't used a condom since I was 17 and I'm 30 now. 

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my first sexual experience was bareback, on my 18th birthday.  My high school baseball bud got back to my house after we had been to a small party, no drugs, but had two beers started messing around, and pretty soon we were sucking each other and then he ate my ass.  took his uncut puerto rican cock raw up my hairy ass, and took his load.

basically been bareback ever since☣️

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My first oral experience was when I was quite young.   It was with the neighborhood babysitter who was twice my age.   After a few weeks of sucking his dick, he fucked me raw, and I bled.  Two weeks later after deep throat training and more fucking, he shared me with a cousin who i first sucked, and was then fucked by.   All bare and raw.  

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