Semantics Anyone? Topic: Blowjob

[eightndeep]

Is it just me?  Over and over I watch videos labeled "blowjob" only to get all this time invested into watching when the top pulls his dick out, and strokes out his load.  UGH  That's not a blow job!  That's more like a facial.  And the WORST is when the bottom does not even try to eat the cum!

 

What's with this lack of truth in advertising?  Does it bother anyone else? 

 

Last Friday I went to one of my few local ABS.  It rocks because there always seem to be guys wanting head.  Some cities, some ABSs are all guys wanting to blow. 

 

Anyway, first guy I meet . . short dude with a cockring.  His dick is hard just from feeling him up.  He pops it out and I bend over to take a taste.  He responds with a sigh.  Yes!  He wants this.  So I get on my knees, poised for a proper suck.   I lick up from his balls up his shaft.  I take his cock head in my mouth SUPER gentle at first.  His cock head swells big and fast.  I'm just sucking on it, gently, slippery, pre-cummy, because I can't fit it in the back of my throat and get my lips around his shaft too.

 

It seems like only a minute and he's choking me with his dick.  Trying to force it in.  Trying to fuck my mouth hole.  And it starts juicing so I know . . . SPURT ONE in my mouth he starts cumming.  He pulls out, finishes cumming on the floor (like I don't want the cum?)  Nonetheless, he came in my mouth from my sucking.  aka a blowjob.

 

 

Braindead with desire and the taste of cum, I keep hunting.  In a few minutes I'm down on my knees again in front of a glory hole with a limp but willing dick sticking through the hole at me.  Yeah boy!  Fine, I'll get you hard.  And so I did.  

 

And started out slow and gentle and kept working it.  Responding to the subtle cues of what was making this cock in my mouth get harder (or not).  Work work work.  God that smell of man musk that a dick gives off when it's hard and excreting its own lube!

 

I don't play with myself when giving a blowjob.  There is too much to do focusing on the dick in my mouth.  And after some time working it I really have it going.  He's hard.  Pre cum is flowing.  He's fuck motioning.  Older dude, in his fifties like me I guess.  You just got to keep at it.  Don't stop.  

 

Like a good top he takes control of what he needs to cum.  "Can I come over there?" he asks.  So he comes next door.  I'm down on my knees right away picking up where we left off.  Using my mouth gentle like a hole.  Using my hand.  Tickling his balls with my other hand.  And so he's groaning and saying "Don't stop."  (Uh huh!)  So I know he's on the way. His dick is curved up hard and leaking like I know it is cumming soon and sure enough YEAH BOY that cum filling my mouth making it viscous.  Sperm creeping up the back of my nose swimming in my head spurt after spurt.  He's slowing down me backing off savoring his dick throbbing a few more pumps of semen into me. 

 

Now THAT is a blowjob.  I like getting them too.  When I get up off my knees, I see he's watching dick-fucking-pussy straight porn.  He says "wow" or something like that.  He liked the blowjob.  <blush> 

 

So how is it that nine out of ten film clips I see  . . on tube . . on pornhub . . on tumblr . . which tag themselves 'blowjob' end up with a stroke scene?  SO FRUSTRATING!  We need better terms for these things. 

 

'Cumeating" is the closest I have seen to getting to the point.  But 'Cumeating" can be licking the cum off a bottom who you've just fucked the cum out of (I repeat, "yeah boy!").  And 'facial' really does imply a face full of cum.   And in these - so many of these- pseudo blowjob scenes, the cum winds up on the bottom's chest or the floor or even in the hand of the top who just had to stroke out his own (damn) load!

 

So am I missing something?  It's like they are "blowjobettes".  Or if trying to reaffirm that a blow job is sucking TO COMPLETION is a lost cause, what might be a word for that? IDK it seems like the blow in  blow job is blowing ones load.  Most of these are by my definition stroke scenes. 

 

Suckjob?

Mouthie (being a suck not to completion)?

How about 'fluffandnutter'?  It sounds like what it is - suck - nut- eat.  lol

 

Just curious if anyone has the same question I do, or suggestions for semantically differentiating between sucking  and sucking to completion.  Big difference in my book.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[NLbear]

Well....

 

You're right of course. But for me there is a difference between doing it and watching it.

 

When doing it I want every drop to go down my throat (blowjob). But when watching it, be it in porn, amateur video or real life, I love to see how much cum the top is shooting. And therefore I don't mind seeing him blowing his load into the face of the sucker (facial) before being sucked clean.

 

It is a matter of semantics indeed. Love the first when doing, the second when watching. I love to see the bottom's face splattered in cum when of course I would have swallowed every drop. But then  again, on video you wouldn't see a thing, just the top cumming and the bottom swallowing. I guess that doesn't make it exciting for the viewer. And both are called blowjobs although, as you said, one should be called blowjob and the other facial.

[Bttm2go]

I like it when the top pulls out but aims his load into the guys mouth. And then watching the guy swallow it. When I'm sucking a cock, the load is going in my mouth not on my face.

[eightndeep]

NLBear and Bttm2go, I think you make an important distinction of two things I was mixing up.  

 

First, blowjobs - cum in the mouth or not?  

Second - blowjobs cum BY the mouth or not?  

 

I mixed these up, and my primary point is how few blowjobs, in porn or otherwise, end in the dick blowing its load because of oral stimulation.  So many are what I'd call 'lick jobs'.  Lick the dick, get it wet, the top masturbates.  Maybe it is straight women who perpetuate the idea this counts as a blowjob!?! ("my nails!")

 

I think portrayal of oral-to-masturbation has gotten so common in gay porn, that the vast majority of gay men have lost sight of what a real blow job is.  Suck me until I cum.  Use your mouth.  Use your hand too.  Stick your finger up my ass - whatever it takes ... it's called a blowJOB.  Work at it.  If I have to pull out and stroke myself off, it's not a blow job. Not a good one. 

 

I do blame the gay porn industry for rarely showing real blowjobs.  I think it is because they are hard to give. And they can be hard to get. Understood - seeing the load is hot.  Personally, I LOVE seeing internal cumshot blowjobs.  It's hard to fake a pulsating dick or gagging on ejaculate, or a semi-tumescent, freshly cum dick sliding out of a cocksucker's mouth.  

 

One reason I wish the porn industry would show more cocksucker-making-the-cock-cum scenes is that it seems to me on xtube and the like those scenes are most common with the guys who have glory holes and cameras set up at them.  You know, the guys who film dick after dick stepping up and getting sucked off?  There's so much to be learnt about blowing a dude from these guys.  And they do it VERY differently than is done in commercial porn or in pre fucking sucking.  

[Webster9]

Whether watching it or doing it, whether it's fucking or sucking, I want the load shot inside, not outside.  I don't get off on seeing the "money shot."  I'd rather hear the top guy moaning and groaning and see him spasm, as he's firing his load into the bottom guy.  BTW, any time I've ever given a blow job, the top guy has always shot his load into my mouth, not outside...

[LustyLarry]

exactly right on topic about blowjobs. I love seeing a hot cock spewing fuckjuice in a hot cocksucker's mouth,

 the uretha spasming as the dude sucking is really fucking milking that cock for the creamy fuckgoo. just slurping 

on the cock internal cumshots in the mouth , i love to see hot ass fingerfucking as part of the stimulation of the stud

to make his orgasm more intense and more hot jizz feeding the mouth and what really ices the cake is the drooling

of fuckmilk from the cocksucker's mouth as the stud is fucking his cock in and out of the mouth and his boner

gets fucking juiced in it 's own hot lube....FUCK YEAH

[chie]

In porn I want to see the actual load being shot into the mouth, whereas when I give a blowjob I prefer taking the load while the cock is in my mouth. Hate seeing a drop get wasted, but also I love the feel of the cock as its pumping the load.

[MuscleLander]

Well, I do prefer cuming in when I get a bj or when I watch it in porn. "SketchySex" is such a great site for that... Eli Hunter's gagging and cum eating is just delicious. Feel it pumping down the btm's throat is just awesome. Now, if I do it, I'd rather have him cumming somewhere else, say my face, my neck or my chest.

[RandyCubby]

I love a mouthful of it AND I love it all over my face where guys can see it.

[NLbear]

I love a load in my ass AND my hole. A spitroast is so fucking horny....That is why I like 3somes with guys.

[Guest MrBob]

I agree 100 percent. Cum from a blow job goes in my mouth and down my throat. I suck for the pleasures of sucking a nice hard cock and the taste of cum. The aroma of his cock and balls, the feel of his cock and balls in my mouth and when I run my fingers on his shaft or massage his nuts. Love the pulsating and pumping of all that delicious cum into my mouth where I can savor it, move it around with my tongue and coat the inside of my mouth with it. I tell guys I suck right at the start I want them to cum in my mouth and if they don't want to or they want to jack off to leave. No cocksucker should ever put in the pleasurable amount of work to give a guy a great suck job and not be gratified with the trophy.

[Guest ScottSwallows]

I love watching blowjob videos where the sucker has at least half the cock in his/her mouth and you can see the shaft pulsate when the guy cums.

[Guest RawCunt]

It's called the money shot for a reason.  If unseen it appears as just more fucking or sucking on film

[evilqueerpig]

Call me a blowjob purist....cum MUST go in mouth!

[funpozbottom]

On 5/29/2015 at 6:08 PM, eightndeep said:

I think portrayal of oral-to-masturbation has gotten so common in gay porn, that the vast majority of gay men have lost sight of what a real blow job is. 

I do blame the gay porn industry for rarely showing real blowjobs.  I think it is because they are hard to give. And they can be hard to get. Understood - seeing the load is hot.  Personally, I LOVE seeing internal cumshot blowjobs.  It's hard to fake a pulsating dick or gagging on ejaculate, or a semi-tumescent, freshly cum dick sliding out of a cocksucker's mouth.  

One reason I wish the porn industry would show more cocksucker-making-the-cock-cum scenes is that it seems to me on xtube and the like those scenes are most common with the guys who have glory holes and cameras set up at them. 

I know this is an old post, but I'm surprised no one mentioned the legal side of porn in terns of what can be shown.  Laws have changed over the years, but at one time, it was illegal to be gay or show gay sex. To get around the no gay sex law, porn films all had disclaimers stating that they were meant to be viewed "by a select audience" for "educational purposes".  Even with that, you could not show a man causing the orgasm of another. You could show a guy getting jacked and sucked by another guy, but at the point of ejaculation. his own hand had to be on his cock causing the orgasm. You also could not show cum shooting directly into a mouth. Cum that "accidentally" entered the mouth had to be spit out. Obviously, anal creampies were forbidden as well. 

I think that, as laws relaxed, porn producers were (and to a certain extent still are) reluctant to show more because they never knew if or when the laws would become restrictive again.  Commercial Porn produced today is getting more liberal, however, vintage porn set patterns that are still used and now it's sort of what's expected. 

Vids on sites like Xtube that are "homemade" amateur clips never had the restrictions that the commercial porn industry had, so they are willing and able to show more.   Maybe these amateur sites will influence commercial porn and push it to show more complete blowjobs and cum swallowing.