Guest AlmostBottom Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 Do you think there's something humiliating about bottoming, and is that part of the appeal? How open are you about being a bottom? Curious how many "Total Tops" occasionally get dicked down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fuckrogerbb Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 I usually bottom,but sometimes I top. I don't think for me it is humiliating to bottom. I don't like tops who try and humiliate me either. One is a top and one is a bottom and we try to please each other as equals. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TigerMilner Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 I'm not at all embarrassed by being a bottom nor do I feel less than a top. I mean what would tops do without bottoms? It is how it is meant to be and I am proud of my part of the equation. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AlmostBottom Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 (edited) Have heard the phrase "bottom shame," and also the opposite, "Proud Bottom." There is a theme on Breeding Zone about bottoms wanting to be holes... and their cock and pleasure being irrelevant... and to me that's intertwined with bottoming as an act of degrading submission. But "bottom shame" sounds negative, where as some people seem to really get off on it as a big turn on. At least on BZ. Edited July 3, 2015 by AlmostBottom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bearbandit Posted July 3, 2015 Report Share Posted July 3, 2015 I'll happily go either way, though more inclined to bottom with some guys and top with others (and more inclined to bottom these days). I see humiliation as a fetish in itself which may or may not be involved in the sort of sex I'm having. Hell, even when there's humiliation involved I can feel proud of myself that I can take or pride in my boy that he can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest ff-whole Posted July 4, 2015 Report Share Posted July 4, 2015 (edited) I am pure bottom and I get off, because I want to feel used. Whored out by as many non distinguisable men... I don't need to be cuddled, i want to be taken and filled up... Not a matter of shame whatsoever... Edited July 4, 2015 by ff-whole Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tradiemason Posted July 4, 2015 Report Share Posted July 4, 2015 Mainly bottom here I am not in the least humiliated by takin any/all cocks n loads but if me tops are gettin off on thinkin that they is humiliatin me then thats ok by me all I am lookin for is there cocks n loads deep up me cum n piss hungry hole (_0_) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bttm2go Posted July 4, 2015 Report Share Posted July 4, 2015 I'm a proud bottom, though I do top at times, and I'm not humiliated at all. I can be a aggressive power bottom or a submissive hole. It all depends on chemistry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chie Posted July 4, 2015 Report Share Posted July 4, 2015 I am pure bottom and I get off, because I want to feel used. Whored out by as many non distinguisable men... I don't need to be cuddled, i want to be taken and filled up... Not a matter of shame whatsoever... Pretty much how I feel. I love being a bottom as I love cock In my ass. I remember being around 13 years old and writing down things like "I want to suck cock", "I want cock in my hole" (I still have the note pads with fantasies and cock drawings) so I have always known it was my calling to be a cum dump. I am submissive, slutty and my hole is always gaping for a man/men to dominate me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbsam Posted July 4, 2015 Report Share Posted July 4, 2015 As everyone has mentioned, I don't think assuming the role of a bottom is by itself humiliating - the relationship between bottoms and tops should be equal and mutual, we need each other. However, there are many elements that can be introduced into sex that can intentionally or unintentionally humiliate a partner and I think it's just natural that the bottom is more prone to humiliation. Simply due to the fact that the bottom gets penetrated by a penis, in the same way that women do, could be something a top uses to humiliate a bottom and diminish his masculinity. Maybe the bottom doesn't get hard while getting fucked and his tiny limp, flailing cock could be a source of humour and humiliation. Maybe getting his prostate slammed causes a bottom to unintentionally piss himself. That could be humiliating and embarassing for him. I'm not ashamed to be a bottom at all but personally I enjoy being humiliated every now and then. I enjoy it when a top reminds me that he is much more powerful and dominant than me 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockhard801 Posted July 5, 2015 Report Share Posted July 5, 2015 I do not feel any humiliation in bottoming. I love the feeling of a hard cock in my ass. As a bottom I'm in control of who fucks me,however once I've decided that I'm going to let a guy fuck me, I willingly give complete control to him. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
averageslut48 Posted July 5, 2015 Report Share Posted July 5, 2015 Why should being a bottom be humilating? I am a proud bottom and tell that fact anybody. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cam1972 Posted July 5, 2015 Report Share Posted July 5, 2015 Not humiliated at all. It's man to man. Equals. No need for shame for pleasing a top. I'm proud when my ass gets a guy off. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nastybottom Posted July 5, 2015 Report Share Posted July 5, 2015 I remember being around 13 years old and writing down things like "I want to suck cock", "I want cock in my hole" (I still have the note pads with fantasies and cock drawings)I'd like to see those. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ddawg Posted July 6, 2015 Report Share Posted July 6, 2015 In the heteronormative world, bottoming is seen as submission; being the receptacle of penis is effeminizing. Real men don't do that. I don't overtly announce I'm a bottom to my straight friends because I don't want to explain or reeducate their perception, and unless they're going to look for a guy for me, lol. It's not out of shame, rather laziness and not wanting to give a 15 minute crash course in gay sex every time. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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