titankronos Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 (edited) hello hope you can help me... i'm poz on meds(atripla), almost undetectable: 56 copies/ml on February of 2015 then on may of 2015 i fuck with a guy... i was drunk, i was top and didn't cum in his ass 4 months later i saw him and he had a wet cough... didn't ask much i know it could be anything but i get worried and guilt should i get worried if i infected that guy? for the record: i was very drunk that night, i ask him if he had condoms and he said NO and let me fuck him without condoms, was the first time i saw that guy, meet him on grinder, hes 25 i think Edited September 14, 2015 by titankronos Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
titankronos Posted September 14, 2015 Author Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 ah by the way i have the circumcision probably that i was infected on january of 2014, had symptons in february, get positive in april, my first viral load was on may of 2014 and its was viral load: 112.000 and cd4 292 so i could say i have a very strong strand i guess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GermanFucker Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Occam's_razor Sometimes a cough is just a cough. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TigerMilner Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 Its also a strong possibility that if he is infected that someone else did it. I wouldn't carry a guilt load. You are doing what you can and though it is possible to poz someone with precum, it is not likely you did with a VL that low. Give yourself a break. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest hole4bbuse Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 No but be up front tell everyone your status then fuck ther brains out or let them fuck yours. If they are neg and BB then then need to be on prep and undetectable people and others on prep = no issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxboy25 Posted September 14, 2015 Report Share Posted September 14, 2015 Exactly as long as your clear on your status then why feel guilty? really with how things are now and the amount of info online especially through sites like this no one can really claim oh i didnt know the risks or anything we all know them and what it entails or what you could get alot of times i don`t even bother asking a tops status i know any and all risks it`s my choice so i wouldn`t want someone guilting over it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paulebnj Posted September 15, 2015 Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 Both have responsibility. Its a risk he took too by not asking you. I bottomed and trusted the guys status when he could have lied or picked up the virus after a negative test. I knew the risk and if I became poz, I definitely would have born most, if not all the responsibility for letting the top fuck me. Being on prep has made things easier. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
averageslut48 Posted September 15, 2015 Report Share Posted September 15, 2015 I don´t think, that you should worry. If you are undetectable, it was like safe sex. I think somebody other could have infected him. Otherwize, he knew the risk to fuck bare as well. It was his decision after you asked for a condom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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