How To Keep Your Erection At A Sex Party?

[bearasseater]

Hey guys, another hot sex party was tonight, and as is often the case, wasn't able to get more than half hard all night. Have had intermittent issues in the past, usually late at night, and often when it's very hot. Does anyone have issues like this, and if you've solved them, what works?

I find that daytime play is often great for my erections. I'm a massage therapist (legit) and I notice that when I massage someone for 90 minutes, I can fuck like a beast after. However, after getting ready for sex, showering, douching, driving to the location, mingling for the evening, I seem to be limp most the time. I do take 5 mg of Cialis, which helps make me rock hard during the day, but does little late at night.

Some things I know affect me:

* hot rooms, hot weather, hot showers, etc. Me sweating seems to be a bad thing. My balls usually hang really loose when I can't get hard

* I am on blood pressure meds. I'm. 35 and have been on them several years. It seems like I do better taking the meds 12 hours or more before sex, and I don't know why.

* Maybe I'm not getting enough sleep, and by midnight I'm running on fumes?

* holding tension in my crotch and stomach? Maybe my testosterone isn't traveling through the body because I'm not relaxed/too nervous and excited?

* diet? I eat salty foods, maybe I'm not getting enough nutrients?

I have a lot of muscle, but could stand to lose 20 lbs of fat (6', 215 lbs)...I think I would still have these issues if I was my ideal weight.

I take Cavalier Sexual herb supplements sometimes, and they do help me get hard late at night, but I get bad cold chills and feel like I'm getting a fever while taking them. Sex isn't as fun. Are there other pills that help that don't have bad side effects?

I'm sure I'm not the only one, but I know some guys figure this out. Thanks in advance.

[justsexnowatl]

My erections are always way better in the morning and during the day or early evening.  I almost never have late night sex esp if I wanna top  I've used Viagra almost since it came out about 20 years ago when I was early 30s.  Due to my age and asking for Viagra at the time, they hooked my cock up to a machine that measured blood flow in and blood flow out of my dick while hard.  I had more blood flowing OUT of my cock than there should be when hard (cock ring solves that) and less blood flowing into my cock than there should be.  I tried Cialis, but it really didn't work for me.  Viagra works way better for me.  I wouldn't be surprised if it has something to do with your BP meds though.  Doesn't exactly answer the question, but just some thoughts - if you already have a bit of an erection problem, I don't think it's uncommon for it to be worse at night when you're more tired (or at least your body is).  If I were you, I think it would be worth trying to lose that 20# you mentioned, better diet, might get you off the BP meds and at 195 of solid muscle you'd have a never ending line of willing subjects to test your hardon sounds like willing holes isn't really the problem though lol 

[drscorpio]

Definitely discuss the issue with your doctor who prescribed the blood pressure meds. There are dozens of different options for these meds; he should be able to help you find one that doesn't make this issue worse. 

[CumBustion]

I'm not sure how your meds would react, but these are the methods I've seen tops use to stay hard:

1. Viagra/Cialis. I've even seen young tops that don't seem to need it, use the blue pill; usually at sex parties or all night fuck sessions.

2. Yohimbe. Herbal Viagra, closest thing you can take without a prescription.

3. Cocaine. Not condoning this,but tops usually stay super hard and last pretty long as it can retard ejaculation.

[C10H15N]

Overweight, out of shape, meds, age, party favors, poppers, etc... can all lead to erection problems. 35 is really young to be having these problems. Might want to see your doc.

Edited August 8, 2016 by C10H15N

[hungry_hole]

My comment to anybody thinking that they may have erectile dysfunction is "You are not watching the right porn!"

 

When I'm watching "the right bareback porn"  I can get hard and cum 3-4 times a day. If at the sauna I don't get hard I never think of ED. Some married guys think they have ED because they can't get hard with the wife.