Why are there so many bottoms?

[hungry_hole]

4 hours ago, NLbear said:

While bottoms need to go through a whole cleaning exercise (which I am not always in the mood for by the way).

I've heard of some bottoms become a top (or versatile)  after getting tired of all the work involved in being a bottom.

[shinelover]

Yeah, I think it's a pretty simple answer -even if a guy is a top, all it takes is one dick in his ass, one load in his ass, and he knows why we all love it so much. And of course he will want more, just like the rest of us.  Having a guy fuck you and breed you is a feeling that can't be replicated.

[wes77]

i can't say how good it feels to be a top. always in need. in my case, i'm needed every night. i can't say enough, though, how much i appreciate every bottom in my life. 

[Guest bbbearlover1]

I am glad that there are so many.  Now, what I am really looking for are subs.  There aren't too many of those.  And I've been pleasantly surprised by the number of guys who claim to be tops who want my dick inside of them.  I've been happy to oblige a few too.

[Guest FinalDL2021]

My first sexual experiences with other men, I started out bottoming, and taking the passive role, just due to my inexperience and letting the other guy kind of show me the ropes, no pun intended.  I found that I really enjoyed the experience of bottoming, and just remained in that role. Yet with more experience and a higher level of confidence, I find myself starting to top a bit more.  If by chance, I don't get any bottom action at the bathhouse, I will go looking to see if there is a hot ass I would like to top.  

[Sunovabesh]

On 1/17/2017 at 11:35 AM, hungry_hole said:

I've heard of some bottoms become a top (or versatile)  after getting tired of all the work involved in being a bottom.

Why you had to call me out like that lol

 

For me personally, I see it like this - (Get out your tin-foil hats out here, y'all)

I believe that there are as many bottoms out there in the straight world, as there are in the gay world. How many men would like to experience that, I can't answer, but I feel as though, as men, we have prostates - and who wouldn't want their prostates pleasured? 

The sensation of being fucked is amazing; You have the psychological aspect of being "dominated" (Or you dominating someone, for my Dom BTMS), the sensation of losing control, the pressure on your prostate, and a warm gooey sensation in your ass - sounds like paradise.  Whenever straight guys who bottom for their female partners, they say that they feel the same thing: liking the sensation of losing control, having their prostates being used, being dominated - the works. So, to me, as men, we're gonna side onto whatever gives us pleasure, and if that involves our prostates, I'm sure our shit-shutes are gonna take a fine pummeling. So, for simple means, whatever taps the prostate (our great sensitive spot) we're gonna go for it. It's more immediate than having your cock sucked, or anything else, because it's up inside you and all you can do is let yourself go and enjoy the ride. 

Now, I'm not saying every guy is a bottom, I'm just saying that we all have prostates, and most of us are gonna use it as opposed to some of us. I for example, don't care for bottoming. I may do so here and there, but, I simply just don't like it. Yeah, a finger or a cock up my ass can help me get active, and help me cum faster as I jerk myself off. But, the cleaning, the dieting, the preparing, the means of me being "submissive" to someone and so on, just isn't worth it. I get WAY more fun when I'm inside a guy's hole. Eating a hole, fingering a hole and fucking a hole is WAY more up my alley both psychologically and physically than someone doing all those things to my hole. Psychologically speaking, I only "submit" to someone who I give a shit about, because that sense of intimacy brings in a lot more "pain" to me when I'm being a sub, more so than just bottoming for some stranger. Who's better at "Dirty Talk"; some rando off the street or someone who knows my "insecurities" and calls me them when I'm vulnerable? Physically, I just don't get much from it. I can cum faster, yeah, but, I can do that with a finger instead of a cock. Why waste my time being 100% clean for a cock, when I can be clean enough for just a finger? Also, most tops I'm around just don't have the means of respecting/knowing anything about their bottoms (From my experience). So it's a lot of uncomfortable rough-burns in my colon just for me to please some random dude, when I can't even jerk off? Fuck that noise. But, again, that's how my brain is wired.

So, again, not every guy is meant to bottom, or may be into bottoming 100%. I believe it can be a spectrum on how much you like to bottom vs. how you like to top, along with the spectrum of being a sub vs. being a Dom. But, conspiracy theory over with - If you're a bottom, you're a God-Sent and deserve to be recognized as such - on behalf of all tops, I greatly appreciate your hard work and hard stamina. Just because you may out-number tops (if that's even a reality) doesn't mean you're a dime a dozen - You're still you and you're fucking unique and great!

[Spunkinmyarse]

I don’t buy into this idea that there are more bottoms than tops.  It always looks like that on sites like this, because I think bottoms are more prone to chatting about sex than tops.  Many bottoms like me only cum once in a blue moon, which means we’re always horny, always edging, always looking for the next load- and always on sites like this talking about it.  When tops are horny, they are more likely to find a hole and dump their load in it- thereby releasing themselves (at least temporarily) from the grip of horniness, and freeing themselves to do other things.

In real world situations, I find that the ratio of tops to bottoms is fairly even.  This seems to be true in clubs, in bathhouses, and online.  The only difference is that most tops only cum once, and when they’re done, they go.  Whereas the bottoms hang around longer, waiting for more loads.  This does indeed mean by the end of an afternoon sex club session like SBN, for example, there will inevitably be more bottoms than tops.  And the moral that story?  Get there early!

Speculating further, I believe that in fact there are far more tops out there than bottoms, if you were to take all the straight guys into account.  If we ever reach a point in society where there is absolutely no stigma around m2m sex, I think we’ll find there’s about 1 cumdump for every 10 tops- evolution’s perfect ratio to guarantee satisfaction for everyone! Until that day, however, I’ll just have to fantasise

 

[RandyCubby]

Cause it FEELS good! My first few tries at getting fucked were unsuccessful, but the first time I did it successfully -- sitting on the cock of some fat hairy dude I'd met in the park and riding it cowgirl -- OMFG! (What WAS his name?) I never wanted to do anything else!!! It FEELS SO FUCKING GOOD! Now, I back up on gloryholes in XXX bookstores to get fucked... cause it feels so fucking good! Basically, I think of myself as an anus -- a reasonably clean, greased-up, pleasure-seeking anus. Oh, I have arms and legs, but only so this pleasure-seeking anus can travel around town, looking for more dicks. (Butt plugs, zucchini, mop handles -- all those will work, too, but dicks are best. Two dicks at a time is the best.) As for my brain, I don't need it. I don't fucking use it. [EG] Just call me Asshole.

[Guest]

just like there are more women in the world there are more bottoms, its the law of nature. men love to fuck a nice tight women pussy, well men also love to fuck a nice tight bottom hole. 

I would consider myself more like a female in that I have taken many gay tests online and they all say im a total gay bottom and very female rather then male. I also love all the things men would do to a woman do to me as well and getting fucked as i have a tigh hole is painful and to be honest it hurts and its no pleasure for me but when a men cums and releases his load and i hear him moaning and feeling great all that pain is worth is pleasure. I love to pleasure my top and see him happy after he as fucked me.  i love his dominant nature with me be it he be rude, brutal, forceful or what ever I love to be nude and pleasure him completely in any way he wants, Even if he fucks other bottoms and fucks me as well its great to see a top fucking a bottom on his knees and I love to be on my knees pleasuring him be me alone or even others that he is so horny he wants a buch of bottoms to pleasure him completely. 

[atlfukbud]

It seems to me that younger men are much more versatile (or less tied to one role or the other) --  personally I love the feeling of both topping and bottoming, but have an average size dick and tend to only top with men I know and trust because there's less fear around not satisfying my partner, untimely ED issues, not being a great top, etc. Sharing a bottom is also hot, as there is less pressure to perform or be a perfect top...and, if you're lucky you might get to enjoy a cum sloppy hole wrapped around your dick or better yet, taste/felch the mix! When in a group or new situation my tendency is to bottom. I also love to bottom for hung black men. Lately, I've begun to refer to topping as "practicing my top skills" -- this seems to normalize the expectation from fantasy/porn fucking to something more realistic. So far, it's produced good results. Regardless, swapping spit, sweat and cum with another man is anything but boring! Happy breeding men!

[gwmxyz]

I'd put it the other way round - what's the point of being gay if you're a top?  I mean, you're going to be doing al the fucking anyway - and as the saying goes, you don't look at the mantelpiece when you're poking the fire.  The only obvious one is availability - thousand times easier, I guess, for gay tops to get fucks than straight guys.

But then, I'm not a top, so there's probably some bit of it I've missed.

[Pozlover1]

A lot of bizarre behavior comes from guys who are insatiable on Meth but celibate without it. 

[ErosWired]

4 hours ago, gwmxyz said:

I'd put it the other way round - what's the point of being gay if you're a top?

I understand what you’re trying to say here, but the way you put it necessarily implies that being gay is a choice. You could have equally said, “Why choose to be gay if you’re a top?”

The answer, of course, is that Tops don’t choose to find themselves same-sex attracted, they just are. And their psychological makeup predisposes them more to dominance, aggression, and masculine roles - hence, Topping comes naturally to them. None of it is a matter of premeditated choice (at least at first) and there is no ‘point’ to be made by it.

One might ask what’s the point of my having a big cock if I’m a total bottom? While I would agree that it’s a tragic waste of a good cock, and that I would probably have a lot more fun at the baths if I was vers, It’s not really a question of choice. I was born with this cock, and without one gene of sexual dominance in my body. Go figure.

All I know is that it gives Tops an extra handle to grab onto when they’re fucking me sideways... 🙂

[Guest Reeo]

On 1/8/2017 at 8:02 PM, analluv27 said:

Simply put, it's hard to deny the sensations of a hard cock crammed up ones ass especially if said bottom craves to be controlled or subjugated 

I became a total  bottom after giving into my curiosity to get fucked. The feeling of  submission, taking cock up my asshole and him leaving me with cum oozing out, running down my leg....me laying there after, my hole throbbing, just thoroughly used 😍

For me it never gets old, love the attention of a man who just wants to fuck my hole.

[Ozpig]

Because we love getting fucked and bred