When are you too old for this lifestyle?

[bberik]

I'm over 50 as well. Of course I don't attract all the young guys anymore, I didn't like older men when I was young myself. But once in a while there are some who are attracted to me. But I've moved on, and I'm way more open to anything than I was before. I like older guys better than I used to, but at the same time it doesn't really matter as long as they get hard, and can give me a load of anon warm cum in a darkroom.

[atlfukbud]

For me I always tend to look for sex partners who are +/- 10 years. Occasionally, I'll hook up with someone in their early 20s or late 60s, but those are not the norms. I have pals in their 50s who still will only have sex with 20-somethings so their sex life has become largely nonexistent . I luv getting fucked by men older than me and breeding younger ones, so that's been a win/win so far. Hope it continues!

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

Never.

 

[subbytch]

If you are older and chubbier and still chasing fucks on Grindr, then yes, you probably are getting rejected much more than you want. But there are more apps and websites than Grindr, more places to increase your odds of finding people interested in fucking older guys.

And people -do- want to fuck older guys. The one thing the internet has revealed is just how diverse people's interests are. The idea that you are socially dead at 30 simply isn't true -- it never was. Find apps and websites that have "Daddies" or "Silver Daddies" as tag or status options. Better yet, find a website like Silver Daddies and sign up there.

I've seen more than enough profiles where guys are only into people in their 60s or 70s. Change your game up a bit and you'll create more opportunities for yourself!

 

[bihairy]

when I'm dead!

[Guest FinalDL2021]

For me, I am putting my gracefull retirement age at 60 years old, unless something else prevails ?

 

 I am a distance runner, and live a very healthy lifestyle.  I have been told that I could easily pass for early 40's , I am 50 now.

 I only feel I face some ageism, on the online dating apps, but I do very well at the bath houses/ sex clubs.

[Guest JackEdJIZZ]

On 10/16/2017 at 1:32 AM, einathens said:

I love older men so much I became one. 

It's useless to fight your maturity, so embrace it. 

Just today, a 22yo hit me up to ask if I'd be his tutor in kink. He can't learn what he needs from guys his own age. 

Be patient. They'll catch up to you eventually. 

You're too old for this when you're dead.

Not sure if I could add anything to this list.   This poster nailed it in my view.   I got knocked up last April.....nearly 2 years after turning 60.   Had spent the previous 3 years on PrEP.   In chasing and on PrEP, I had no issues getting fucked.  Sure not everyone wanted my ass, but plenty did...and plenty still do.   Age is, perhaps, less of an issue if  you have more to offer.....great in the sack.....POZ experience....kink.....unique features........

[btmwsfun]

I am almost 50 and love giving up my ass and blowing guys in thirr late 70s and eighties, especially lovr putting on a show in the theater of the local abs so everyone can see what a slut I am. 

[Guest faggot hole]

To me it was (and is) NEVER a function of age.  It is all about skill, endurance, and most of all, attitude.  i have known teenagers who are awesome fucks and teenagers who are just awful at fucking.  Older guys have skills only gained through experience, patience and technique.  i have been fucked by guys in their 70s who would put porn stars to shame.  i was once the cumdump at a party arranged by a buddy.  It was by invitation only and no one younger than 50 was invited.  Every one who was invited showed (a tribute to my friend who is known for hosting amazing parties).  There were 23 men there and over a 12 hour period i took 32 loads.  Yes, some of these men gave me two loads -- one of them gave me three.  It is all about skill, experience, attitude.

[Guest]

In short, "never", as long as one still feels up to it and open to it, it's all about attitude and being open minded and willing to fuck or getting fucked mostly in my opinion.  Go to the baths frequently here and am always finding that there are guys of all ages that are into fucking us older guys there.

[mblad99]

i think if you are looking for that young stud, you are dealing with a limited market.  I am in my mid fifties, I can easily find guys my age who want to fuck.  Sonerimes a younger one will find me too, but not often.  I avoid rejection by just letting guys reach out to me first, and I am open to all for at least convo.  The experience of older men is worth it, I just keep the room dark, and enjoy the ride.

[Guest FinalDL2021]

After giving this more thought and speculation, I feel it will be when that intense/anxious-thrill feeling is, no longer there.  Ever since I first had sex with another man, I feel a big part, of the gay side of my identity, has been about pushing the envelope, and seeking that adrenalized rush that has come along with each Homosexual experience  From my first time with another man,  going to a bathhouse for the first time, barebacking, and possibility getting Sero-converted,  have all given me that adrenalized-turned on rush.  

When that is no longer there,  then for me, it will be time to hang up the cum towel.

[alwaysready]

I am beginning to wonder.

[BBiker4Fun]

Although age is not a factor, maturity level is a factor for me. I'm just as sexually active in my mid-50's as 20 years ago. I certainly have no indication that will change in the next 20 years.

[NLbear]

6 hours ago, BBiker4Fun said:

Although age is not a factor, maturity level is a factor for me. I'm just as sexually active in my mid-50's as 20 years ago. I certainly have no indication that will change in the next 20 years.

Same here. Actually I am more sexually active than I was 10 years ago. However, I am realistic, The older you get the more difficult it will get to hook up with new guys. Certainly as a bottom. So I try to establish a reliable "stable" of fuckbuddies. I hope they will be around for a long time. Your age may prevent you from getting new "dates" on online gay sites but I am lucky my regulars sometimes introduce me to new guys who then turn into regulars as well. I am really surprised by the number of younger guys who want to fuck an older daddy. As for the comment by @PozTemptation: I get what you are saying but I don't think/hope the thrill will go away. At least I hope not! But I do realize it will end some time, far into the future (I hope).  Maybe when the times comes I have to bend over my walker to get fucked it's time to pull the plug. LOL.