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What’s Your Favorite Way to Hookup?


KindaBasic

Your Preferred Way Hookup?  

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  1. 1. How Do You Hookup?

    • Apps like Grindr or Growler
      39
    • Sites like Breeding Zone, Craigslist or Manhunt
      48
    • Night Club or Bar
      11
    • Baths, ABS, Sex Cubs, etc.
      50
    • Public Areas: Rest Rooms, Rest Stops, Parks, Hiking Trails, etc.
      25
    • Gym: Showers, Saunas, Steam Rooms..
      12
    • Party Circuit or Planned Events
      8
    • All the above
      10
    • Other
      2


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There are so many ways to hookup these days and most of us use multiple methods. But what’s your favorite ways to find that cock or piece of ass? Are you old school, preferring traditional cruising places like rest stops or parks? Do you like websites or apps to find your fuck? Do you still like the personal touch of the bars or club? Or do you like to hit sex specific businesses like baths or ABS? Any suggestions for your home turf?

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Sauna normally means a guaranteed fuck - especially in dark room

Recently put an ad on Barebackrt and was surprised at the results , fucked and dumped a filthy Ho (really nice guy too) with a couple of hours

Im old school and was brought up at crusing sites , took a load as a 16 year old twink , having got there on my moped !

Crusing sights were easy to find 30 years ago , I just read the local papers and looked at the court reports to see where guy were being arrested for indecency.

Thank god we live in more enlightened timed.

I remember vividly getting fucked by an older couple both came in me , my first experience of jizz joy !

Now in my early 50's I'm an active bear hunting younger guys raging with hormones like i was.

My rule of thumb is if you can get a finger in your going to fuck , if you rim with poppers your going to BB and load

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Primarily, I still like the old fashion way by hooking up in a club ot bar. I love the thrill of the hunt, being eyed up by a hot, aggressive Top that knows how to build chemistry with me and charm his way into my hole. Next s hook up apps and sites. Im not so much into baths and spas. However, once in a blue moon I have the moid to attend a sex party or something like CumUnion.

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Guest PozGoat

Tubs. Safe place for a gay man to cruise naked with a towel over my shoulder. I like that I can cruise at my pace. Take breaks, jump in the hot tub and relax. Fuck in the steamrooms. Lay in the community sling and let the vermin defile my carcass.

Nothing hotter than a good BH. I love the thrill of the hunt.

An occasional trip to a hot leather bar can be fun too.

I only use online sites for signing up for CU events or similar events like that.

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On 10/27/2017 at 4:02 AM, CumBustion said:

Primarily, I still like the old fashion way by hooking up in a club ot bar. I love the thrill of the hunt, being eyed up by a hot, aggressive Top that knows how to build chemistry with me and charm his way into my hole. Next s hook up apps and sites. Im not so much into baths and spas. However, once in a blue moon I have the moid to attend a sex party or something like CumUnion.

There is something electric when you catch someone’s eyes and you just know it’s going to happen. 

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On 10/27/2017 at 3:22 AM, NLbear said:

Due to the absence of places to hook up locally here it's websites for me. Afterwards, in case phone numbers were exchanged for a potential repeat, text messages are a possibility.

Where I’m living now apps are useless and the sites are very hit and miss. 

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Apps and websites are so hit and miss for me, Mostly misses. Maybe it's because I can't host but still, What kind of guy turns down an offer to get sucked off when he has nothing better to do?

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Guest BBBoyfromTN

It depends on what you're looking for really. I like Latinos and they're old school here in Dallas...you have to cruise places for it but it's worth it. Apps are great for younger guys close to my age...great for anon fucks. CL and web ads are usually a waste of time...fakes galore. There's plenty to pick and choose from here in Dallas...know how lucky I am

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I wouldn't put ABS and sex clubs/baths in the same category. For me, they are very different experiences.  I encounter a lot less 'shopping' at ABS and more sex. I guess if we had a dark room in Portland OR that might be different?  As it is, there is the visual element at a bath/club, so rules of attraction kick in for many. At an ABS, i typically do not leave a booth the whole time I'm there, lots of GH sex, which often turns into a shared booth, but always initiates through a GH.  

I also think the guys who frequent ABS are more likely to be 'straight' or Bi, but more closeted... guys who would not go to a gay club because they do not identify as such or want to be identified as gay. I think there is something about the neutral anonymity of a ABS that attracts a very different guy. Not unusual for me to be sucking  or getting fucked by a guy through a GH while he watches straight porn.  I've never seen straight porn at a bath house. 

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19 hours ago, BBBoyfromTN said:

It depends on what you're looking for really. I like Latinos and they're old school here in Dallas...you have to cruise places for it but it's worth it. Apps are great for younger guys close to my age...great for anon fucks. CL and web ads are usually a waste of time...fakes galore. There's plenty to pick and choose from here in Dallas...know how lucky I am

Thank goodness there are a few people keeping tradition of cruise sights going. 

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6 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

I also think the guys who frequent ABS are more likely to be 'straight' or Bi, but more closeted... 

Point taken. I have noticed that ABS's in smaller cities or more suburban areas usually closet cases, while in places like NYC it is more of a mix. 

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I like the gym, saunas, and meeting someone casually in a bar. Looking into a mans eyes and knowing that he is thinking the exact same thing I am at that very moment is such a turn on. Looking into a mans eyes can tell you a lot even if it's a simple glance.

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