Guys into Chastity

[Guest KptNLine]

It seems like the more I read on the boards, more and more guys are getting into chastity and being locked, particularly younger bottoms. So I am curious about a few things, as this used to be such a niche fetish that seems to be becoming, maybe not mainstream, but not uncommon either. As a locked bottom myself, I'm glad that so many others are discovering how much fun it can be to stay locked and horny. I'm looking forward to hearing your stories:

 

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

 

2) What attracted you to it?

 

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?

 

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?

 

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?

 

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

[bivergent]

1.  Researching bdsm.

2. Denial of orgasms, giving up control to someone.

3. Playing around with it during sessions with my girlfriend.   Yes enjoyed it a lot.

4. Haven't had any experiences yet with other guys.

5. unlocked, girlfriend is afraid it will cause issues.

6. I would like to be locked long term.

[Bottomboystretch]

On 18/11/2017 at 12:05 AM, KptNLine said:

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

Initially a historical thing concerning the crusaded, searched it they were still in use, got a nice surprise

 

2) What attracted you to it?

As 100% bottom I was curious to see if being unable to stimulate my dock would lead to more intense anal orgasms

 

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?I

My Daddy asked if I would try one on for him during a play session, and yes, it felt so constricting and get so sexually enlightening

 

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?I

Mainly positive from my Daddy's friends that get to use my hole

 

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?I

Locked with a keyholder, I'm 24 years old and haven't been allowed to touch my cock since I was 21

 

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

Be interesting to see if I can go a decade without orgasming via my cock, although as long as I'm with my Daddy I can't see me ever being allowed freedom again...

 

[kels725]

On 11/17/2017 at 6:05 PM, KptNLine said:

 

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

 

2) What attracted you to it?

 

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?

 

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?

 

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?

 

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

1) I learned it by watching some various forms of BDSM Porn

2) The idea of not being able to touch myself and focusing and pleasuring a top just seemed to turn me on more

3) I purchased a chastity and later met up with a guy wearing it. That encounter had to be one of the best feelings as I could focus purely on what was in me, not my own. 

4)For the most part most of the reactions are positive, though some want it off.

5) I am self-locked, possibly looking for a key-holder

6) Long term lockage is a goal, maybe perm, havent put that much thought into it lol

Edited November 28, 2017 by kels725

[Ozpig]

My ex had my cock cage made as he hated bottoms getting erect when he fucked them and he hated me getting an erection when other tops he had invited were fucking me. It was there to teach my role as a cumpig cocklsut was to concentrate totally on the pleasure of my top and in turn I would eventually arrive at my own pleasure as a total pig. He was actually right. I used to get excited when he caged me = especially as I knew it meant I was generally in for a decent fuck session, either a gangbang at home or a night at the backroom. He even used to cage me on a my "free nights" and I found most of the regular tops I bottomed for as well liked the cage. They were not interested in my release but I was very interested in theirs

 

[tallslenderguy]

On 11/17/2017 at 4:05 PM, KptNLine said:

It seems like the more I read on the boards, more and more guys are getting into chastity and being locked, particularly younger bottoms. So I am curious about a few things, as this used to be such a niche fetish that seems to be becoming, maybe not mainstream, but not uncommon either. As a locked bottom myself, I'm glad that so many others are discovering how much fun it can be to stay locked and horny. I'm looking forward to hearing your stories:

 

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

 

2) What attracted you to it?

 

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?

 

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?

 

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?

 

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

Hi KptNLine, great topic. 

1. I learned about chastity online, porn. But I really learned about it from different Doms who want if for their sub, or from awesome subs like you who have experienced being locked.

2. My attraction to it is the extremity of submission to a Top or Dom. In my mind, the stronger the opposites, the more powerful the experience of attraction, so for me chastity represents an opportunity to experience the benefits/attraction of two opposite forces. 

3. I haven't actually had what i would consider a sexual experience in chastity. i've locked myself, and even had a long distance relationship with a Dom who had me measured for a cage, but have not been in a relationship where i have experienced sex while in chastity that i was locked into by another.

4.  i have some pics of my in a cage, the reactions have been mixed, a few indifferent.

5. i am currently unlocked. For me, self-locked is unsatisfying (to say the least). For me it is an expression of relationship and requires two people. I have a whole drawer full of toys that i almost never use because it feels to much like i am topping myself to use them. Same with chastity, it's only 'real' for me if there is another involved locking me in. For me, the actual cage is symbolic or representative of something much deeper.

6. any goal i would have with chastity would be related to the goals of the Man locking me in. i don't currently have that kind of Man in my life, so no goals. 

[ErosWired]

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

I discovered chastity in the context of orgasm control as I was getting started in the BDSM lifestyle.

2) What attracted you to it?

As a submissive, any technique that gave the Dom control over my sexuality interested me. As it worked out, my Master decided to follow a track of training me for more orgasm rather than less, but he did employ chastity on a couple of occasions to emphasize his control.

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?

The sexual encounter itself didn't require me to be locked up; rather, I had to remain locked up for a period of a month and then could only remove the device once I had found someone to fuck me. I was then allowed to remove the device immediately before being fucked.

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?

Now I self-lock before going out to take loads at places like bathhouses and the ABS because the device makes it clear that I'm not there to have my cock sucked on. It's proven very helpful because if I don't wear it, they will not fucking leave my cock alone. I've got an ampallang piercing (if you don't know what that is, see the pics in my profile album) and that draws their hands like a magnet. I've got a nice Pipedream Metal Wörx steel chastity device (also see album pics) that still turns heads but makes it clear that my ass is what's on offer. The reactions so far have been entirely positive, both from the perspective of men appreciating the visual appearance of it on me, to the way the fact that I'm locked down excites certain Tops to want to fuck me.

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?

I self-lock for certain purposes, and sometimes just for the day under my clothes when I go to work or go out. 

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

I sometimes self-lock simply as a reminder to myself that my body is for other men's pleasure instead of my own. I find that the periodic reminder keeps my training fresh and keeps me hungry to satisfy other men's lusts.

 

[Guest FinalDL2021]

I first heard about Chastity, and being locked here on BZ. I thought it was silly, and felt I could never get into it. Now it starting to get my attention, and even turns me on.  I am slowly discovering how reducing my pleasure focus around my cock, and centering it on my man-cunt (ass) might get me closer to anal orgasms / prostate orgasms, which to me are the ultimate.

[BlondBttm]

On 11/17/2017 at 6:05 PM, KptNLine said:

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

Thru porn, and meeting Doms who suggested it. Honestly I first considered it many years ago when I was partying and never got and erection, but money at that time went to supplies... so its been on my radar a while.

2) What attracted you to it?

As I've gotten older, my erections are spotty.  And I'm almost exclusively a bb bttm and I've been deepening my understanding of my submissive side,  so, caging seemed a natural step

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?

Me wearing it at the Adult bookstore and getting bred. Yes very much

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?

Mostly positive. Tops that discover it while I'm at  the ABS seem to ghen instinctually know they can use me harder. When guys have groped me, most seem initially confused, and if they're bottoms they leave disappointed.  Only had 1 or 2 guys that I'd started  blowing stop after they realized I was caged, I'm assuming because they wanted a hard cock to suck

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?

Self locked. And inconsistent.  I'm uncut so sometimes theres a lot of pinching and discomfort so I'll go uncaged a while.

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

Mostly to fully explore using my cunt as my primary sex organ. Wouldn't mind exploring longer term locked periods, but until I find  Sir to work with...

 

[Biker18914]

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

i heard about it through porn.

2) What attracted you to it?

i am a bottom. seems normal for me.

 

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?

sucking cock through a glory-hole. when done, he signaled for my cock. i showed mine. we met outside and he took me and fucked me. it was GREAT

 

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?

mostly positive. the others are not much fun.

 

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?

self-locked but looking for a keyholder

 

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

have the lock sealed so it cannot be unlocked then be a whore

[chaste98fag]

1) Reading gay fetish stories on Nifty 

 

2) The power that the key holder has over me and the uncontrollable lust that overtakes you once you’re locked. Really amps up the slutty factor lol 

 

3) I actually haven’t met anyone irl that dabbled in chastity nor expressed any interest. Hopefully that’ll change one day. Online, though, I’ve met plenty of Doms who were interested but I’ve yet to meet the right one. 

 

4) I love being locked. I just wish someone would take my damn key away lol 

 

5) I’m currently self- locked 

 

6) Personally, I have a goal to become slutty over a longer period of being locked. It’s a dream to be overrun by cock lust and accepting all cocks that come my way. 

[Guest KptNLine]

Wow, can't believe I posted this 3 years ago - thank you for all the great responses everyone! I realized I asked you all a bunch of questions and never answered them myself. May be 3 years late, but here it goes:

 

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

I experienced my first hands free orgasm during anal sex in my early 20s. It wasn't something I (or He!) planned or expected, but it turned both of us on immensely. I was pretty naive and a "late bloomer," so I did a little research about hands free and prostate orgasms, and stumbled across chastity, and I was instantly attracted to the idea of it.

2) What attracted you to it?

It's hard to explain, but the concept of "no reciprocation" always appealed to me. The first guy I ever fooled around with was a childhood friend of mine, we were like 14 or 15 at the time. One thing led to another during a sleepover, some strip poker led to both of us sucking the other's cock. It felt great, and this became a regular thing for a few years until we both went to college. However, after only a few sessions, our "fun" evolved into less and less reciprocation on his part until eventually, I was only sucking him off. It was something I didn't really know how to process this at the time, the fact that getting a guy off and sucking dick felt better to me than having my own dick sucked. The arrangement wasn't something we talked about or planned, it just happened.

After going to college, I found it hard to replicate this experience. As most of us know, the general "expectation" during sex between males is that both will have erections and orgasms with ejaculation regardless of sexual role. 

Chastity was the first overt representation of an internal feeling that I had had since puberty and couldn't really put into words. It was simultaneously scary and exciting, and allowed me a visual representation of how I felt inside. 

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?

My first experience with chastity was with my Husband (Boyfriend at the time), after I introduced the idea to Him. It took Him a while to warm up to the idea and get comfortable with it. In the beginning, He'd keep me locked in between sexual encounters, but unlock me for sex. After a little while, I convinced Him to keep me locked for sex. It was an interesting experience. At the time, I still connected a lot of sexual pleasure with my dick - I hadn't learned differently yet. Even though the sex felt good, my dick straining in the cage was somewhat of a distraction. So physically it was alright, but psychologically I absolutely loved the experience. 

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?

Not very many others know I'm locked. The few experiences I've had with my Husband and others have been positive - but my experience is very limited.

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?

Locked by my Husband and Keyholder. 

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

I used to have "goals" related to chastity. Now my Husband and I have been practicing chastity since 2012, it's just sort of our "normal." Sometimes He unlocks me for sex, sometimes He edges me, sometimes I'm allowed to cum, often I'm not. It truly doesn't matter. It's the complete lack of control over this part of my life that is the ultimate "goal" for me - and I'm right where I want to be.

[IntoBBvisitor]

1) How did you first learn about chastity?

A guy who used to fuck me some years ago talked me into it. He was straight and married, didn t want to see my dick at all and he heard about it. He asked me to get one and put it on. I did. It didn t change anything for me but for him it was a total turn on. 

 

2) What attracted you to it?

The first thing that excited me was to obey the guy that wanted me to wear it. Then, I saw that all the men that fucked me were amused or excited by the cage. It s like it puts everyone in his place, automatically: I feel even more inferiror to them and they feel stronger and even more in charge.

 

3) What was your first sexual encounter involving chastity? Did you enjoy it?

The guy that wanted me to wear it. Yes, I liked it because he liked it.

 

4) Have you had mostly positive reactions to being locked? Any negative ones? Indifference?

Indiference sometimes but that s ok. Some questions. I always tell I wear it and it keeps the fake tops or vers guys away.

 

5) What is your current status (locked vs unlocked, self-locked vs keyholder, etc.)?

Locked when I get fucked.

 

6) Do you have any goals related to chastity you hope to achieve (longer periods locked, personal goals related to denial, etc.)?

No.