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Sensual/affectionate and Pervy at the same time?

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Im all for nasty, pervy, raw uninhibited sex, and i understand the thought process behind being just a hole, but when guys tell me theyre not into making out or any foreplay i tend to be turned off. I find something sluttier about a man that wants to tongue kiss me and suck om my nipples like tits, etc. in addition to giving me a load or two. Now granted this doesn't mean i can't be face fucked, slapped, choked, and fuck like a toy (cuz that's affection too😈) but i just prefer a fuller experience. Anyone else like this?5a54116252bda_2017-05-24-06-38-10(2).thumb.jpg.667b1a8252984d87cfd53a2646d8fde7.jpg 

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Best sessions are always the ones with foreplay, sucking, fucking - break - fucking, sucking - break - and so on that last a long while and end with a few loads from either one or more guys. Like you that doesn't exclude quick loads but those are just the ones that stand out and I will remember and will seduce me for a follow up meet with him/them.

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I think there's a time and place for both.  For instance, I don't expect the kissing and body contact (intimacy) at a bathhouse or group situation.  But, with 1on1s, I would definitely prefer some intimacy in addition to just the lusty fucking.  Some of the best hookups I've had were ones where we got right to it with the lust factor, but with some kissing and touching as well.  Then after I unloaded in him and we laid there chatting for a bit (with or without cuddling), we started on round 2 and it was more of a "love-making" experience rather than just a fuck.  Round 3 would generally be more of a "fun" fuck at that point...comfy enough with each other to still make each other feel great but be a little silly/fun in the process.  

Having said that, most of my hookups are just lusty fuck and go situations.  :-(

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For me it depends on the top - if I'm not overly attracted to them, or if they have bad personal hygiene then I'm more likely to want them to 'cum and go'. On the flip side if I'm attracted to the guy I like the kissing and sensuality to alternate with the pure pig fucking, and once we've both come and relaxing I like a decent cuddle.

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From the beginning, I've always enjoyed sensual and affectionate things like letting my partners helping me undress, caressing, stroking, back rubs and massages. I'd even include rimming under the sensual category too, although it does feel a bit less 'vanilla' than the other things I've mentioned.

My relationship to kissing has been an evolving one - at least in terms of male partners. For many years it wasn't something I particularly enjoyed. I'd only kiss reluctantly if I felt really pressured into it, or if I felt obligated to someone who had shown me a really good time. And being in relationships with women throughout all of this, I convinced myself that as long as I reserved that one intimate act for my actual female partners, it wasn't so bad that I was sucking cock and getting fucked behind their backs. Ironically, it was only after I had fully bought into the notion that if I don't make out with my hook-ups it's not cheating - it's just sex, that the idea of kissing anonymous strangers began to really turn me on. I had already kissed dozens of men, but I remember how thrilling the first time I went to the bathhouse after making the conscious decision to try to approach it with a fresh attitude. A white-haired bear arrived in my room and ended up being the first man I ever kissed willingly and enthusiastically. I got so into it that as we were laying together making out, all it took was for my cock to momentarily brush up against his belly and I spontaneously shot all over both of us.

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I am a passionate pig as well.    My dad and brother used me just as a hole to deposit their cum, piss and spit.    Later I learned while some men are like them, others like to be intimate.   For me, if the tops would body attention I give it to them, I get my intimacy needs met as I am worshiping their cocks and bodies.   There is quite a bit of intimacy and passion as I am tongue bathing a hairy, sweaty, daddy bear.    Equally I experience quite a bit of sensual pleasure as my nipples are pinched, twisted, and bit.     I also receive sensual please as cum, sweat, and piss is rubbed into my body while I am fucked in a sling.    I don't need to cuddling and kissing from strangers or anonymous fucks, I get that from my husband and my fuck buddies.

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On 1/12/2018 at 1:27 PM, barecubtop said:

I think there's a time and place for both.  For instance, I don't expect the kissing and body contact (intimacy) at a bathhouse or group situation.  But, with 1on1s, I would definitely prefer some intimacy in addition to just the lusty fucking.  Some of the best hookups I've had were ones where we got right to it with the lust factor, but with some kissing and touching as well.  Then after I unloaded in him and we laid there chatting for a bit (with or without cuddling), we started on round 2 and it was more of a "love-making" experience rather than just a fuck.  Round 3 would generally be more of a "fun" fuck at that point...comfy enough with each other to still make each other feel great but be a little silly/fun in the process.  

Having said that, most of my hookups are just lusty fuck and go situations.  :-(

See thats the thing,  i dont quite see it as love making. I actually think its sluttier to swap saliva and tongue kiss random guys at a bathhouse in addition to being bred/ fucked. Its a special kind of slutty feeling lol. I get what u mean tho. 

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On 1/12/2018 at 3:52 PM, bredbiyou said:

From the beginning, I've always enjoyed sensual and affectionate things like letting my partners helping me undress, caressing, stroking, back rubs and massages. I'd even include rimming under the sensual category too, although it does feel a bit less 'vanilla' than the other things I've mentioned.

My relationship to kissing has been an evolving one - at least in terms of male partners. For many years it wasn't something I particularly enjoyed. I'd only kiss reluctantly if I felt really pressured into it, or if I felt obligated to someone who had shown me a really good time. And being in relationships with women throughout all of this, I convinced myself that as long as I reserved that one intimate act for my actual female partners, it wasn't so bad that I was sucking cock and getting fucked behind their backs. Ironically, it was only after I had fully bought into the notion that if I don't make out with my hook-ups it's not cheating - it's just sex, that the idea of kissing anonymous strangers began to really turn me on. I had already kissed dozens of men, but I remember how thrilling the first time I went to the bathhouse after making the conscious decision to try to approach it with a fresh attitude. A white-haired bear arrived in my room and ended up being the first man I ever kissed willingly and enthusiastically. I got so into it that as we were laying together making out, all it took was for my cock to momentarily brush up against his belly and I spontaneously shot all over both of us.

Same here man.  Kissing, especially anon guys and especially more than one at a time in a session has its own slutty feel to it. Definitely turns me on. 

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On 1/12/2018 at 1:27 PM, barecubtop said:

I think there's a time and place for both.  For instance, I don't expect the kissing and body contact (intimacy) at a bathhouse or group situation.  But, with 1on1s, I would definitely prefer some intimacy in addition to just the lusty fucking.  Some of the best hookups I've had were ones where we got right to it with the lust factor, but with some kissing and touching as well.  Then after I unloaded in him and we laid there chatting for a bit (with or without cuddling), we started on round 2 and it was more of a "love-making" experience rather than just a fuck.  Round 3 would generally be more of a "fun" fuck at that point...comfy enough with each other to still make each other feel great but be a little silly/fun in the process.  

Having said that, most of my hookups are just lusty fuck and go situations.  :-(

I love the progression you talked about... wish I had a top like you!!!

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