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What things got you start barebacking?  

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  1. 1. What things got you start barebacking?

    • Bareback porn
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    • The desire for a better sex life
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    • A casual sex partner who wanted to bareback
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    • A boyfriend who wanted to bareback
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My ex would only bareback. Even the other tops he invited to fuck me or when I was gangbanged it would always be bareback. I just became so addicted to cock and seed I cannot stand condoms. I will let men fuck me with them only because I have a policy of not refusing any cock 

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First time I was fucking a guy with condom. We were playing around and he was rubbing his ass hole on my cock.  I had taken the condom off for some reason or other and it felt so good against his hole.  He lifted up and slowly slid down my cock..it was the best feeling ever. When I blasted a load inside I knew I was hooked.  I did bareback after that and really enjoyed although I was only doing so with a few guys.  After PrEP came out I started to bareback more often.  I've never stopped. It is the best feeling and best sex ever! I turn down condom sex and will only fuck bare. I turn down guys that want me to pull out also.  I want to blast my loads deep inside. I don't even watch condom porn any more. Such a turn off. To me all porn should be bareback and cum inside. Nothing better than watching cum dripping out of a well used hole!!

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  • 9 months later...
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On ‎10‎/‎26‎/‎2010 at 2:44 PM, rawTOP said:

Just wondering what factors got you to start barebacking...

My first bareback experience was unexpected and happened simply because it was offered to me (I didn't initiate it). I did worry, immediately after, about whether I'd caught anything. But, as time passed, I started to tell myself that - regardless of what happened - I'd accept the risk and live with it. My 'acceptance' of barebacking as normal was primarily influenced by watching porn. Then I started to seek out partners who didn't mind fucking without condoms. I very quickly realised that bareback fucking is much more pleasurable (both physically and psychologically), and I then developed what can only really be described as an addiction to bareback.

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For me it was long and gradual then a sudden switch. I was scrupulously safe for years - from the very first time I fucked a guy about 30 years ago in the mid1980s. Most of the guys at saunas I’d hookup with were the same. But in the last 5 or 10 years I found that guys in cruise clubs weren’t quite so well behaved- especially in glory holes when I found condoms being slipped off me when I topped and being removed when I bottomed. I was a good boy and would replace them but the pattern would repeat or guys would leave. So I increasingly I’d go along with it and if I fucked safe 4 or 5 times in an evening at a cruise club I’d willingly fuck raw once or twice. I started using apps only about 5 years ago and the same pattern emerged. It came to a head with a guy I’d hooked up on Grindr in Singapore. We had a great session at my hotel and he’d fucked me several times, sometimes with the condoms I’d brought, sometimes when he complained he didn’t want to use them, without. I thought about what he wanted and how great the sex was and tried to hook up again two nights later planning to tell him he could take me fully bareback. Initially he said he wasn’t available and I messaged to say that was a #hame as I was looking forward to raw sex. He. Then replied he was available but only do B.B. it was after midnight but he. Came over and bred me properly.  I decided then and there to find out about going onto PrEP and go fully bareback. Still safe as I’m on PrEP but more realistic as most guys now B.B.  It’s not a decision I’ve regretted! I’m now on BBRTS and seek out raw encounters and have refused on several occasions to use a condom on offer.

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On 11/7/2017 at 9:52 PM, bihairy said:

First time I was fucking a guy with condom. We were playing around and he was rubbing his ass hole on my cock.  I had taken the condom off for some reason or other and it felt so good against his hole.  He lifted up and slowly slid down my cock..it was the best feeling ever. When I blasted a load inside I knew I was hooked.  I did bareback after that and really enjoyed although I was only doing so with a few guys.  After PrEP came out I started to bareback more often.  I've never stopped. It is the best feeling and best sex ever! I turn down condom sex and will only fuck bare. I turn down guys that want me to pull out also.  I want to blast my loads deep inside. I don't even watch condom porn any more. Such a turn off. To me all porn should be bareback and cum inside. Nothing better than watching cum dripping out of a well used hole!!

Fucked/got fucked raw originally b4 HIV, then started going safe but did more oral.  Then about 5 years ago I kept getting stealthed and I'd find out later (and would be fucking turned on by it) or they'd say "let me just rub on your hole" or "just the head" then go all the way and breed.  Found it so hot.  A couple guys stealth and ran out, but a few guys did it, we'd talk about it then/later when I figured it out, and we kept doing it.  I became their breeding hole.  One guy stealth then kept coming back and didn't ask about using condom just fucked me bare.  He'd fuck, stay inside fall asleep then wake up still inside me and nutt again deep.  After a few times any ideas of reciprocation was out the window and my hole was a sextoy to use to get off a few times--sometimes we'd talk about how I became a receptacle for him and that was it (a little affection but not touching my dick).  

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I was fooling around with this guy, he was my first man that I had been with. We were in his bed, fooling around when he asked me if I wanted to fuck a man. I said yes. He just went and sat on my cock and started riding me. I shot a huge load inside of him.

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I was always into safe sex and was paranoid about catching STIs until I dated a guy for 2.5 years who insisted on fucking bareback.  I reluctantly agreed after we were both tested and found I really loved bottoming bb and taking loads...then after that relationship fizzled, condoms felt horrible and I wasn't good about using them, I quickly caught genital herpes (anally) within the first 3 post relationship guys I fucked.  I went onto PrEP and saw the risk as worth it, because I already have one of the major incurables now anyway and am protected from the worst.  Plus I found after getting hsv2, that most safe sexers are afraid to fuck a guy with hsv2 and 9 out of 10 times cut things off the second they find out.

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Mine was twofold. I had become horny to try dudes when wifes libido went to 0 and I could not find chicks to cheat on with. I was an at home parent so getting out or hosting was very problematic especially for women to agree to it. I had always used toys on my ass and I thought, why not always wondered what the real thing was like, and lets face it dudes will fuck anywhere anytime. My first few times were safe even though I know I prefer bare fucking as I can never cum with a condom on. Plus it became obvious I could not have condoms around with me or wife would notice. So I became a barebacking top but safe bottom.  It was good to cum inside something again and a lot of tops carry condoms. But eventually even that fell by the wayside since it was easier to not even think about condoms AND I could never overcome that need to get bred. I seriously would get mildly depressed if I got fucked by a covered dude and the cum did not end up in my ass. Now I never bring it up and just expect to get bred. I still agree from time to time to let a top use a condom but insist they spray their cum on my open hole. Even then most safe tops end up barebacking me once I start sliding my cheating bare hole on their pole.

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I may have and probably have stated this before here, but for me, was broken in as a BB bottom and always found it so much better bare of course, but was always worried and careful as possible and selective, it just finally overwhelmed me in my older age about how much great sex I'd missed out on over the years, and I began to openly bareback and with no questions asked a few years ago, and began enjoying it much more and stopped all the worry.  It did take me a good while to stop worrying once I began, but then something happened after finding this site and reading about all the others that were into it and enjoying it.  I became very comfortable about taking raw from anonymous and strangers that I would never have even taken the chance with before and it all became so natural and enjoyable, and have never looked back and never want to go back to the old ways no matter what.

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