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I'm so disappointed with CL right now. I have been posting trying to get a recharge load and they keep deleting my posts. Not sure if it is actually CL doing it or some condom nazi reporting me. UGGGH

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2 hours ago, bottomBBboi said:

I'm so disappointed with CL right now. I have been posting trying to get a recharge load and they keep deleting my posts. Not sure if it is actually CL doing it or some condom nazi reporting me. UGGGH

CL will not permit postings that overtly promote unsafe sex practices or the spread of STDs. It's all about the terms you use. Try reading through the ads that other people list to find ones offering similar trade that you're offering and see what kind of language they use. Try to use similar language in your listings. Also make sure that if you use a photo that it's sufficiently tantalizing without being too pornographic/obscene.

I've only ever had one ad pulled from CL because I slipped up on the wording.

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6 hours ago, mancunthole said:

CL sucks. I've only ever had one "good" hookup from CL. Most have been flakes. BBRT has been good. Looking for other options that don't cost a lot.

I have the exact opposite experience. CL hands down has been the easiest and most reliable place for me to get a good hookup. I have only ever met 1 person from BBRT out of hundreds of promised meetups and then suddenly no responses.

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Guest BBBoyfromTN

I guess because it's open to everyone CL has a lot of sex-negative pearl clutching sex police who will flag anything they deem "offensive" and I've had my ads flagged too if I was too open and honest about what I wanted. I'd get guys emailing me begging me not to do bare and warning on the perils of HIV/AIDS. Lesson learned. On sites where you have to create a profile I stick to my usual brand of being honest and upfront about who I am and what I want. On open sites like CL I have to be more vague and coy. The downside is you sometimes have to wade through guys who aren't at the same place as your desires. It depends on where you live too. Dallas seems to have a lot of guy's patroling the ads and flagging anything they deem too outrageous. They're anonymous so you can't find out who they are to try and placate them. That's why I stick to Grindr.

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CL is like this in most areas, have been flagged several times in the past, I guess for being too upfront and open about desires and things.

Being a bit vague, but then also exclaiming to be very open minded about pretty much everything helped with a few not being flagged and meeting up with a few guys on there, but then have also run into mostly fakers and no shows, so just quit using CL at all.

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