Why do bottoms send dick pics ?

[Guygonebad]

1 minute ago, find91 said:

Tops actually ask???

Wtf for?? It's your ass and holes I'm more concerned with. I could give a flying fuck  about your dick. I'm not the type of top that you have to hide your dick but don't expect me to play or touch it.

Yes Sir! My kind of Alpha Top Man!!

[find91]

12 minutes ago, POZitiveBoyZ said:

Oh My Fucking Gosh LoL I'm just sooo freaking confused about that someone is asking this question LoL And more of that I'm confused about how many of you are living with wrong stereotypes which was written to all of you by the porn industry. So, BoyZ. How is about equality? Bottom it is NOT just a hole. So, if someone wanna fuck me he will do it with his mouth too. I'm a bottom. But I love a BJ in the both sides. You are watching Toooo MUCH porn. And you are a very Wrong.   

It has nothing to do with porn. It's a mind set some bottoms like being treated like a hole and are very anal focus. Nothing wrong with that.

[DarkroomTaker]

Does it really matter???

I am a pure bottom, but love looking and eating other bottoms and love their pics.

I have no problems with sending Dick pics if asked.

Sometimes if a top messages me, I may ask for an ass pic, as I am sure If he likes , i will eat his butt....

Its all good...

 

[ErosWired]

4 hours ago, POZitiveBoyZ said:

Oh My Fucking Gosh LoL I'm just sooo freaking confused about that someone is asking this question LoL And more of that I'm confused about how many of you are living with wrong stereotypes which was written to all of you by the porn industry. So, BoyZ. How is about equality? Bottom it is NOT just a hole. So, if someone wanna fuck me he will do it with his mouth too. I'm a bottom. But I love a BJ in the both sides. You are watching Toooo MUCH porn. And you are a very Wrong.   

If you’re quite finished gathering us all together into the same porn-theater-in-your-head, allow me to inform you that you are mistaken. 1) This thread has nothing to do with equality; it’s about signalling sexual interest and availability. 2) A bottom is not just a hole? You haven’t read many threads here, have you? 3) This discussion isn’t about porn, but about customs in online connecting for hookups - an activity that is not illustrated in porn because of its primarily text-based nature. 4) Do you often walk into crowded meeting-places and announce to everyone present that “You are all very Wrong”? How is that working out for you?

To the OP:

Last week a Grindr boy hit me up with “dik pic”.

 I replied, “Why would a total bottom have a dick pick?”

He answered, “bc I wanna see it”

Right. I’ll remember from now on to make and keep at the ready a full collection of nude details of my entire body just to distribute to pic-collecting fappers on the internet.

Not.

[408curious]

On 7/14/2019 at 12:15 PM, find91 said:

Tops actually ask???

Wtf for?? It's your ass and holes I'm more concerned with. I could give a flying fuck  about your dick. I'm not the type of top that you have to hide your dick but don't expect me to play or touch it.

Dunno.   Strange that.  Maybe they say they re tops ... but ...?

[Ozpig]

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Totally beyond me my dick is totally irrelevant, it's small, I don't want to cum and my holes are all a top should be interested in

 

 

[find91]

13 hours ago, 408curious said:

Dunno.   Strange that.  Maybe they say they re tops ... but ...?

Yeah I find it strange as well, I suspect most are vers. Even if you're a top and like sucking dick why would you care what size the bottom is ??

[Newbottom2112]

On 3/8/2018 at 2:13 AM, Davidc said:

As a top I’m becoming very frustrated that bottoms send dick pics ,I’m not interested in your dick.

its your ass I want to see , ideally with spread cheeks and a cum filled hole.

For me that’s the biggest turn on and tells me your a slut , my first question if some one contacts me for a instant hook up is “got a load in you “ if so I’m round in a flash.

i guess that’s why I like dark rooms , I can almost always find a freshly fucked a.

Agree 100%. I do not know why bottoms show their useless dicks.

[crawford912]

Fuck, it drives me insane when tops ask for dick pics. I instantly question how much of a top they are. The only dick pic i have ever sent is of my cock lock in a cage. Other than that, i literally don't have one. I can bombard you with hole pics and picks of me being fucked and bred, but you won't see my cock, and ideally, you won't see much of it when you use me, either. I'm not vers. I'm not into getting sucked. It's not going to get hard (unless you started degrading me and treating me like a real piggy whore... then it'll get rock hard in a hurry)... and I absolutely don't need you to make me cum, or to blow my load when you're using me. I just need tops to use me to get themselves off, dump their seed in me, and let me suck them clean as they leave.

[crawford912]

That said, when a bottom is game to chat with me and has a cock pic, 99% of the time, I can get him inside me. 

[ChrgdPuP]

You don’t like being asked for pics because you don’t want them to care about your cock. You’ve created a very specific definition of what brings you pleasure and filter people through till you’re left with your “real” tops. Y’all need to own that and not pretend like you’re some ultasubs willing to do anything requested when you’re clearly not.

I don’t mind when a total top asks to see my dick. If that’s what they’re into and gets them more excited to get in me cool. It actually feels really good when I’m rock hard and they use it to pull me harder onto their cock. I suppose that doesn’t happen much with the useless ones. 

Moreover, if they’re my SIR/Handler my entire body is for their pleasure. Yes I get the most pleasure out of my hole being used, but if he tells me to fuck some Twink for his enjoyment that’s what I do. 

What’s really annoying is getting bottoms messaging fellow bottoms for dick pics/expecting they’ll be willing to top. That needs to stop. Take 2 minutes and scan a profile for position and if it says bottom move on. Vers/bottoms are fair game, they left that door open, so go bother them. 

There’s a top drought and being thirsty isn’t going to make it rain. If you’re a bottom hitting up another bottom, it should be with pics showing your dick is fully operational, you’ve got a wild hair and their the special bottom you want to scratch it with. 

Edited July 18, 2019 by PupShock

[Rascal9]

8 hours ago, PupShock said:

You don’t like being asked for pics because you don’t want them to care about your cock. You’ve created a very specific definition of what brings you pleasure and filter people through till you’re left with your “real” tops. Y’all need to own that and not pretend like you’re some ultasubs willing to do anything requested when you’re clearly not.

I don’t mind when a total top asks to see my dick. If that’s what they’re into and gets them more excited to get in me cool. It actually feels really good when I’m rock hard and they use it to pull me harder onto their cock. I suppose that doesn’t happen much with the useless ones. 

Moreover, if they’re my SIR/Handler my entire body is for their pleasure. Yes I get the most pleasure out of my hole being used, but if he tells me to fuck some Twink for his enjoyment that’s what I do. 

What’s really annoying is getting bottoms messaging fellow bottoms for dick pics/expecting they’ll be willing to top. That needs to stop. Take 2 minutes and scan a profile for position and if it says bottom move on. Vers/bottoms are fair game, they left that door open, so go bother them. 

There’s a top drought and being thirsty isn’t going to make it rain. If you’re a bottom hitting up another bottom, it should be with pics showing your dick is fully operational, you’ve got a wild hair and their the special bottom you want to scratch it with. 

Thank you! I agree with all this, you said it perfectly! Also, LOVE that line “there’s a top drought and being thirsty isn’t going to make it rain” that’s a great catch phrase! May I use that?

[find91]

9 hours ago, PupShock said:

You don’t like being asked for pics because you don’t want them to care about your cock. You’ve created a very specific definition of what brings you pleasure and filter people through till you’re left with your “real” tops. Y’all need to own that and not pretend like you’re some ultasubs willing to do anything requested when you’re clearly not.

I don’t mind when a total top asks to see my dick. If that’s what they’re into and gets them more excited to get in me cool. It actually feels really good when I’m rock hard and they use it to pull me harder onto their cock. I suppose that doesn’t happen much with the useless ones. 

Moreover, if they’re my SIR/Handler my entire body is for their pleasure. Yes I get the most pleasure out of my hole being used, but if he tells me to fuck some Twink for his enjoyment that’s what I do. 

What’s really annoying is getting bottoms messaging fellow bottoms for dick pics/expecting they’ll be willing to top. That needs to stop. Take 2 minutes and scan a profile for position and if it says bottom move on. Vers/bottoms are fair game, they left that door open, so go bother them. 

There’s a top drought and being thirsty isn’t going to make it rain. If you’re a bottom hitting up another bottom, it should be with pics showing your dick is fully operational, you’ve got a wild hair and their the special bottom you want to scratch it with. 

You allude to a big problem I've notice in gay male hookup culture. People not respecting others chosen position. It happens with tops as well. It's annoying as fuck when people try to flip people/ coerce them into another position that they are not. And it never works, just because a bottom may have a nice dick or a top has a nice ass don't mean that they are going to flip into another position. Accept what they say or what they post on their profile and move the fuck along.

 

[tallslenderguy]

3 hours ago, find91 said:

You allude to a big problem I've notice in gay male hookup culture. People not respecting others chosen position. It happens with tops as well. It's annoying as fuck when people try to flip people/ coerce them into another position that they are not. And it never works, just because a bottom may have a nice dick or a top has a nice ass don't mean that they are going to flip into another position. Accept what they say or what they post on their profile and move the fuck along.

 

i'm 99.999999 bottom. i do fuck on occasion, but it takes really specific kind of guy to arrouse me in that way, so i stopped putting "bottom versatile" on my profiles and just put "bottom" or "total bottom."  it's accurate, i am happiest that way.  i've gotten to the point where i'm almost afraid to hook with anyone who has "versatile" in their profile because that seems to consistently mean "i want to get fucked" in my experience lol. i went to a lot of trouble to pick a guy up (literally, he had no car and lived a couple hours away) and spend the weekend with him. He was "versatile" in his profile, and we spent days chatting online before the hookup. i was painfully clear about being a total bottom and not wanting or liking my penis touched, and he repeated stated that he knew lots of guys like me and understood and respected that "fact."  Damn if he didn't do my penis twice.  When i spoke to him about it he got upset and made fun of my being a total bottom and not wanting my penis touched.  i've begun to think it's just an ego centric thing where these guys simply don't get that everyone is not like them, that there are actually different people out there. sigh

[bbcunthole]

my dick is tiny , i send pics so men know . not all like that n id rather not disapoint . more often than not they love that im so pathetically endowed n they wana hurt me all the more abuse n humiliate me . i love men who do any sort of violence or cbt on me if it gets there big cock rock hard. tyhere are so few cocks who have any interest in me ejoying a fuck in the traditional sense . they either dont care about me or expect im fucking purely for there beniit n pleasure , which of course is fine with me . i am !!