How do you guys get laid?

[travelingbi]

On 11/13/2018 at 5:32 AM, hornycumslut91 said:

So how do you guys get laid these days without Craigslist? How successful have you been?

I do use Doublelist with mixed results. Craigslist was definitely the best source for me to find tops to fuck me. Ever since Craigslist disappeared my anonymous fuck parties have been more difficult to organize and attendance has dropped. Doublelist is slowly catching on. But, it's nowhere near what Craigslist used to be. 

[HardOneLA]

On 1/10/2019 at 1:23 PM, travelingbi said:

I do use Doublelist with mixed results. Craigslist was definitely the best source for me to find tops to fuck me. Ever since Craigslist disappeared my anonymous fuck parties have been more difficult to organize and attendance has dropped. Doublelist is slowly catching on. But, it's nowhere near what Craigslist used to be. 

Funny, I was never into using Craigslist for sex, but reading some of the comments recently makes me realize it was a missed opportunity!  Damn.  I wonder what it was about that site?  Because it was essentially a 'gender neutral' site, as opposed to a 'gay site'??

[travelingbi]

1 hour ago, HardOneLA said:

Funny, I was never into using Craigslist for sex, but reading some of the comments recently makes me realize it was a missed opportunity!  Damn.  I wonder what it was about that site?  Because it was essentially a 'gender neutral' site, as opposed to a 'gay site'??

I found with Craigslist I tapped into a lot of guys that wouldn't normally be using m2m phone apps or m2m websites. I live in Las Vegas and I found with Craigslist here in LV, I seemed to meet a lot more closeted married men, or just horny str8 guys that had given up trying to find pussy and would let me either suck them off or would fuck me. I'd guess that if I had 15 guys show up to a breed & seed, that probably 30% of them self identified as str8. But in an anonymous setting, they were willing to dip their dicks in a hot hole. 

Edited January 12, 2019 by travelingbi

[justsexnowatl]

bbrt is a guaranteed hookup for me.  I like it best because it's also easier to arrange a 3 or 4 way too.  Just tell a  buddy "check out xxxx".  I almost always logon bbrt and immediately search for prior guys I had a good time with and hit up for a repeat or maybe add a 3rd.

Second most frequent is prior fucks that text me saying "hey".  I know they're looking and if I'm free I'll fuck - usually that's a pre-arranged thing.  Text during the day to fuck that night, or maybe join a small group.

Those are best for when I'm vers or topping and being "choosy".  If I'm in heat and wanna get fucked all I can, the sex club is the only option for me!  Hours are limited to certain nights and not usually my ideal hookup times, but easy and reliable when I wanna be a total slut bottom

  

[Guest BBBoyfromTN]

Grindr, BBRT, MyLOL, and old fashioned cruising at the gym, parks, a trail here in town, and stores like Target that have known cruise bathrooms. I think with Craigslist gone it’s been a huge hit but I think we also romanticize it with nostalgia thinking about the hot hookups off there and forgetting how many flakes and picture collectors were on there as well. It’s especially tough for guys who escorted/hustled who used it as a main means of getting tricks. As I’ve said in other posts I used to do that and CL was great for it. I do like BBRT as it’s got the parties/get togethers on there and you know the guys want bare, whereas on Grindr and MyLOL you’ve got to negotiate it or don’t mention it until you get things going. What sucks is it’s forced me into doing riskier cruising as there’s always a chance you can get busted or beat up by whoever you pick up and I’ve had some dicey situations I’ve gotten into as a result. Granted, that happened on CL too...all part of the risks when you do anon hookups.

[Guest SecretCumWhore]

11 hours ago, BBBoyfromTN said:

Grindr, BBRT, MyLOL, and old fashioned cruising at the gym, parks, a trail here in town, and stores like Target that have known cruise bathrooms. I think with Craigslist gone it’s been a huge hit but I think we also romanticize it with nostalgia thinking about the hot hookups off there and forgetting how many flakes and picture collectors were on there as well. It’s especially tough for guys who escorted/hustled who used it as a main means of getting tricks. As I’ve said in other posts I used to do that and CL was great for it. I do like BBRT as it’s got the parties/get togethers on there and you know the guys want bare, whereas on Grindr and MyLOL you’ve got to negotiate it or don’t mention it until you get things going. What sucks is it’s forced me into doing riskier cruising as there’s always a chance you can get busted or beat up by whoever you pick up and I’ve had some dicey situations I’ve gotten into as a result. Granted, that happened on CL too...all part of the risks when you do anon hookups.

Stay safe sexy.   

[FelchingPisser]

I have always been good at building up a list of men who want my dick more than one time.  I have a lot of them...so I can rotate through them and not get bored.  I love the leather weekends--like CLAW where I am right now--for new ass.

[garsento]

I have used apps to establish contact with people (Recon, particularly), but most of the people I have sex with are regulars to one extent or another.

[MuscledHorse]

Due to changes in US law I can't fully comment here. But when I need more I am at sex events or get guys off whatever app I happen to open (I am on most all of them).

[leatherpunk16]

I don't get laid anymore. Once in a great while, someone will come through on the hookup sites, but even those aren't much fun for me. Every hot guy in my town is as straight as an arrow, and if they are not, then they are closeted. Since I have no gaydar - never got the biotic upgrade because I don't qualify for an L2 implant - I can't bring them round to the subject without being a threat to their masculinity. The ones who are left are not desirable sex partners, or don't want to play with me. In the past year, I've played on and off with this one guy who is barely a participant in the sexual connection. I last met him at a hotel room for a cumdump session, and his hole was too bristly and I was just there to help him reach a goal number. But he didn't seem to reactive to anything I was doing. That's the kind of thing I have to look forward to in hookups these days.

And that sucks. I'm an attractive guy, but all I seem to be capable of scoring are ugly guys, fat old men, and guys who don't know how to fuck. I come away from a hookup, and I don't feel good about it. I don't enjoy it. The sex is meaningless. It doesn't necessarily HAVE to mean anything - that's how we phags are programmed - but I'd rather be more than just a functionary plaything. I get way more enjoyment out of touching myself in the shower for a ball exam. That's how bad it is.

There's a hot dude at my gym who likes me. He's probably straight and has a child. I'd love to get seeded by him, but I don't know how to bring him round to it and express this interest, lest I lose the friendship by the proposition. He's certainly given me no signals of sexual interest, but that doesn't mean they don't exist. I just don't know what to look for, and never have. When I'm at an event that is sexually charged (like a piss party or IML), that's easier to determine, but at home, the signs are much less obvious.

So I never get laid anymore, and when I do, it sucks. It's not fun.