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Can we retire “BBC”?


DrrAld

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On 1/19/2019 at 9:45 AM, DrrAld said:

Totally agree about the faces being subjective. What attracts one might not attract another. However, the issue isn’t about aesthetic beauty and doesn’t change the fact that you don’t see White guys, “attractive” or not, being courted, marketed, or labelled as having “Big White Cocks”. If anything, it’s simply normalised to “Big Dick” or “Monster Cock” and race isn’t involved.

Actually, we do: "big white cock" in Google returns about 25 million results. It's a relatively recent (last 10 years?) sort of reaction to "BBC".

I have never understood the particular obsession with "big black", but I've come to accept that there are probably more black men at the extreme end of the scale size-wise. I don't know how else to interpret the abundant visual evidence and the many testimonials I've heard from people who aren't generally given to exaggeration or crude bias. This clustering at the top end of "endowment" would naturally lead to a disproportionate representation in size-focused productions. However, the existence of this minority does not necessarily make the average penis size among black men any larger than the general population.

We also know for sure that penis size is at least partially determined by genes, so I wouldn't discount the possibility that there are sub-populations with widely divergent average sizes among men with significant genetic African heritage, given the large genetic diversity within Africa.

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On 1/17/2019 at 8:25 AM, nelly26 said:

When black men are casted, it's very noticeable that they will have a nice body and a large penis but lack in the face department (meaning, they're more or less ugly).

I think there is truth to this observation for a lot of porn. As far back as the 1980s in my recollection, I noticed that some standards were only applied to white performers. They didn't seem care about the faces of the black men hired and sometimes not even their bodies. It was all about the "Interracial!" taboo and big dick. It often seemed like they had just gone to a random street where there were lots of black men and took the first few who said yes. Some looked like they had rough lives. Some were OK. Few would I have categorized as cute or handsome.

The good news is that it's never been cheaper to make porn, so anyone with concerns about representation can meet them head on with productions that reflect the faces, bodies, dicks, and themes that he wants to portray as the alternative. 

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“BBC”is clearly based in racism.  It is completely a fetish.  Guys who are only interested in size simply need to say “hung”. People who ask for “BBC” find the idea of being submissive to a black man more.  Whether it’s more degrading, shameful, exciting, etc.  

i never thought of it as offensive, but I’m white.  Thinking about it, it is obviously offensive.  White people absolutely should shy away from using “BBC”.  

 

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18 hours ago, Cuntboyfury said:

“BBC”is clearly based in racism.  It is completely a fetish.  Guys who are only interested in size simply need to say “hung”. People who ask for “BBC” find the idea of being submissive to a black man more.  Whether it’s more degrading, shameful, exciting, etc.  

i never thought of it as offensive, but I’m white.  Thinking about it, it is obviously offensive.  White people absolutely should shy away from using “BBC”.  

 

I enjoy the anonymous sex scene/talk between men because it's hot but also because it's free from the Politically Correct nonsense that keeps censoring society. Sex profiles can say freely say that they don't like Asians or old guys, or whatever. For someone like myself tired of the PC bullshit, I find this refreshing. And BBC is part of the this PC-less language that I love.

 

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I totally agree with you about retiring BBC.  #1 I find it's often used as an eye-catcher and then reality doesn't measure up to their boastful profile.

Now, in my personal experiences after a lifetime of sex:  most men of color with whom I've had sex have indeed been very well endowed - very.  But I would rather just forget the whole BBC description and get to a cock in my hole, regardless of it's color, ethnicity, nationality, or size.  Well, in the interest of transparency, size does sometimes matter.  Oink!

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15 hours ago, hungry_hole said:

I enjoy the anonymous sex scene/talk between men because it's hot but also because it's free from the Politically Correct nonsense that keeps censoring society. Sex profiles can say freely say that they don't like Asians or old guys, or whatever. For someone like myself tired of the PC bullshit, I find this refreshing. And BBC is part of the this PC-less language that I love.

 

“It’s not a problem”

”Toughen  up”

”it’s always been this way”

”we just want to be left alone”

”so tired of PC Bull Sh**”

All things a white guy says when confronted with racist language or behavior he propagates.  

Because fighting racism is “politically correct nonsense”.  

 

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10 hours ago, hungry_hole said:

Should we then retire the term "Bear", who may offend these poor men who are "treated like an animal"?

 

If there were a big movement from chubby and hairy guys to put an end to saying "Bear," then we might consider it. Most guys I know who are bears are into being bears. 

There is a big difference between using a term that bothers someone and a nickname they don't mind or enjoy. 

Most of what people go on about "being Politically Correct" is what my momma called "being Polite." Using/not using language people object to is no different than insisting on calling someone "Mike" or "Mikey" when they have told you over and over again that they prefer "Michael."

 

The only issue is I see is this. Do most black guys hate "BBC"? I know several who love to go on and on about their "BBC." I think as long as there is still a sizable segment of the black, gay community who like using the term and like hearing the term, it isn't going to go away. That said, if someone tells me they don't want to hear it, I will do my best not to say it to them. 

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Don't know about the rest of u guys, but I for one am sick to death of PC creeping into every aspect of my life including now the bedroom.  When did we stop being adults and becum so fucking soft and easily offended over every fucking thing?.. Tired of being sensored and told what to say and all in the name of Political  fucking Correctness..  shove a dick down my throat,  cum down my throat you can even piss down my throat but my response to those who are pushing this ... stop shoving this PC shit down my throat. 

Ps..  " The Great Overseer" will now suspend me again or excommunicate me for good for improper content.. 

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12 hours ago, 2014Anthony said:

Don't know about the rest of u guys, but I for one am sick to death of PC creeping into every aspect of my life including now the bedroom.  When did we stop being adults and becum so fucking soft and easily offended over every fucking thing?.. Tired of being sensored and told what to say and all in the name of Political  fucking Correctness..  shove a dick down my throat,  cum down my throat you can even piss down my throat but my response to those who are pushing this ... stop shoving this PC shit down my throat.

I couldn't agree more!

The PC movement has transformed itself into a nasty hidden form of censorship, not becoming of a society that prides itself for it's freedom.  Censorship is never good  but PC attitude is so nasty because it hides behind the cloak of "being nice".

The emotion "being offended" does not exist and really what they are saying is "I feel ashamed". My suggestion to people who are easily offended would to learn to deal with your shame instead of expecting the rest of the world to avoid any mention of situations that may trigger shame.

 

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