Not Jerking off as a slut bottom

[Scottyrim]

How do some guys just lie there and be slut bottoms, waiting in dark sex clubs seemingly forever and just in position to be fucked  and not touch themselves. I am a bottom, but I continuously touch myself. Some guys seem to have a lot of self discipline.

[Daddyph]

I can’t help but play with my dick. I’m with you, I don’t have that kind of self control. So my regular top men cage my dock and restrain me before they fuck me. I live that !!!

[backdoorjimmy]

It's simple for me because I just don't care about my dick. It doesn't matter at all to me. My butthole is my primary sex organ and that's where I like to be pleasured. If someone wants to perform oral on me, they can eat me out but I'd never agree to be sucked off.

If someone wants me to pleasure their ass, I'll eat it out or finger it or even use a dildo on them. But my dick and balls are strictly off limits; no sucking, no fucking and no touching.

[Fuzzypup]

I usually jerk, but after I bust my slut lust goes away. Easy solution, just ordered the smallest chastity cage that I can cram my cock into. Can't wait to be locked up and used!

[Ozpig]

I was taught to learn that my pussy was my sex organ and never allowed to touch myself and I got very used to it and that is the way it now is. I very rarely get hard getting fucked, find very few tops that fuck me have any interest in my cock and I like it like that. I am there to c onceentrate on my tops' needs and service their cocks and take their seed. my total enjoyment comes from them filling me with their cock and seed.

[tallslenderguy]

i do tough my penis... a lot, but never when i'm with another guy.  i use it to edge and ramp up my horniness as a bottom. i frequently go a week to ten days edging using my penis and not cumming.

i do like the way it feels cumming from penis stimulation, but emotionally i don't like or want it. i still do, and am disappointed after i cum that way.  A Dom/Top can (and have) manipulate that energy to control me and keep me a very horny bottom (i don't need "T" for that). i love the idea of having a Guy who locks my penis. 

The only time i am really emotionally/internally good with having my penis touched is when a Dom/Top truly relates to it and treats it like a "clit" or "nub" or something obviously different in His mind from the Cock that He has.  It's really the distinction that seems to matter?  i've had Dom guys who stimulated my "clit" to make me cum as part of their need to control and dominate, but the way they did it was such that i was in a very sub place. It wasn't like i was potent or had something i could use to penetrate with, but they literally treated me like i have a pussy and clit and am not like them, just have a couple of sub body parts they can use to control my pleasure and pleasure Their Self with.  Not a lot of guys like that that i have found, but really amazing when it happens. It can be a very effective way to Dom.

[WildAsianBoi]

For me it's the anticipation that keeps me going,  and the atmosphere

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

I play with it too much. This is why I need to be in Chasity. But when having sex, it’s tiny because I’m mentally focused on my top breeding me and using my boipussy for his pleasure.

[LittleCumSewer]

if I'm laying in a sling taking loads I will jerk off a bit while guys fuck me just to show them how much I love taking their bare cocks up my ass.more so if im not wearing a jockstrap as I often take it off in the sling. if im face down ass up taking loads in a bed or on the floor or facing backwards on porntheatre seats I may also jerk off a bit but always save summing till everyone is finished using me. when im taking loads on a fuckbench jerking off isn't really possible plus I'm usually too busy sucking cocks while I get fucked

[Guest]

I don't have a problem with needing to touch myself as I know if I blow I don't feel horny anymore and that's the over riding thing. But what annoys me is guys grabbing my cock during sex and playing with it so try to keep that to a minimum and simply focus on being a good bottom

[Guest]

Simple.  My ass is my sex organ.  I cum when getting fucked, but don't touch my cock.  

[Guygonebad]

I touch when I’m alone, but when being fucked or serving a top, I really don’t care about my cock. I mostly cum w/o touching myself when being fucked

[HardOneLA]

Simple, we know what we're made for and how we're meant to be used.  Can lay over the fuck bench at Slammer for ages until first a hand touches my ass, then a cock, and then...  It's the anticipation of the unknown that brings excitement and then being mounted and bred that brings fulfillment.  OINK!

[cumbaby]

I use my cock with girls, but I never let the tops touch my cock and i'm almost never even hard when being fucked. It distracts me from making sure that I serve my top well and i prefer the anal orgasms and the feeling of cock fucking my creamy fuckhole.

Edited November 22, 2019 by cumbaby

[Guest BreedMeInVegas]

Touching yourself/jacking off is simply just another activity that guys are either into or they aren't.  Just like some guys like playing with their nipples and it helps them get off, others don't, and the same thing goes for playing with your cock as a bottom, some guys do it because they like it and it helps them get off, and others don't.

For me I rarely play with myself, and actually prefer to bottom while locked in chastity.  I've learned to turn the experience and feeling of getting fucked into a feeling that gets me off.  When I'm getting fucked, I have lot's of orgasms, I just don't shoot my load.  For me, having an orgasm is possible in other ways besides shooting my load.