Bottoms that don't stay still.

[Starwood]

I am 

When I am been fucked and I know that the top is starting to build up a head of steam and shoot, I stay in the same position and let him go for it. 
If the top is going to cum why move?
Just recently I have been fucking a couple of guys and just when I have started to get into the rhythm and feel my balls tighten the bloody bottom moves breaks my strokes. I lose the feeling and don't cum.
Of course I am not saying bottoms should just lie there, but at the end , ust let the top do the work and let him cum.
Or is that just me?

[bathhousebill]

NO  Not just you.    Agree -just don't lie there - but don't ruin the experience for either of us.

One time  a jerk bottom was moving so much he threw me off balance and I almost got hurt.  

 

[Guest apollobchbttm]

I also allow the top to use me. However, he wants. However, I will use my highly train ass muscles to milk that cock.

[Guest]

I would agree it is not you.  I too have had the experience of a fucking a bottom and the dude just wouldn't be still; in act, all he did was move around and gyrate on my cock so much I had a difficult maintaining my erection because of his constant motion.  Needless to say, he did not get a cum load in his ass.  He was none too happy, but that is the way it was.  I personally felt like I wasted my time with him. 

[Tuffenuf]

Nope, it's not just you.

The worse are the ones who begin to straighten out their legs just as you're getting close to squirting in their fuckhole.  Sometimes it's like a wrestling match, me trying to keep their legs bent for maximum penetration and them trying to straighten their legs and preventing me from going balls deep. 

[NLbear]

During sex I'll take any position the top wants me to be in (unless it's getting too uncomfortable to stay in that position for long) but when I notice he's working up to shooting his load I stay still. If he wants me to shift I'm sure he'll tell me.

[Spunkinmyarse]

When a top enters the last stage of his rut and embarks on the final leg of his journey towards orgasm, I try to stay as still as possible for him.  It’s in no-one’s interest to force him to change direction and break his stride.  At this point, it’s clear he’s found the golden spot in my arse that’s going to get him off, and he should just be left to it.  Bottoms like me live for such moments, and it’s both foolish and arrogant to think I can enhance the experience for him with show-off maneuvers that should be left behind at an earlier stage of the fuck.

The only exception is when I find myself in such a position that I cannot physically endure it for more than a few minutes.  It’s never my arse that gives out, but some other supporting body part, such as a knee or a thigh muscle.  Even then, I’ll put up with an enormous amount of discomfort to get his load, and only shift position once it’s clear the point of no return has been reached.

[Guest apollobchbttm]

9 hours ago, apollobchbttm said:

I also allow the top to use me. However, he wants. However, I will use my highly train ass muscles to milk that cock.

Forgot to add it's all about the top and satisfying his need whatever it made be. If I treat his cock right my need is meant when he blows his cum load deep in my hole.

[likaleather]

When I can see the top getting into his rhythm and working towards the home stretch, I don't move or change position or anything to interfere.  I just look in the tops eyes and face so I can see that moment we he loses himself and loads me up.

[Chubprv4poz]

I tend to like to move in sync with my top.  Maybe twice has a man told me to stay still.

Now I can't help but wonder if I am not doing my best to serve...

[skinster]

Twitchy bottoms are annoying - no concept or comprehension what gives a top pleasure.

 

[Pogie]

This is all very interesting,  I always worry tops will think I'm a dead fuck if I don't do anything

[funpozbottom]

Off the top of my head, three reasons come to mind:

1. Physical Discomfort. I am not a gymnast, yoga master, or bendy toy. If I'm put in a position with one leg behind my head while bending backward on the edge of a couch, I'm probably not going to be able to hold it long. Also, the position, the curve of the penis, and/or a lack of lube can cause a lot of internal discomfort where you just have to move.
2. Rhythm and Technique. Everyone has a different rhythm, everyone enjoys a different technique. Some tops speed up when they're ready to cum while others slow down. Some like bottoms that squirm and moan, others want bottoms to stay still. If you are with someone you've never fucked with before, there can be some miscommunication while you learn the other's likes. If the top isn't cumming, the bottom may think he needs to change something to get you off.
3. It's what they do in porn. Humans learn through imitation and repetition. However, unless you are at an orgy and take notes on everyone's technique, there aren't any role models for how to have sex except porn. Sometimes a top or bottom can try to emulate what he's seen in a video instead of reading signals from his partner.

If your bottom is moving my advise is to pick a posture that's not too extreme so your bottom has the endurance to hold it, and, if you have a bottom that you don't think is reading you correctly, just tell him what you want. Telling him: "Stay there. Don't move."  tells him everything he needs to know.

Oh yeah, there is one more thing. A bottom can intentionally move to break your stride just to make the fuck last longer. 

[Starwood]

12 hours ago, skinster said:

Twitchy bottoms are annoying - no concept or comprehension what gives a top pleasure.

 

Men, thanks for your comments. The movement I meant was , as skinster says, "Twitchy" bottoms.

If I am uncomfortable whilst getting bred, then I move to a better position, but what I ment is when start gyrating as you are about to shoot.

Yes Porn has a lot to answer for.

[BB4fking]

Can’t say that the gyrating bottoms have caused me much grief, but I seem to have been doing a lot of fucking in recent years standing up and since I seem to be a little shorter than many of the guys I’m fucking it’s often me rather than the bottom that is in muscle straining positions - literally on tip toes almost! So I’ve found it frustrating when despite my efforts to bend them over they keep rising up and I lose my rhythm or my cock slips out. I’ve given up a number of times when the bottom has done this 2 or 3 times on me.